FabSwingers.com forum: Straight to the point or delicate probe

By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

His all, struggling to get responses to messages, have tried a mixture of humour, straight to the point and delicate 'how are you' type messages I understand physical attraction is the first tick and I am a very specific type, so aside from that any hints tips?? Thanks in advance

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

Im pinching this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His all, struggling to get responses to messages, have tried a mixture of humour, straight to the point and delicate 'how are you' type messages I understand physical attraction is the first tick and I am a very specific type, so aside from that any hints tips?? Thanks in advance"

Personall I think 'How are you' messages are on a par with 'how you finding the site' or 'fancy chatting' for being the dullest most uninspiring messages people can send. It's so impersonal, it just screams laziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to find what works for you OP, ..

start with 'nice profile...I liked the bit about........'

that shows you actually read it, which is always a good start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

Im pinching this

if I received that it would be an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

Im pinching this

if I received that it would be an instant block

Boo

But... I have a couple years to think up the perfect message just for you leggy... just dont increase your age range in the meantime or I will never get closure on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we read profile or status and as well as our usual type of message try and add i something personal -so at least you have taken some notice of them not just copy and paste a messge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably of the minority of woman who honestly don't need men to waste their time writing a personalised message. Doesn't matter what they could say...it's all based on pics and their profile for me. If I don't find them physically attractive a decent message still won't inspire me to reply. Happy to get just a wink then I can check their profile out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading a profile, and acknowledging it in a message definitely scores brownie points with me OP.. You'd be shocked at how many messages men send saying 'How are you?'.. I don't even bother opening those if I'm honest, so perhaps that one should be scrapped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably of the minority of woman who honestly don't need men to waste their time writing a personalised message. Doesn't matter what they could say...it's all based on pics and their profile for me. If I don't find them physically attractive a decent message still won't inspire me to reply. Happy to get just a wink then I can check their profile out."

Totally agree with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure everyone is different but...

1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.

2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.

3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)

4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

Im pinching this

if I received that it would be an instant block

I know but the guy in me just wants to knobble the opposition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick "Delete as neccesary" as your heading this.

Fancy a fuck?

Fancy a social?

Fancy a chat?

Fancy someone else?

Fuck off/Delete?

Response as per title..

Try that

Im pinching this

if I received that it would be an instant block

Same here ...that's a defo no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure everyone is different but...

1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.

2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.

3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)

4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler! "

A much better approach ...also perhaps if the only public pic you had wasn't giving everyone a view up your nose

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You've been on a year and not meet verified, that will make a high proportion ignore the message, regardless of its content. I'd start afresh and get meet verid at a club or organised social.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 23/09/16 08:50:21]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I'm sure everyone is different but...

1: Read the profile and look at pics. Include something about this in the message to show you didn't just copy and paste.

2: if it's a couple talk to them both unless you know it's only one of them.

3: mention something you like, that the recipient could help with in some way (had a mail recently where the guy said about a fantasy he had that luckily lined up with ours)

4: ask an open question of some kind. Makes chatting so much simpler! "

This x

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