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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi all,

Fully bi Guy with a few meets now but have always had a passion for lingerie and nylons so have recently experimented with x dressing.

Profile doesn't hint at this because a lot of people who might be interested in me might be put off. Im happy to meet normal or dressed but it seems a lot of people have the attitude of 'once a TV, always a TV all the time'.

On the other hand Id like to convince those who love lingerie on anyone that I'm genuine in sharing their passion

I've got photos to share that show me dressed but they're private so I could either

1 keep them private and hope I can convince people

2 make them public and maybe drive some meets away

3 make a new TV profile

Anyone else been in this situation? I'd like to be honest but as above, don't want to drive people away just because they think I'm going to turn up wearing sussies and suspenders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if someone was to decide not to meet you based only on the fact that you enjoy dressing, then would you want to meet them anyway? That's the only group of people who are going to be put off by you having it on your profile.

It's your thing, own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point lying i say.

I just recently tried out dressing up and i loved it, so its mentioned in my profile.

Some will not want to meet because of it, but some others will.

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Enjoy it and embrace it, it's a wonderful feeling when dressed and especially dressed in front of someone else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a fuck what others think of them??

Being a person who wears ladies underwear and publicly say about it on our profile, I don't give a damn who likes it and who doesn't... i don't change just to please others.

If you feel you don't want to say on this profile OP, then make a new one with your personal likes and dislikes

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

post them up and be honest. its the best way. Most fellas love getting to feel ladies undies.

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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Thanks for replies all. I'm torn but guess honesty is the best policy when all said and done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for replies all. I'm torn but guess honesty is the best policy when all said and done "

It's honesty with yourself really OP. good luck

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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax


"

It's honesty with yourself really OP. good luck "

As with all things in life I guess. Be honest with yourself and like yourself first and those that don't accept, aren't worth it

& thanks

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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax


"

It's honesty with yourself really OP. good luck "

As with all things in life I guess. Be honest with yourself and like yourself first and those that don't accept, aren't worth it

& thanks

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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax


"

It's honesty with yourself really OP. good luck "

As with all things in life I guess. Be honest with yourself and like yourself first and those that don't accept, aren't worth it

& thanks

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Whatever changes we make,whether it is with labels or desires etc,it will have the effect of attracting a few and will turn a few away..

Why not have your cake and eat it, create another profile specifically around x dressing

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By *urhudds1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Sorry for multiple posting. Phone gone mad

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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I was the same as you...

I ditched the straight profile and swapped it for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always going to be things some people will like and some won't, it has to be up to you how you feel most comfortable having your profile but in our opinion it's best to be honest about yourself from the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm on my own I love putting my wife's little skirt tights and knickers on makes my feel so horny then I lay on bed and think about other men getting up my skirt and into my tights and knickers major turn on

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Enjoy the thrills

Play in the way you feel most comfortable

I know a few people with dual profiles for TV and male - not me though!

Cast your net wide over a number of sites x

Pm me

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends what you want I guess.... A lot of females are put off by people dressing unless you can really pull it off......

Being bi I would just say be proud and youbwill get interest from people better suited to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by some things that people are into on here I doubt wearing panties will be all that shocking... Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be proud of who you are.

Don't pm me

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Yep I agree; once a TV, awlays a TV. Mine hasn't changed into a home cinema system yet; but I do keep hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love skirts tights panties make me feel really horny when I've got em on get really turned on thinking about other guys pushing my skirt up and pulling my tights and knickers down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post them up it's liberating and you would be surprised by the number of ladies who love it!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Be true to yourself and your desires then you will enjoy your meets much more. Good luck and happy swinging.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

As you would imagine Katie loves wearing ladies clothes, lingerie, stockings and high heels, however statistically as there are more women in the world than men then more "people" in the world statistically wear women's clothes, lingerie, nylons and high heels so if it's good enough for 3.8bn women it's good enough for me

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'm sure lots of males feel the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Fully bi Guy with a few meets now but have always had a passion for lingerie and nylons so have recently experimented with x dressing.

Profile doesn't hint at this because a lot of people who might be interested in me might be put off. Im happy to meet normal or dressed but it seems a lot of people have the attitude of 'once a TV, always a TV all the time'.

On the other hand Id like to convince those who love lingerie on anyone that I'm genuine in sharing their passion

I've got photos to share that show me dressed but they're private so I could either

1 keep them private and hope I can convince people

2 make them public and maybe drive some meets away

3 make a new TV profile

Anyone else been in this situation? I'd like to be honest but as above, don't want to drive people away just because they think I'm going to turn up wearing sussies and suspenders! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Fully bi Guy with a few meets now but have always had a passion for lingerie and nylons so have recently experimented with x dressing.

Profile doesn't hint at this because a lot of people who might be interested in me might be put off. Im happy to meet normal or dressed but it seems a lot of people have the attitude of 'once a TV, always a TV all the time'.

On the other hand Id like to convince those who love lingerie on anyone that I'm genuine in sharing their passion

I've got photos to share that show me dressed but they're private so I could either

1 keep them private and hope I can convince people

2 make them public and maybe drive some meets away

3 make a new TV profile

Anyone else been in this situation? I'd like to be honest but as above, don't want to drive people away just because they think I'm going to turn up wearing sussies and suspenders! "
i wonder whether your passion for undies was judged unkindly by someone, was it always for wearing then yourself,or was it seeing them on a genetic female, and this was not given credit by someone. You can have a taste for lingerie and not make it every single meal, nor do you have to confess your occasional forays into crossdressing as your profile header, because if someone sees it theyll jump up and down , calling you a @@@@@@@@ ,well those who havent tried it but would love to might , the rest of us would just day , yes but how does what your looking for match me,or us?do you feel like your heterosexual attraction to sex is being clouded by this horses saddle with the horses ass still attached to it? ,Believe it or not , although plenty of people are not at all turned on by cd, the quality of sex with those who are is infinitely better than er,ploughing a commonly churned furrow,so to speak, and just because friday has an f in it doesnt make it fucking in a frock day,if you see what i mean. Do what you like as you like with those who get you, those who dont ,or would say something youd be hurt by ,their opinions are none of your business anyway. Does this make sense to you, ,what you like want and seek is purely down to you, its a little part of a great big complex, multi faceted,brainy, horney , sensitive tactile, imaginative human being, not a cock in a frock!

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