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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? " I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right | |||
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"Lots of women do not orgasm through penetration alone, I don't although I do gush but I would never consider that to be an orgasm and to be honest gushing appears to be more pleasurable for a man , " So nice to know I'm not alone. I find the pressure to cum so off putting too. I have faked it in the past. If i met someone who just let me be me then I'm sure I wouldn't need to fake it! | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right " Yes! Me on top and him playing with my nips can work wonders! For me the worst thing is if he keeps asking if I've orgasmed yet. Next time that happens I might hop off and grab a vibe and say 'no but I will soon!' | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right " Why do you see it as "the same problem" ? It certainly isn't uncommon for penetration alone to fail to give an orgasm. It's more about the whole "package" of experiences. Sadly there are a lot of guys on here who lack the experience to realise that. Again....too many unrealistic porn films etc.... | |||
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"I rarely if ever orgasm on a meet... if i do it is unlikely to be from something physical alone. It maybe the watching my partner.. or him watching me or something in the meet that makes me... Guys always say.. they will make me...and if those words are uttered my off switch has always been totally off.... but i enjoy sex a lot without the end result... and for me i orgasm when i am relaxed and in my comfort zone or feel safe as well as obviously aroused. I find its a control thing for me... and i struggle to give that over in any way in a meet. I know its hypocritical from me as if a guy told me he wouldn't cum id not meet him as the end product is my pleasure... " I am exactly the same! | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right Why do you see it as "the same problem" ? It certainly isn't uncommon for penetration alone to fail to give an orgasm. It's more about the whole "package" of experiences. Sadly there are a lot of guys on here who lack the experience to realise that. Again....too many unrealistic porn films etc...." The best lovers I've had were those that put a lot into pleasuring me but had no expectations. Then I was really able to let go. | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right Yes! Me on top and him playing with my nips can work wonders! For me the worst thing is if he keeps asking if I've orgasmed yet. Next time that happens I might hop off and grab a vibe and say 'no but I will soon!' " Ha ha that's brilliant xx | |||
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"Apparently a woman has to teach herself how to reach the heights of orgasm ? It's all about the rhythm " Engage your brain ladies and the rest is sure to follow | |||
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"I rarely if ever orgasm on a meet... if i do it is unlikely to be from something physical alone. It maybe the watching my partner.. or him watching me or something in the meet that makes me... Guys always say.. they will make me...and if those words are uttered my off switch has always been totally off.... but i enjoy sex a lot without the end result... and for me i orgasm when i am relaxed and in my comfort zone or feel safe as well as obviously aroused. I find its a control thing for me... and i struggle to give that over in any way in a meet. I know its hypocritical from me as if a guy told me he wouldn't cum id not meet him as the end product is my pleasure... " I'm exactly the same! | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? " It's completely normal. It's rarer for women to cum from penetration alone but I guess we may have been faking it for so long we've confused the issue | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me " I'm the same tongue and fingers, it's the only way I squirt | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me " See now this i agree with has a man, i would rather have an hour kissing touching oral stroking and then quick 5 minute penetration just to finish off once, rather than other way round, i aren't one who enjoys pumping away for hours on end | |||
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"Sounds fantastic and i think a lot of women would probably echo what you say regarding penetrative sex. I just go with the flow and whatever works is great for both parties. " Exactly this | |||
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"Apparently a woman has to teach herself how to reach the heights of orgasm ? It's all about the rhythm Engage your brain ladies and the rest is sure to follow " Mansplaining at its best. | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right Why do you see it as "the same problem" ? It certainly isn't uncommon for penetration alone to fail to give an orgasm. It's more about the whole "package" of experiences. Sadly there are a lot of guys on here who lack the experience to realise that. Again....too many unrealistic porn films etc...." | |||
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"Apparently a woman has to teach herself how to reach the heights of orgasm ? It's all about the rhythm Engage your brain ladies and the rest is sure to follow Mansplaining at its best. " I wasn't going to mention it but as you did... | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? It's completely normal. It's rarer for women to cum from penetration alone but I guess we may have been faking it for so long we've confused the issue " Thought it was too good to be true... way too many fakes on here... | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me " So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X" | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X" We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? " Certainly not alone in my experience and I'm not afford to admit it. However penetrative sex is only one small part of a very large and extensive whole. | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? " You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. | |||
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"I wonder if women started wearing skirts and no knickers would it aid them being up to climax a lot easier ? Just a thought Engage your brains people " And.. 3....2....1.....0 | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. " Quality over quantity ? | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? " I'm sure your hand will be flattered. | |||
