FabSwingers.com forum: Where Am I going Wrong (2)

By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!

So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!

O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx

HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile sounds very young as you use smilies every where, and start your profile with "WASSUP" or however you spelt it. People will be put off by the fact that you're young and probably by the fact that you're playing away at such a young age.

People do tend to read profiles before messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some of your spelling is poor & you just sound disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the same too. I stopped reading before the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you are delivering a power point. There's no flow to your profile. And like someone said... The wasssup is very child-like in its context. Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile, and be a little more respectful towards your target audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!

So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!

O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx

HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!!"

Absolutely dreadful. Can't you speak in proper sentences? It is all abbreviated. Are you 16?

The content? Why would anyone find you attractive? It is all about you.

And, yes, I do not normally judge but in your case I do have to ask why you are cheating on your partner.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "

Ouch!!

Not the best answer to give in public.

You want to guess where you may have gone wrong?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives, they generally offer the same advice.. happy reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "

Spelling, grammar, punctuation - your profile and posts are hard to read.

At least you're honest about your relationship though, and kudos for your response

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

Spelling, grammar, punctuation - your profile and posts are hard to read.

At least you're honest about your relationship though, and kudos for your response

Aha thanks . Yeahh exactly! !

Atleast im doing well as for telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care. "

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care. "

It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.

People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.

The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.

People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.

The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals

Thanks

Glad have someone who understand's or shall i say have a point on my side..

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way."

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No mention of a partner now, which is bad.

Still a 'come get me' profile. Women don't go get men on here so much.

You need to impress us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion "

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP you come across as a young jerk, as opposed to a nice young man.

That's my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then."

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics normally help

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"No mention of a partner now, which is bad.

Still a 'come get me' profile. Women don't go get men on here so much.

You need to impress us."

Sorry i just deleted the lot as obviously didnt sound anything close to a good profile

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

No change there......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.

People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.

The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

Snide? No.

Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

Snide? No.

Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there."

I don't recall the OP asking for opinions on his relationship or inviting questions as to why he cheats? Must have missed that bit! Or maybe like everyone else I understand that it's none of my fucking business

Yours was the most vitriolic and insulting of all the posts...you saw an easy target and went for it. Just goes to show, single guys being honest about their circumstances counts for nothing on here when there's judgemental spiteful folk like you around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

Snide? No.

Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.

Good point and well made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?

I am afraid that it did go that way.

Go what way? Now your not making sense..

It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??

you was just giving your opinion

You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.

No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it

Snide? No.

Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.

I really don't care about whether someone is cheating.

I do, however, really dislike the use of the word "honest" in those circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that selective honesty is acceptable on this site.

We always wonder how the person would feel if the roles were reversed and they were being cheated on.

We know someone exactly that happened to.

He cricried like a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be consistent in your search but also patience is the key. Don't be pushy and if someone does engage with you in conversation just talk to them normally without asking to fuck them in the first sentence. If you click then things will progress naturally.. It's taken me a few weeks but things are looking up, good luck!

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Be consistent in your search but also patience is the key. Don't be pushy and if someone does engage with you in conversation just talk to them normally without asking to fuck them in the first sentence. If you click then things will progress naturally.. It's taken me a few weeks but things are looking up, good luck! "

Thanks mate amd good luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I like the under construction bit. You'll get there OP. You've gotten rid of a lot of things that were not needed. Great start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think carefully when replying to someone asking about their profile.

If you make too many changes then it no longer reflect you.

You're young, you're looking for young people, so if you like text speak then use it.

Read so other profiles and get ideas from them, but make sure you give a true reflection of you. Not someone you think they want to meet.

The more you are yourself, the more you will attract likewise people.

Good luck.

Sugar x

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Haha I like the under construction bit. You'll get there OP. You've gotten rid of a lot of things that were not needed. Great start

thankyou xox

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"I always think carefully when replying to someone asking about their profile.

If you make too many changes then it no longer reflect you.

You're young, you're looking for young people, so if you like text speak then use it.

Read so other profiles and get ideas from them, but make sure you give a true reflection of you. Not someone you think they want to meet.

The more you are yourself, the more you will attract likewise people.

Good luck.

Sugar x "

Yes very true. Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great profile OP, and for what it's worth I think you handled the negativity in here really well.

Good luck on the site x

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By *aughty alex 99 OP Man
over a year ago

gosport

"Great profile OP, and for what it's worth I think you handled the negativity in here really well.

Good luck on the site x"

Aww thanks sweet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!

So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!

O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx

HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!!"

Profile looks OK to me and at least you are honest! Brownie points for that

You need to work on some better pictures though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks much better than it did, is readable now and says much more about you.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.

People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.

The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals

Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business

You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.

It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.

People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.

The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals

Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior

Oh dear, heaven forbid that attached people dare to join a swinging site...we should all know by now that only couples are allowed to be swingers!

The judgmental snotty comments have been done to death on this thread. The OP asked for profile advice, took it on board and acted on it. So you can put your claws away you're too late