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How often do you delete your profile?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody else do this ? Then have to go for through newbie can't get a meet syndrome? And the one couple you did meet who are still on has blocked unverified guys.. I wish I'd listened to fab upon on deleting 'you'll be back.. 80% of people return'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it once....had people complaining /commenting I had too many verifications....! I've come back, had no problems at all....but been asking people not to bother in general.....just getting occasional ones to avoid looking like a slut lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never deleted my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nightmare for this! I'm ashamed to actually say how many times I've deleted profiles to prevent me just taking a peek! I kept my single profile when we made this one and they got rid of it how dare they! So now I'm forced to keep this one because of the verifications. I hate asking people to give me another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hide mine when I take a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete mine once a year, soon as it's almost a year old it's gone but always ask a previous meet to reverify the other week old profile that I make so I can post on the forum straight away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never deleted, we just hide our profile and photos and change our name periodically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whenever we get totally cheesed off with the fakes, weirdos and timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did it once after being on here for two years because another Mum at the school gates told me she'd heard we were swingers so we wanted to lay low for a while. Annoying really as I would have offered to help out with the admin photo verification thing but now our profile is no longer over 18 months old!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never deleted, we just hide our profile and photos and change our name periodically "

I know but I think if you start a relationship for me I feel I need to fully commit and assume it will work out.. By just hiding the profile it's saying I have doubts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I have hidden it a couple of times when I felt like taking a break though.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Deleted my old single profile once but was soon back,i just hid it after that if i wanted a break.

Miss

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one

Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic a little but does hiding profile still allow you to browse and use forums ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the profile that I started with on this site, never deleted it.

Only thing that would make be delete it would be starting a relationship that had no possibility of swinging in it.

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

Found

People with issues n drama delete profiles when they don't get enough attention .

Newbies get all attention after all lol

those that go vanilla do it

And those that get addicted to site

Personally I'd just hide it .. after all we all recognise those pictures !!

But guess some like to live in a fantastic realm and some are realists

How boring if we were all same x

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"Off topic a little but does hiding profile still allow you to browse and use forums ?? "

Yes z

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one

Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha

X "

But you hide your verification count on your personal account and obviously don't show them all

Isn't that a but kettle pot !!

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

I've never left ando restarted,but have taken a break away,and came back again,then those I had been chatting to before always tend to grab me with open arms,happy to see me back lol.

I wouldn't want to start again,when I'm quite happy with who and what I have x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one

Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha

X

But you hide your verification count on your personal account and obviously don't show them all

Isn't that a but kettle pot !!

"

Freedom of choice if the site allows it Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my third profile in 5 years. Started again on this one so I could block everyone and search for people myself without being pestered. Works really well for me.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I've not deleted since starting on fab as a couple.

I hid it while I thought about what I wanted to do ... decided to stay and ammendments were made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one guy who deletes his profile every week comes back and looks at us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never delete our profile. We've spent nearly 2 years building it up. We love our verifications and the story of our journey that they tell, and certainly do not want to lose that. It's bad enough when we lose a verification by others leaving. But as swinging is a lifestyle choice for us, I can't see a need to delete our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one ..never. ..couples, once .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep a few times. Fab aint my sole purpose of living

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty much think the day I delete that will be it, no more Fabs for me.

When I need a break I hide profile or don't login.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is incarnation no.3 in about 2 years for me. If I was a man I wouldn't delete but it doesn't really matter about losing veris or looking like a newbie if you're female. So I've deleted mine when I was bored of it and returned when I wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one

Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha

X "

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

So far.

Tempted at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOpe, Most single fems like me delete after a while. I have bigger balls than most men on here. I'm a red head.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is deleting your profile like self harm ? x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted for couple of years now just hide if I take a break x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on and off more times that ive had hot dinners tbh. For various reasons. I mostly come back due to boredom and sit here and think why the hell did I come back because I'm really not having fun. I always use the same name though so people who have met me or chatted to me before know its me. I guess it is down to personal preference. We all have a reasons for being here or not being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never deleated but have hidden it a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice so far.

Once when I was a couple and we're broke up, once when I just wanted a break.

Shame though as lost all my verifications and lost touch with a couple of people I really liked chatting with.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Just the once, because I was in luuurve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never have,same old

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nearly 8 years on this profile, never deleted, never felt the need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/09/16 13:49:47]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife started working away we basically stopped swinging except the occasional club night when time permits.

So I deleted the couples profile, and created this one for forum use only.

Photo verified it, and re joined as a single male, makes messages much easier to handle

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Never deleted it. Why delete and then return? That's just like getting back with an Ex. Once it's gone it's gone for good in my eyes.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

don't see any reason thus far to delete it or change my name..im like some others, i like seeing the journey..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have. Seems like too much faff. I can just try not logging in if I'm not feeling very fab. Easy

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I just delete the text as no one reads it anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted mine when i went into a relationship, but came back again.

It's easier stay away if you delete it, but hiding it makes it tempting just to 'have a quick look' etc.

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