FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie needing help

By *andare69 OP Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

Hi all, this is probabaly a very common question for a newbie but I don't seem to get many responses and when I do its either no thanks or Yeah I will chat but then they don't. Can you check out my profile and tell me if there is something wrong and what can I do to help myself? Thanks in advance

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your pictures are ok, I like the one in which you smile best

I can't see anything wrong with your profile but it doesn't stand out either and "come on girls" ...really !

That said it's a numbers game and I think that single men need to work a little harder. Clubs and socials will help you network and joining in the forums in a positive way will get your face known.

Good luck

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By *andare69 OP Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

Thanks for that and about the smile ??. Any suggestions for the profile? I want to try a club or something but a little scarred as never tried this before. Wasn't sure which way around would be better....single meet or a group!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, this is probabaly a very common question for a newbie but I don't seem to get many responses and when I do its either no thanks or Yeah I will chat but then they don't. Can you check out my profile and tell me if there is something wrong and what can I do to help myself? Thanks in advance "

Try revealing your personality. Your profile is rather limited. Yes, you want NSA sex. You wouldn't be here otherwise.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for that and about the smile ??. Any suggestions for the profile? I want to try a club or something but a little scarred as never tried this before. Wasn't sure which way around would be better....single meet or a group!"

I like to be referred to as a woman, not a girl but not all women feel that way but apart from that I like to see a spark of humour and a hint of the personality behind the profile. Difficult, I know and somewhat unfair.

If you feel nervous arrange a coffee meet with someone you'll soon relax.

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By *andare69 OP Man
over a year ago

worcestershire

Try revealing your personality. Your profile is rather limited. Yes, you want NSA sex. You wouldn't be here otherwise.

What would you suggest? More about what Im looking for, more about what I like to do?

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over a year ago

Try revealing your personality. Your profile is rather limited. Yes, you want NSA sex. You wouldn't be here otherwise.

What would you suggest? More about what Im looking for, more about what I like to do? "

It is your personality. What makes you individual? Do you enjoy bingo? Roast dinners? Oral sex?

Only you can define you. Try it. Not easy but it may just turn a beige profile into one that is colourful.

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Love the avatar B&W photo, the rest not so much but that's just my opinion.

As others have said, use the search function and read other threads on profile advice. Go into stealth mode and look at other guys profiles and see if there's anything that hits you between the eyes and you can tweak to fit your own personality. Steer clear of stock phrases such as 'I don't bite' or 'I can breathe through my ears'... Believe me, it's not big nor clever - just a tad boring.

Try describing you to yourself - who are you? What are you looking for? Who do you want to meet? Good luck

J (her).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other bit of common advice is lose the public cock pic, otherwise profile needs a bit more personality a few things you'd like to try for example.

As for clubs, they aren't that scary. My advice is try and go with a friend of you can. Talk to people, politely, there; nothing will happen if you sit at the back. And finally don't expect anything, should be a fun night out even if all you get to do is watch some hot people have sex!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Try revealing your personality. Your profile is rather limited. Yes, you want NSA sex. You wouldn't be here otherwise.

What would you suggest? More about what Im looking for, more about what I like to do? "

Yes, more of those those things. If I suggest too much it will be a profile that reflects me rather than you and that's the last thing you want.

Plenty of people are here for more than nsa sex.

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