FabSwingers.com forum: Cant seem to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile,you smoke which puts a lot off and you neither accommodate nor travel

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

Cannot accommodate

Cannot travel

Apparently you'll meet a 99 yr old

And can't be bothered to fill in a basic profile

Would you like me to go on??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Harsh lol. Im new to all this ao dont really no where to start im asking for help not criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An inviting avatar would be good too

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Harsh lol. Im new to all this ao dont really no where to start im asking for help not criticism "

Think you'll find its constructive criticism, try looking at other guys profiles who have success, a bit a research goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search the forums for profile advice. As most people will look at a profile before reading a message. You have put zero effort into yours which is probably why you are having zero luck.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Harsh lol. Im new to all this ao dont really no where to start im asking for help not criticism "

Tell me what part of your profile would make someone want to meet you?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks"

It sure is a mystery! Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harsh lol. Im new to all this ao dont really no where to start im asking for help not criticism "

View the criticism as constructive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've written a 5 word profile, do you put as much effort in to your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in = results.

Your profile is one step away from an anonymous cock pic.

Cannot travel or accommodate will put off a lot and your profile says exactly nothing.

You have to remember that everyone on here is an actual person. You have to sell yourself, and make someone interested enough to get intimate with you.

Your profile is your shop window. You need to make yours stand out from the hundreds of other single males in your area.

You asked the question, people here are answering rather than giving you a roasting...take it on board.

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any better ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women don't like overly graphic profiles. They want to know the person, their personality etc as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any better ? Lol"

In a word, no my lovely!! You seem to be selling yourself as just a cock, saying you want a woman that knows how to treat a cock. The majority of women on here want way more from a meet than just a cock. Also, the slightly graphic second part is hugely off putting. Oh, and its don't know not dunno

Try writing a little more about what you're looking for, why you're here and what you can offer whilst trying to get your personality and humour accross. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us your profile basically says you can only meet locally and if we were to travel to you we would have to rush to get out cos parents are gonna be home soon(not saying thats the case just how people will see it) and your a single guy who likes to lick pussy

It doesnt tell us anything about what your like as a person or what your into or would like from a meet

The one posetive i can give is at least we can see what you look like and not just a random cock so that puts you above allot of guys straight away but id work on the text if i were you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?"

Hmmm, buy it things, like a new cock ring, say complimentary things to it, maybe get it a bunch of flowers for its birthday???!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any better ? Lol

Try writing a little more about what you're looking for, why you're here and what you can offer whilst trying to get your personality and humour accross. Good luck

As the lady said..try spell check. Save the graphic part for if you get chatting to someone who likes you..

It's personality that will get you to meet someone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

Hmmm, buy it things, like a new cock ring, say complimentary things to it, maybe get it a bunch of flowers for its birthday???!"

Awww thank you now we understand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you go to the Newcastle social in July?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks"

You're not the only one. We struggle to meet also, have put meets up but no takers

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I often say no gender or demographic has it easy on here, Often for very different reasons...

The same basic guidelines are applicable to all profiles from whatever gender or demographicafter all we're all trying to inform and attract others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harsh lol. Im new to all this ao dont really no where to start im asking for help not criticism "

Don't knock it mate, criticism is the only thing you free in here, and there's plenty to go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your profile. There's a vagueness and uncertainty to it, like when you say 'Dunno where to start'. Makes you sound like you don't know what you want and suggests a lack of confidence,which is a turn-off.

You should say everything you need to say in as concise a way as possible, so that information is not repeated. Saying your age and required age range wastes valuable profile space as it is already on your specifications. I would strongly advise you to read through your profile several times and correct typos. A lot of people take the view that if someone doesn't have attention to detail in their profile text they may not have attention to detail in bed.

Reading your profile, I get the impression you are looking for a female fuck buddy/friend with benefits. Although you do mention the swing scene and you have 'couples' as an option, but its not clear if swinging and couple play is a priority for you. If you just want a FB and nothing else, it maybe worth your using casual dating sites too. However if you are also interested in swinging then it's likely you would be interested in playing with an MF couple. If this is the case, you should talk about that particular interest a bit more in your profile, otherwise couples will pass you by. Either way be clear about what you want.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

I want a bacon sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks"
More patience is needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In addition to all of the pointers above, don't forget the guy to girl ratio - the odds are stacked against you.

Also, you need to have patience. Just relax and enjoy the site - engaging in the forums is a good way of getting noticed.

Add more pictures - just one doesn't give the ladies much to look at does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In addition to all of the pointers above, don't forget the guy to girl ratio - the odds are stacked against you.

Also, you need to have patience. Just relax and enjoy the site - engaging in the forums is a good way of getting noticed.

Add more pictures - just one doesn't give the ladies much to look at does it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here a little over a month now, i have had meets but it seems like i am scraping the barrel.

