FabSwingers.com forum: Older into younger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men "

There are allot of women looking for younger guys so just be patient i admire your honesty but i think the whole virgin thing might go against you most people on here are looking for great sex and will assume that lack of experience will translate to an awkward encounter but give it time and you never know

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If it's what you like, it's what you like. I'm rather attracted to younger ladies, but find older I get less chances I meet any. Though in swinging I see loads of guys with younger lasses and have no clue how they do it.

Wiggles likes some younger guys but generally if they are gym goers, but big shoulders and arms, not the skinny lean insect thorax type who think they are buff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a decent chap and there are a number of people that like the younger lad so keep with it.

The fact is there's so many men to women here it'll take most people time to get meets, the sheer numbers mean that if many people DO prefer people more around their age range (due to perceptions of maturity / experience etc in some cases) you will need to stand out even more and prove you're worth the effort of going outside age ranges which will be a challenge, but not insurmountable.

Your best start might be someone more around your age range then see what develops from there but keep on it, remain positive and respectful and you might find what you desire.

Good luck my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you may find one soon

Good luck

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Find a nice young lass into the scene, get involved and meet folk. I'm sure if you goto a few clubs and are polite, you will meet some older ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women will tell you you're too young. Some won't though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wiggles likes some younger guys but generally if they are gym goers, but big shoulders and arms, not the skinny lean insect thorax type who think they are buff."

Seems quite a common theme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

youre not only looking for older, but you are looking for -

older

BBW

who can accommodate

who likes to dominate

and.......who likes young men.

thats a tall order and you may need lots of patience.

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wanna thank everyone for you're advice and support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men "

We have no interest in vastly younger men ! To be frank , we don't wish to have sexual contact with anyone young enough to be our child and sadly , many younger men seem fairly childish and only interested in themselves and carving an "older woman " notch on their cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"carving an "older woman " notch on their cock "

Ouch! I thought notches went on the bedpost, not on the manpole

Speaking as an older woman into young dudes, teens and very early 20s make me extremely anxious, especially coupled with living at home, and lack of sexu al experience. I enjoy the age difference but I still like to meet these young people as equals (I have children of my own to mother!). So that's what I mean if I'd ever say "too young".

On the positive side, OP you seem to be getting stuck in and weathering the feedback, if you continue the lack of experience bit will be sorted sooner or later

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"carving an "older woman " notch on their cock

Ouch! I thought notches went on the bedpost, not on the manpole

On the positive side, OP you seem to be getting stuck in and weathering the feedback, if you continue the lack of experience bit will be sorted sooner or later

Thank you. I try to be and think I am mature. And is definitely not a notch. I genuinely find older women more attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men "

by older do you mean about 25-30?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I maybe should have said something more specific but 30 +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so not 50 + age range then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

30+.. yeah I'd deffo be up for much older than 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"30+.. yeah I'd deffo be up for much older than 30"

so 40? you really do need to be specific..

well, you don't but it would help people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think 55 would be my limit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although it completely depends on the woman. There are very attractive women older than 55

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

Get yourself over to cougars and cubs at Radlett tomorrow, it sounds exactly what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if u get ur story right & play ur cards right the two lady may be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

This ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men "

My advice is only mail women who have 20 I other age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

It's not always about attractiveness though is it?

I get loads of mail from guys in their 20s who are attractive but I wouldn't mail them because I would have nothing in common with them, as woman in my 40s what could I have to say that a 20 something guy would be even vaguely interested in hearing? And visa versa, its more than just looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

It's not always about attractiveness though is it?

You obviously don't try, I have been with a few woman around the same age as yourself and possibly older who I could chat to for hours, age doesn't stop you liking similar things, yes some of it may vary slightly but I bet you would find plenty of similar interests if you tried.

Although if you go into it thinking you won't have anything in common then there is a good chance you won't find them! Need to have an open mind if you are going to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

It's not always about attractiveness though is it?

Although if you go into it thinking you won't have anything in common then there is a good chance you won't find them! Need to have an open mind if you are going to try

I best stick to not trying them

I'd look a bit of a saddo anyway sat in the boozer with a 20 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why set a specific age limit, forget about age, if you think the lady is attractive would you really care what age she is? I know I wouldn't

It's not always about attractiveness though is it?

Although if you go into it thinking you won't have anything in common then there is a good chance you won't find them! Need to have an open mind if you are going to try

I best stick to not trying them

I'd look a bit of a saddo anyway sat in the boozer with a 20 year old

Let others opinions dictate your life and you wouldn't be able to do anything enjoyable lol but each to their own I suppose

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By *ames WhyteMan
over a year ago

Near Manchester Airport

Never say never. I was 19 and at uni. She was a rubenesque lady of 46 and this lasted for two years. If you've been looking at mags etc for a few years it's all about putting things into practice. I also had an mmf with a couple in my early 20's while they were late 30's. Just wish there had been Fab back in those days, you had to work a lot harder to find what you wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not trying to tell you what's right or wrong but I seem to have a fair bit of luck with women.

