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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok what's the best way to put to a female that you are not looking for a relationship your just looking for fun without coming across like a stereotype.

I mean I'm sure there is females out there that want the same, but it isn't exactly well thought of when put across. I work away a lot and want to get to know a female as a friend do normal things and kinky things without having feelings involved. Ps I'm heartless so i basically need a female version of me who's down to jump on a plane and just say fuck it.

Not trying to sound like a dick looking for some serious suggestions so please don't go off on one like most do in these forms lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be honest and if that's what you are looking for then all good.

I am sure there are lots of women and men here all looking for exactly that, and those that aren't can just move onto someone who is after the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok what's the best way to put to a female that you are not looking for a relationship your just looking for fun without coming across like a stereotype."

You join a swingers site and set up a profile.

Oh........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it abundantly clear in profile reinforce it in messages and see who responds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha I've been trying that trust me, but people on here aren't very consistent lol and as I work overseas when I say ok I want you to come see me, I will get you a ticket they automatically think I'm trying to buy them when that's far from the case.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

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"Hahaha I've been trying that trust me, but people on here aren't very consistent lol and as I work overseas when I say ok I want you to come see me, I will get you a ticket they automatically think I'm trying to buy them when that's far from the case. "

Maybe it's because they can't just drop their life and fly off when you call them...doesn't sound very practical to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha I've been trying that trust me, but people on here aren't very consistent lol and as I work overseas when I say ok I want you to come see me, I will get you a ticket they automatically think I'm trying to buy them when that's far from the case.

Maybe it's because they can't just drop their life and fly off when you call them...doesn't sound very practical to me."

And why ha she hidden his profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha I've been trying that trust me, but people on here aren't very consistent lol and as I work overseas when I say ok I want you to come see me, I will get you a ticket they automatically think I'm trying to buy them when that's far from the case.

Maybe it's because they can't just drop their life and fly off when you call them...doesn't sound very practical to me."

Or very safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha I've been trying that trust me, but people on here aren't very consistent lol and as I work overseas when I say ok I want you to come see me, I will get you a ticket they automatically think I'm trying to buy them when that's far from the case. "

Maybe meet them when you're in the UK until they're used to you. I don't know of many who would jump on a plane to meet a stranger for a few days on a whim.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You said it yourself, you're looking for something different and that's always hard to find.

If a female relative told you she was flying out to see a man she wasn't involved with in any way other than sexual on a ticket he had paid for, what would be your reaction? Would you counsel her against it, advise caution or tell her to grab life with both hands and go for it? I guess most people would advise against it and only a few be for, that's your problem I think.

You're going to have to build some sort of trust in most cases therefore which does involve feelings at some level even if only of friendship. I would say be absolutely honest from the outset, build up some trust and you might find someone happy to be part of the adventure. I don't think it's any less safe than going to a hotel room or a man's house in this country myself but the plane trip makes a psychological difference.

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