FabSwingers.com forum: Anal training

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"started training the bum after a fair few years, sure takes patients or is that me being to soft with my self. once a day training at the moment (day 3)Why do women do this better

If it requires "patients," you are doing it wrong.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

If your using patients then a hospital is in trouble.

Patience.....

But lube, relax and go with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your using patients then a hospital is in trouble.

Patience.....

But lube, relax and go with it "

yep lol, auto correct my bad lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thicker lube works a treat, so much for the expensive water based stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you training your bum to do....? Fetch sticks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you training your bum to do....? Fetch sticks?"

Now that would be a funny way of playing pooh sticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you training your bum to do....? Fetch sticks?"

well I have to say I was intrigued! I can only assume it's all about 'loosening' or 'widening' in some way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found liquid silk is the best lube, and build up slowly.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Only training is actually wanting it and genuinly enjoying it. And patience.

Bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only training is actually wanting it and genuinly enjoying it. And patience.

Bingo."

You see I disagree there I've wanted it before, enjoyed it for a few minutes and then it's got painful, training is the way forward - gently let it get used to taking more

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

"Only training is actually wanting it and genuinly enjoying it. And patience.

Bingo.

You see I disagree there I've wanted it before, enjoyed it for a few minutes and then it's got painful, training is the way forward - gently let it get used to taking more "

Fair one. Guess we are alll differemt. Perhaps its the word 'training' that gives me shivers.... the giver is the one who needs training, not the bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria"

A couple of girls I've been with have said the same as that, and both were anal virgins when I met them.

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By *penJackMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria"

Damn, right!

I originally had 3 different sized plugs, to build up to the big'un. Now? Fuck it, get that bad boy in there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria

Damn, right!

I originally had 3 different sized plugs, to build up to the big'un. Now? Fuck it, get that bad boy in there! "

I've genuinely found that just being patient alone regardless of size of the toy works. now I don't have loads but I started at a good size 8 inch dildo and after a few mins. with the correct lube, first was expensive and to thin (didn't work well) I got there fine no worry and no injury. so in my in experienced state unless im such a slut I'd say build up training is not so much needed for the body, but more for the mind and fear factor

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria"

I didn't feel any, now is that one one the following. Yo not doing it right to start, or is it that you being to innocent or me being to naughty lol. I'm just flinging suggestions out there haha

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

" I don't have loads but I started at a good size 8 inch dildo "

You started with an 8 incher? Dude calm down and get some smaller butt plugs to start with. Try some amyl if you're that way inclined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lard

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Patience and being relaxed are the key. It's more fun with a partner but I find few ladies want to be involved.

Start small and work your way up. The sphincters need to get used to opening for inserted objects when the natural reflex is to close.

Try an inflating dildo, they are very good.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Lube, lube, more lube and even more lube........and get that patient out of your arse and into a hospital bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every second of pain is a second closer to euphoria"
nicely put

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

"Lube, lube, more lube and even more lube........and get that patient out of your arse and into a hospital bed.

Pmsl so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shove a butt plug up ya Jacksie and you'll be getting rear ended before ya know it

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Probably best not to start with PipeDream's Mega Silicone Plug

PD4606-23. I think it was one of these that was being passed around at the Remix party last weekend (in its retail packaging) and it was a scary amount of silicone. I have played with, and enjoyed, some fairly large toys but I think it would take some serious anesthesia to get this in.

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Inflatable toys are a great investment

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

A good inflatible toy can last years.

I also have a Meo anal stretching tunnel plug. Jury is out on that.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

When i train a guy's arse hole, i start with one finger, when his hole starts widening i carry on with other fingers, it takes about one hour to insert my fist

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

"A good inflatible toy can last years.

I also have a Meo anal stretching tunnel plug. Jury is out on that."

What exactly is that?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I have a pair of imitation MEO stretching tunnel plugs in small and medium sizes. I would add that I remain sceptical if these work for me but it may be that my sessions are too short and infrequent.

The description on Steel Pleasures, where I ordered mine from, is as follows:

'Beautifully crafted aluminium anal stretching plugs finished in a rich Cobalt Blue colour.The plugs have a through bore for that exposed feeling and inspection purposes.'

The medium plug is sized as follows 60mm diameter, 30mm bore, 45mm neck, 85mm long.

The small plug is 50mm diameter, 25mm bore, 35mm neck, 80mm long.

These plugs are designed so they can be worn for extended durations although I would suggest getting the stoppers as well for that. The idea is that the sphincter muscles become accustomised to the neck diameter stretch and therefore the additional stretch to take wider insertions becomes easier.

I also have a 'permanent anal BDSM butt plug sex toy' from Bondage Corner which I find is better shaped for me although I didn't pay anything like the amount they are currently asking for it. This is a similar idea but comes with a screw in stopper section. The description from the retailer is:

'Our permanent ass plug is perfect for longer-term wear and is fully 24/7 compatible.

With a little lube or cream , the Permanent Ass Plug slips past the sphincter. Once the thickest part is over, the rest of the butt plug slides in on its own.

Apart from the exciting feeling our massive Permanent Ass Plug creates as it enters, expanding it provides for intensely pleasurable stretching of the sphincter, gentle expansion of rectal region and stimulation of the prostate in men. Women can also insert the plug for rectal expansion and intensification of pleasurable sensations.

Once the butt plug is fully inserted, our Permanent Ass Plug can be opened. A continuous opening of approx. 16 mm is formed, perfect for fun, fantasy-filled play.

Dimensions: Total length 115 mm, insertable length about 80 mm. Thickest part of the butt plug= 50 mm, thinnest point = approximately 27 mm, weight: 925g.'

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Wow, thanks for taking the time to write such a detailed reply.

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