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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are here for a bi girl or couple with bi fem .

What are we doing wrong can't find one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you're doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look harder, there's hundreds of 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be many things to be honest.

Maybe hey don't find you guys attractive? Or you might come across badly in messages? Or just the area you live in

You have plenty of photos which are tasteful so I can't see it being that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There are lots of bi female couples on here.

Go to a club, a social, get yourselves out there and mixing with people

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

You're doing that same as most couples your looking for a bi fem, so you've got shit loads of competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here for a bi girl or couple with bi fem .

What are we doing wrong can't find one?"

I'm lost as I can't imagine why anyone would not want to meet you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks been on here a while but guess we are fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to clubs... loads of single females and couples who like fem fun go ...

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks been on here a while but guess we are fussy."

Love your hair from a males point of view I find it a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like on another thread...there are no pics of the male half.

while the pics are great, cant you see this might not attract female attention?(no probs with male attention I'd say lol)

also..webcam verifies might not swing it for certain folk.

What type of meet does it have to be?- something of a social nature might give more interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are lots of single bifems and Bifem couples out there

I agree with earlier comments, going to a club or social would be a good idea. You can then get verified in person by someone there, even if you don't play. A lot of people prefer those to webcam verifications.

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the help"

I was also forced to fab the pics...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have played with people not on fab so they obviously can't verify us here,not sure if clubs are our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have played with people not on fab so they obviously can't verify us here,not sure if clubs are our thing."

it's worth a try..people do have misconceptions about clubs..forgetting you dont have to walk in the door n start shagging, or shag people you dont fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your looking for what most couples are looking for and the competition is fierce. But their are lots of lovely ladies and couples on here. Some dont meet couples unless in a club due to past experiences. So although a club might not be your thing it might be something to try to make connections you dont have to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like on another thread...there are no pics of the male half.

while the pics are great, cant you see this might not attract female attention?(no probs with male attention I'd say lol)

also..webcam verifies might not swing it for certain folk.

What type of meet does it have to be?- something of a social nature might give more interest."

Why no male pics at all? Would you both be there or is it only the woman meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads like it's a single female, that could be off-putting/confusing.

You look absolutely gorgeous though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waves* - cooeee xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"
this just keep looking and one may find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to message you but we got a warning saying you werent looking for couples.

x C & A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Play together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou peaches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not true we are but with bi fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not true we are but with bi fem"

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems."

Thankfully, yes

Bun

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

Thankfully, yes

Bun "

Bifemale couple her.

Hi bun

Looking forward to next Tuesday

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"We are here for a bi girl or couple with bi fem .

What are we doing wrong can't find one?"

you are soft swing, puts a lot of single bi ladies off..your pics are gorgeous.. id play as part of my couple profile (its named on my single one) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

Thankfully, yes

Bun

Bifemale couple her.

Hi bun

Looking forward to next Tuesday "

amost sounded like c u next tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I'd say, is that there are no photos of your hubby x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There are lots of us out there.. Maybe it's because you stated you want attractive ppl.

May out of age ranges.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

Thankfully, yes

Bun

Bifemale couple her.

Hi bun

Looking forward to next Tuesday "

Me too, glad you are coming

Bun

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

Thankfully, yes

Bun

Bifemale couple her.

Hi bun

Looking forward to next Tuesday

amost sounded like c u next tuesday "

:: she will be seeing me next Tuesday

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Not true we are but with bi fem

Id risk saying that the majority of couples on here have bi-fems.

Thankfully, yes

Bun

Bifemale couple her.

Hi bun

Looking forward to next Tuesday

amost sounded like c u next tuesday

:: she will be seeing me next Tuesday "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started out as soft swap and there are plenty about but since we full swap now there are even more - for a bi fem make sure you make it about her first - she wants to feel special not part of an act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures of the male. That usually tells me all I need to know.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We went to message you but we got a warning saying you werent looking for couples.

x C & A"

OP if couples can't message you that will be a problem.

From my perspective, the description of Mr and no photos of him means you have no idea at all what build he is, this would mean I would be unsure.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people don't like the tattoos you have on your thigh and arse!! ....

Jokes before anyone says omg you ... Etc!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

As a couple with a bi female we would say your profile puts us off.

It may attract other people but to us it seems very self opinionated.

Just a personal opinion which others will disagree with.

Sorry but you did ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here for a bi girl or couple with bi fem .

What are we doing wrong can't find one?"

You say you are too fussy, maybe the Bi females are too.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple with a bi female we would say your profile puts us off.

It may attract other people but to us it seems very self opinionated.

Just a personal opinion which others will disagree with.

Sorry but you did ask

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This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances of meeting a bi-female on here is pretty non existant from what I've heard....I would stick to going to clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here for a bi girl or couple with bi fem .

What are we doing wrong can't find one?"

Maybe there are not a lot who are into this local to you ... So maybe better going to a club like chams or xtasia on one of there bi nights. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances of meeting a bi-female on here is pretty non existant from what I've heard....I would stick to going to clubs x"

not at all - we meet them - take plenty of time to chat to them - get to know what makes them tick - its daunting being a single fem in a couples zone - its not to be hurried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And really a lot who say they are bi are not I find its a dream for a lot .

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