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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went dogging last night, it had been advertised on here. I turn up and few other cars tun up. The woman shows up and the guy "who" was arranging it also turned up. As we got to her car the guy said he was off leaving her on her own with 5 to 6 other guys. I have previously met this woman so told her I would stay which I did. I told her my concerns about this guy leaving her in such a vulnerable place. Any thoughts if I should report him as he is doing it through here?

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Couldn't she just drive off herself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couldn't she just drive off herself?"

She wanted to stay as she enjoys it but she didn't like the fact he walked off.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Surely if she had objected to him leaving, she would have said something..perhaps that was the arrangement. .

Report him.. What has he done wrong? Talk to him about it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She did object to him leaving he just walked off. It was because she had already started that she carried on and because I told her I would stay with her.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

I don't think she was that bothered op else she would have stopped and left

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I think this is an issue between the 2 of them. If she is unhappy then she needs to bring it up with him. I can't see what good you reporting him would do. The site has all of the tools you need to meet people but they cannot guarantee the behaviour of those people when they actually meet.

It was good of you to stay and look after her though - I am sure she was very grateful. I know I would have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this is an issue between the 2 of them. If she isnt happy then she needs to bring it up with him. I can't see what good you reporting him would do. The site has all of the tools you need to meet people but they cannot guarantee the behaviour of those people when they actually meet.

It was good of you to stay and look after her though - I am sure she was very grateful. I know I would have been"

As has been said if she really was that concerned then she would have stop appologised (they would have understood) to the guys and left.

It's between them... they may have been playing out a fantasy...he may have just left and carefully returned to keep an eye on proceedings without others knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report him for what and to whom?

Admin?

The fab police?

His mummy?

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Why do you need to get involved?

Sounds like she is a 'big girl' and can manage herself..

You kindly did the 'caretaking' bit..now it maybe best to let go..after all no harm was done and if yr friend has a gripe,she can complain herself.

We are all vulnerable when having sex in public places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she did not like the situration, she could have just left. The exact situration occured for her before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to stop viewing women as fragile little flowers. Most of them have more balls then the group of lads queuing up to fuck them.

If she had a problem she would have stopped it.

Stop busying yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

One woman alone with a group of men expecting sex is vulnerable (a man would be too) so I think you did right to stay. The fact that he left is between the two of them, we all need to be responsible for our own safety and without knowing all the details if I was her I would have left too, I know I would never go dogging with that man again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went dogging last night, it had been advertised on here. I turn up and few other cars tun up. The woman shows up and the guy "who" was arranging it also turned up. As we got to her car the guy said he was off leaving her on her own with 5 to 6 other guys. I have previously met this woman so told her I would stay which I did. I told her my concerns about this guy leaving her in such a vulnerable place. Any thoughts if I should report him as he is doing it through here? "

Are you sure he left??? Or was he watching from somewhere you didn't know?? Could have been a role play.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we dont know the couple .but we are pretty shore that it was a set roll play and the guy would have been watching from close by .and female would have had a phone ready or a flash light if it was dark as a signal they chose the spot so where probley more in control than it it looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went dogging last night, it had been advertised on here. I turn up and few other cars tun up. The woman shows up and the guy "who" was arranging it also turned up. As we got to her car the guy said he was off leaving her on her own with 5 to 6 other guys. I have previously met this woman so told her I would stay which I did. I told her my concerns about this guy leaving her in such a vulnerable place. Any thoughts if I should report him as he is doing it through here? "

Wish I would of known about the meet I would of been there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we dont know the couple .but we are pretty shore that it was a set roll play and the guy would have been watching from close by .and female would have had a phone ready or a flash light if it was dark as a signal they chose the spot so where probley more in control than it it looks."

No he left and went home she was not happy. She told me about some of the messages she got off him basically having ago at her as she turned up 5 mins late and posted links to sti I formation. He still wanted verifications on his fake profile as he using a couples profile when he is a single male. Now even when his status stated it was a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again your busying yourself. The woman has learnt a lesson and its up to her to be kicking off. What do you want a brownie badge or a slimmer of the week sticker?

Some people so busy on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice couple has given you the perfect response OP.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"we dont know the couple .but we are pretty shore that it was a set roll play and the guy would have been watching from close by .and female would have had a phone ready or a flash light if it was dark as a signal they chose the spot so where probley more in control than it it looks.

No he left and went home she was not happy. She told me about some of the messages she got off him basically having ago at her as she turned up 5 mins late and posted links to sti I formation. He still wanted verifications on his fake profile as he using a couples profile when he is a single male. Now even when his status stated it was a waste of time. "

Initially you were happy to go along with the fake profile,as it give you access to the dogging arrangement, but now you want to report as it didn't go your way..is that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we dont know the couple .but we are pretty shore that it was a set roll play and the guy would have been watching from close by .and female would have had a phone ready or a flash light if it was dark as a signal they chose the spot so where probley more in control than it it looks.

No he left and went home she was not happy. She told me about some of the messages she got off him basically having ago at her as she turned up 5 mins late and posted links to sti I formation. He still wanted verifications on his fake profile as he using a couples profile when he is a single male. Now even when his status stated it was a waste of time. "

Who are they are they on fab ? What's there profile name

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"we dont know the couple .but we are pretty shore that it was a set roll play and the guy would have been watching from close by .and female would have had a phone ready or a flash light if it was dark as a signal they chose the spot so where probley more in control than it it looks.

No he left and went home she was not happy. She told me about some of the messages she got off him basically having ago at her as she turned up 5 mins late and posted links to sti I formation. He still wanted verifications on his fake profile as he using a couples profile when he is a single male. Now even when his status stated it was a waste of time. "
thanks for reply.did they as a couple go in two seperate cars?or did he walk from the car female was in .we regular doggers and dont see how female could be five mins late .or did he take the car and leave her standing there .and lastly did she dog out with the guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to stop viewing women as fragile little flowers. Most of them have more balls then the group of lads queuing up to fuck them.

If she had a problem she would have stopped it.

Stop busying yourself"

I'm a 15 stone ex powerlifter who can bench press 130kg but to be honest, I'd feel vulnerable in that situation. The OP felt concerned for her welfare and was naturally concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to stop viewing women as fragile little flowers. Most of them have more balls then the group of lads queuing up to fuck them.

If she had a problem she would have stopped it.

Stop busying yourself

I'm a 15 stone ex powerlifter who can bench press 130kg but to be honest, I'd feel vulnerable in that situation. The OP felt concerned for her welfare and was naturally concerned. "

Obviously the women didnt have that much of a problem to carry on the meet.

One of two things happened she turned up late in her own car and could easily have daid not up for this and left or got a lift with the fella and when he left she would have left with him. She decided to stay and that says to me that not only did she not have a problem she wanted to continue.

Yes dogging is daunting and yes some people are pricks and some people have more rules than the bible of does and donts but the end rule still persists someone not wanting do something will not do it.

I personnaly think the fella is a prick but i dont think its this fellas business to point it out its the womans. If she was posting about this it may be a different story

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