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"Me too! I've never been able to cum through penetrative sex alone. My clit always needs playing with. I've never squirted or gushed either, and I don't want to judging by what a friend who does gush, has told me. Besides, I have great orgasms without. " oh how I wish I could wine and dine you x | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? " Does that mean i'm doing it wrong? I never put my cock in until after the lady has cum... several times if I get my way | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? Does that mean i'm doing it wrong? I never put my cock in until after the lady has cum... several times if I get my way " The 'woman cums first thing' is a PITA. It puts just as much pressure on a woman as it does on a bloke not to cum. | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. " My hand, cock and mind all share a connection | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right Yes! Me on top and him playing with my nips can work wonders! For me the worst thing is if he keeps asking if I've orgasmed yet. Next time that happens I might hop off and grab a vibe and say 'no but I will soon!' " love this lol | |||
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"Glad to see its not only me. Its very reassuring. I would some day like to experience an orgasm through penetrative sex. I'll just have to keep trying." This is my thought too. | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? Does that mean i'm doing it wrong? I never put my cock in until after the lady has cum... several times if I get my way The 'woman cums first thing' is a PITA. It puts just as much pressure on a woman as it does on a bloke not to cum. " I don't even focus on myself, not that bothered if I do cum. I get far more pleasure from seeing somebody else enjoy what I'm doing to them than I do actual sex. For me it's all about the other person x | |||
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"I practically never came through penetration or gushed either till I met Mr A. ...I just thought I was programmed that way...I'm not even sure if it's because the sex is way better....I think it's got something to do with being relaxed and comfortable.....for me anyway x" I agree with this as i have been fortunate to find someone i can achieve it with | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection " Your cock and mind especially. | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection Your cock and mind especially. " My cock would be usless without my mind | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection Your cock and mind especially. My cock would be usless without my mind " Without hers it'll be jobless too...get her mind and she's yours....just saying. | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection Your cock and mind especially. My cock would be usless without my mind Without hers it'll be jobless too...get her mind and she's yours....just saying." Thanks for the advice kind sir | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection Your cock and mind especially. My cock would be usless without my mind Without hers it'll be jobless too...get her mind and she's yours....just saying. Thanks for the advice kind sir " It wasn't for you...think you already knew that.. | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ?" I woke up once having an orgasm, was wierd, I was having a dream about a good session i had had and in my dream I was having an orgasm it woke me up and as I woke I really was having an orgasm But back to the question, I have never orgasumed during penatrive sex, but then I don't enjoy it that much so maybe that's why, unless i'm doing a bit of DIY I have only ever cum through a skilled tongue and gentle finger combo, has to be both, fingering alone or a tongue alone won't make me cum | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me So true!!!! A guy who thinks a big cock and lots of stamina is all he needs to make us come during penetration needs to go back to the drawing board! I much prefer a comfortable sized cock, someone who isn't going to keep going till I'm bored and an open mind to try lots of different things that are more likely to give us an orgasm. Some men are so blinkered in what they think we want!!! X We could also say some women are blinkered into what's needed during penetration ? Until a women has tried every bloke on the planet she may never genuinely know herself ? You could and your number of potential fucks declines rapidly. Quality over quantity ? I'm sure your hand will be flattered. My hand, cock and mind all share a connection Your cock and mind especially. My cock would be usless without my mind Without hers it'll be jobless too...get her mind and she's yours....just saying. Thanks for the advice kind sir It wasn't for you...think you already knew that.. " Now im even more confused as i was on the cock picture threads double wammy | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ? I woke up once having an orgasm, was wierd, I was having a dream about a good session i had had and in my dream I was having an orgasm it woke me up and as I woke I really was having an orgasm But back to the question, I have never orgasumed during penatrive sex, but then I don't enjoy it that much so maybe that's why, unless i'm doing a bit of DIY I have only ever cum through a skilled tongue and gentle finger combo, has to be both, fingering alone or a tongue alone won't make me cum " I aint never cum in my sleep, i have however fukd quite a few whilst in the land of nod, but somehow i waken up before the finish | |||
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"Any man who believes that all women "should" orgasm through penetration alone clearly knows fuck all about female anatomy." I think for a lot of guys it's more to do with their ego than the knowledge of the female anatomy, some guys just can't accept that there are some woman they can't bring to orgasm As somebody else has already said a lot see it as a challage | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? I have the same trouble. Like you say though doesn't make penetration any less enjoyable. I find going on top helps, seems to hit "the spot" just right Yes! Me on top and him playing with my nips can work wonders! For me the worst thing is if he keeps asking if I've orgasmed yet. Next time that happens I might hop off and grab a vibe and say 'no but I will soon!' " | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ?" I have at least once before... It woke me up!!! | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ? I woke up once having an orgasm, was wierd, I was having a dream about a good session i had had and in my dream I was having an orgasm it woke me up and as I woke I really was having an orgasm But back to the question, I have never orgasumed during penatrive sex, but then I don't enjoy it that much so maybe that's why, unless i'm doing a bit of DIY I have only ever cum through a skilled tongue and gentle finger combo, has to be both, fingering alone or a tongue alone won't make me cum I aint never cum in my sleep, i have however fukd quite a few whilst in the land of nod, but somehow i waken up before the finish " Just read all of this thread, nodding. Until i got to the question about having an orgasm in your sleep. Ive only ever believed i can orgasm through clit stimulation ( by tongue, fingers or toy)..... ive tried and tried to orgasm without, but i just cant, yet, i have woken several times mid-orgasm, and i can never remember the dream, and im not touching myself, so i guess it is possible, i just havent found out how yet. im still practicing tho Sugar x | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ?" Yes I have, usually the result of an erotic dream, and I wake up mid orgasm, its been a while tho!! Candy x | |||