First thing, confidence! Many women like the thought of a younger male be attracted to them however if you open your mouth and your are unable to string a sentence together they immediately think you are childish and would be a waste of their time.

You cannot accomadate - so instead of giving the reason as to why you are unable to (living with parents etc) just say you can't and that you are happy to travel.

It was already said, but if you are seriously into older women then you should get yourself down to a Cougars and Cubs night.

This site is difficult to aid in your sexual desires due to the vast amount of men compared to women but you do really have to stand out.

If not bud, it's bad but there are plenty of women who will happily help you for some greenery? Adult Work? So forth.

Good luck anyway

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I like younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like younger guys

And I bet the younger guys love you with a sexy body like yours

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Go to a club! Very few polite, attentive and reasonably attractive single men are turned down by women of any age if the mood takes them

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

"I like younger guys

And I bet the younger guys love you with a sexy body like yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet, but none them get a chance

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

"I bet, but none them get a chance

Some do

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By *icebloke..but filthyMan
over a year ago

N. London

"I bet, but none them get a chance

Some do

Really?

*phones removal company, books cab/flight, Googles 'flats for sale in Sheffield'*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as woman in my 40s what could I have to say that a 20 something guy would be even vaguely interested in hearing? And vice versa"

You assume that your wider interests or the way you experience life would be of no relevance to 20sth guys but this is hardly the case. It is no different to any other age - some people we gel with and want to know more about, others not. I have met plenty of excellent conversationalists who were young - you do not need masses of life experience to hold an animated conversation. OTOH if you are not even remotely interested to what these young people have to say, there will be no conversation - but it is you that lacks the interest, not them - I think that's what FitAndHorny meant by "you have to try". As far as I'm concerned there is little effort involved.

"I'd look a bit of a saddo anyway sat in the boozer with a 20 year old

If you have some time I would love to hear more about this sentiment. Is there something inherently sad about people of disparate ages socialising/getting together? Or is it something that applies to you specifically? Would you also look a bit of a saddo if you were sat in the boozer with a 60yo (why/why not)? Who is doing the looking/judging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP,

We can guarantee there are older females that look for younger guys as we are a couple that do so, and I'm sure we aren't the only ones.

Keep looking and happy fabbing, write good, well thought out add replies, read the whole profile and you'll do we'll we're sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's most definetely older women for younger men. My filters are set to reflect this. I have to say though OP I stopped meeting early twenties as they either couldn't maintain an erection, or ahem... Peaked too early! I put it down to over-excitement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But isn't that why we learn to use out tounges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP, as a younger guy also interested in older ladies, I feel your pain!!

Not impossible though just tough due to the vast amount of guys on here, best of luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced "

You mean he didn't satisfy you with his tongue first? Rookie mistake :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced

You mean he didn't satisfy you with his tongue first? Rookie mistake :P"

One fell at the awesome BJ stage lol. Left so fast there was a Doppler effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced

You mean he didn't satisfy you with his tongue first? Rookie mistake :P

One fell at the awesome BJ stage lol. Left so fast there was a Doppler effect. "

Lol it must have been one amazing bj

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced

You mean he didn't satisfy you with his tongue first? Rookie mistake :P

One fell at the awesome BJ stage lol. Left so fast there was a Doppler effect. "

As both an engineer and a nerd... this is my favorite post on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your chin up mate don't let it get to you you seem like a decent lad and appreciative of the advice given to you your time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see lots of great advice for a change. Your doing everything right mate

Get yourself to a cougar night at a club and just take the plunge in meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If not bud, it's bad but there are plenty of women who will happily help you for some greenery? Adult Work? So forth."

A sidenote - following the rest of your solid advice... this is NOT a cool suggestion, dude. Not to mention soliciting is illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm a young guy only 20 but one of my main turn ons is women who are older than me. However it seems that the feeling isn't mutal and I have been told a few times I'm too young..

And advice or is this really a thing that older women just aren't into younger men "

When I was in my teens, i fancied older women. 30-40. They said the same thing. "Your to young. But now I'm around that age, things are working out.

So my advice. Wait a while (20yr maybe) and see how they respond then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tongues? That would be an option if they hadn't been silly and left red faced

You mean he didn't satisfy you with his tongue first? Rookie mistake :P

One fell at the awesome BJ stage lol. Left so fast there was a Doppler effect.

As both an engineer and a nerd... this is my favorite post on this thread"

I was a nerd before there was a word for it lol. #LLAP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of young guys here, just don't find men age sexually appealing generally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think we can all agree that when women hit 30 they just get sexier every year

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