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By *ndianstud OP   Man
over a year ago

heathrow

hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of women will look at the profile before reading the message and if it says little or doesn't appeal they won't even bother to read it so maybe have a look at this.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

"

You've sent out a lot of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few more interests

Looks like you just wanna do anal

And first pic

BOOM

Your dick

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Would you really meet a 99 yr old?

Not a lot of interests listed either, profile is there to sell yourself and what you can offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have virtually no profile...nothing there to reply to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a local social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pics 1 of basically a t shirt and 1 of a cock doesnt give a potential meet any idea of what you look like and your profile is about 10 words people will read it and think "if he doesnt care enough to fill in a profile why would he care about my enjoyment"

There are infinitely more men than women that means every women on here is getting literally 100's of messages a day they have the pic of the crop and if your profile is 2 forgetable pics and 10 words your going to find it very very hard to get a reply never mind a meet

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

"

Work on your profile. No matter what you write in you opening message physical attraction is usually 1st, that can come across on you gallery. Then a glimpse into your personality on your profile.

Also, patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

Work on your profile. No matter what you write in you opening message physical attraction is usually 1st, that can come across on you gallery. Then a glimpse into your personality on your profile.

Also, patience "

And then hope for a bit of luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

"

Quite simply you have an awful profile.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Your profile is boring that's where you are going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were a single female or a couple, what would attract you to your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is boring that's where you are going wrong "

You should just get straight to the point

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Your profile just basically says "I want sex." Ok most on this site do too, but they tell people a bit about the person too. We find we are attracted to people, not genitalia. Though we aren't speaking for everyone, we wouldn't look to chat anymore if you winked us. Change it up, sell yourself a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your profile was a used car ad it would say, its a car, it goes forward and back and there would be a pic of the bonet and the gearstick. Would you be interested in buying it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll suck your cock. But you'll have to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hiya

im quite new to this, and ive sent out a lot of messages but have had no positive replys - where am I going wrong?

"

.

Still only a 14 word profile.

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By *ndianstud OP   Man
over a year ago

heathrow

Rewrote profile - is it better??

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Rewrote profile - is it better??"

Much better, but did cringe when you said you liked your bits licked clean.... could be just me though..

Great effort to improve your profile OP

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Agree with the bits licked clean comment...would you go on a meet with a dirty cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried standing on your head while cutting and pasting messages? Sometimes you just need a new perspective

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I think it's a pretty good profile, except for 'licking my bits clean'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above much much better but drop the offending sentence

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By *ndianstud OP   Man
over a year ago

heathrow

many thanks for the comments - the bits licked clean would be after I had cum - lol, but I see your point - ive removed that!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

What's 'ducking'?

Also... Sounds like your looking for work. Why do people have to do that?

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By *ndianstud OP   Man
over a year ago

heathrow

yeah - I wrote the profile on my iphone!

nope - not looking for work at all - I just do that as a hobby

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Didn't see it before the revamp but looks good to me a few spelling mistakes need fixing but a great job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make yourself a cup of coffee,take half an hour of your life and be creative...make them smile. As a newbie,I can say that being witty helps. Well helps to get a reply...but after someone replies be a quick thinker. Otherwise your message will just be lost in tons of other messages

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