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"Did you see the article in the guardian about the 3d clitorus? Its pretty interesting, the findings " I didn't but that is interesting...off to google.... | |||
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"Did you see the article in the guardian about the 3d clitorus? Its pretty interesting, the findings I didn't but that is interesting...off to google...." Not seen it either but now im intrigued | |||
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"I wonder if women started wearing skirts and no knickers would it aid them being up to climax a lot easier ? Just a thought Engage your brains people " Are you serious? Do you ever read the things you post on here? | |||
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"Did you see the article in the guardian about the 3d clitorus? Its pretty interesting, the findings " Im going to include that info in my profile..... I have an 8" clitoris ( 7.5 inches is internal) Bit of a strange read but interesting. Love the idea of wearing a clit pendent around my neck. What a conversation piece. Sugar x | |||
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"i seem to be the opposite, i need penetration, as my clit alone does not do it for me. i much prefer a guys fingers to be inside me that playing externally and feeling a mans tongue inside me is magic. x" Me too. I always need something inside me to grip, or I can't cum unless it's a wand or bullet vibrator. | |||
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"I wonder if women started wearing skirts and no knickers would it aid them being up to climax a lot easier ? Just a thought Engage your brains people Are you serious? Do you ever read the things you post on here? " Totally serious and of course | |||
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"I've only orgasmed a few of times with penetration only and that's been with a new guy, it's very unusual for me. I like to have a toy to hand and even better a butt plug in place " I bet "he" did tho hehe | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me " Exactly the same for me - glad to hear it's not just me | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me Me too, lots of kissing, touching & teasing mmm See now this i agree with has a man, i would rather have an hour kissing touching oral stroking and then quick 5 minute penetration just to finish off once, rather than other way round, i aren't one who enjoys pumping away for hours on end" | |||
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"I'm curious about how many of you women have orgasmed in your sleep ? I woke up once having an orgasm, was wierd, I was having a dream about a good session i had had and in my dream I was having an orgasm it woke me up and as I woke I really was having an orgasm But back to the question, I have never orgasumed during penatrive sex, but then I don't enjoy it that much so maybe that's why, unless i'm doing a bit of DIY I have only ever cum through a skilled tongue and gentle finger combo, has to be both, fingering alone or a tongue alone won't make me cum I aint never cum in my sleep, i have however fukd quite a few whilst in the land of nod, but somehow i waken up before the finish Just read all of this thread, nodding. Until i got to the question about having an orgasm in your sleep. Ive only ever believed i can orgasm through clit stimulation ( by tongue, fingers or toy)..... ive tried and tried to orgasm without, but i just cant, yet, i have woken several times mid-orgasm, and i can never remember the dream, and im not touching myself, so i guess it is possible, i just havent found out how yet. im still practicing tho Sugar x" I listened to a really interesting documentary on R4 entitled "King of Dreams. It was about "Lucid Dreams" whereby an 19C French Aristocrat Marie-Jean-Léon, Marquis d'Hervey de Saint Denys describes his own experiences of lucid dreaming, and proposes that it is possible for anyone to learn to dream consciously. Here's the link if anyone likes the sound of it: http://www.bbc.co.uk/search?q=The%20King%20of%20Dreams&suggid=urn%3Abbc%3Aprogrammes%3Ab07vkf71 If the site blocks the link. Just look up "The King of Dreams" on the BBC iPlayer Radio Site. | |||
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"So.. I don't climax through penetration alone. I have on occasion squirted during sex but to achieve full body orgasm I would require a toy. The pearl is the clam so to speak. From the men I speak to you'd think I was the only one. They also see it as a challenge which I find quite off putting. I didn't ask to be this way, it's just how my body is. It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore penetration. I'm certainly an active and sometimes vocal partner. Any other women out there who are similar? Also to the men, how would you feel about that? " Jools is exactly the same. 30 year's together and never once cum thru penetrative sex also with non of our meets. She is very difficult to make cum at times and takes ages. As you said some see this as a challenge. It's not its just how it is. Example takes me ages to cum when being sucked but I have to fight it off when fucking! We are all different. | |||
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"I'm exactly the same. I love penetrative sex for a while but it doesn't make me orgasm so I can get bored if it goes on too long which is why when a man says he has loads of stamina my heart sinks. It's all about the tongue and fingers for me " Why are you so far away? | |||
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"Pleasure should be the goal, an orgasm is just a nice side effect." This | |||
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"I feel for all you ladies who struggle to cum... I can cum from penetration alone without clit rubbing although that can speed up the orgasm... I can cum from anal penetration alone. Fastest cum is probably DP. Sounds like i am unusual.... " I don't struggle to cum at all, I'm just one of the majority of women who don't cum from penetration alone. | |||
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"Right I'm on a mission to see how many women cum from penetration with me and I think that women on fab are more likely to be honest about it as apposed to previous conquests " Shall we form a ordally queue or are you having a reversed gang bang get it out the way in one? | |||
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