I start talking to people who say they would love to meet me then all of a sudden they just stop talking.

When talking to "couples" it turns out it's really a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i had the same thing. Talking about a meet after some time of chatting and tgen goes cold. But sometimes i think just wait till they agree on meet but yes more on profile will help.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I haven't actually looked at your profile because you haven't asked for advice on it.

My advice is to look at your profile, because this is the first thing people see, and pretend you are the person you would like to meet. What would they get from your profile? Is it the impression you want to give? Do you feel like it's enough to spark their interest or do you just look like hundreds of other local mean who can't or don't want to put the effort in? And don't forget that if people have to assume something because you have given too little information then they tend to assume the worse.

You have a lot of competition, to stand out you need to make the effort. But at the end of the day you can't please everyone so just show what you want and hope for the best, there is no quick solution as we are all different.

If you are happy with your profile then take a look at what you are messaging people, are you reading their profiles properly beforehand and tailoring you messages to suit? If you are then all you can do is keep trying different people and hopefully one day you'll find someone who likes the look of you. Because, no matter how much it is denied, it doesn't matter how good your text is if how you look isn't attractive to the person you contact.

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Just have a wank and forget it all

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks"

Its really not difficult, put in some thought, tailer messages to the profile you are sending it to, show some respect, add a face pic, don't say anything you wouldn't say to their face in a pub and be yourself, unless your an axe murderer!

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Read other single guys profile .. lift the things that equate to you ... flesh it out so to speak .. as others have said your not doing yourself any favours at all by no accom no travel no dialogue .. just smacks of a typical lazy single guy .. who expects a lot and gets fuck all. And whinges when you get the aforementioned .. fuck all .. you get out of this site what you put into it ... ...

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By *uietcountryboy69Man
over a year ago

nearby

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Read other single guys profile .. lift the things that equate to you ... flesh it out so to speak .. as others have said your not doing yourself any favours at all by no accom no travel no dialogue .. just smacks of a typical lazy single guy .. who expects a lot and gets fuck all. And whinges when you get the aforementioned .. fuck all .. you get out of this site what you put into it ... ... "

It takes time effort and thought plus a little style to write a decent profile, but the effort yields great rewards...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have as well it's very frustrating as we don't have much free time due to having kids so can't meet at drop of a hat.

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By *his40Man
over a year ago

centre

Don't worry too much on it as I am finding it difficult get meets from fab too , have u tried tinder etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

Hmmm, buy it things, like a new cock ring, say complimentary things to it, maybe get it a bunch of flowers for its birthday???!"
haha poor bloke at least you having ago at him and not me haha you ok anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

Hmmm, buy it things, like a new cock ring, say complimentary things to it, maybe get it a bunch of flowers for its birthday???!haha poor bloke at least you having ago at him and not me haha you ok anyway x"

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry too much on it as I am finding it difficult get meets from fab too , have u tried tinder etc "

If the only effort anyone is prepared to put in is equal to the effort required on Tinder, no surprise they have no success on Fab.

If you were in a bar and saw someone you were attracted to, would you swagger over and without a word, slap your cock out on the bar?

Or would you try to establish a little eye contact and a smile before you approached her?

Guess what, Fab is the same.

Hope that helps those who struggle with their initial approach.

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By *rik11Man
over a year ago

northeast scotland

Look at it as a godsend, after a few meets you'll soon appreciate how lucky you were beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if you nick any of mine I will come round and bitch slap you...with a wet haddock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

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haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x"

I don't want the chance

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Any better ? Lol"

I didn't read it before you changed it but will just say add more pics and your avatar pic is quite dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

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because you will lose you ok then anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x"

I will lose me? That makes no sense, I've lost my marbles, I haven't lost myself, pretty hard to lose a 15 stone lump like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

I will lose me? That makes no sense, I've lost my marbles, I haven't lost myself, pretty hard to lose a 15 stone lump like me

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stop being horrible to yourself i meant lose against me in banter silly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x"

I wouldn't go there if I was you bud as trust me, you'll be the one crying after she's made you pee your little boy pants, you'll be screaming for you mum ! Miss F is one strong feisty handful and I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

I will lose me? That makes no sense, I've lost my marbles, I haven't lost myself, pretty hard to lose a 15 stone lump like me

stop being horrible to yourself i meant lose against me in banter silly x"

I wasn't being horrible to myself, that was called banter, you realy don't get it do you so therefore you lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

Haha, it was the 10 inch strap on that got you big man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

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oh i know ive had the full force of her typing nagging lol but i know she isnt nasty

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By *loriajonCouple
over a year ago

near u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

Haha, it was the 10 inch strap on that got you big man

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ok from now on gonna be nice too you 10 inch strap on erm now thats a gangerous weapon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

oh i know ive had the full force of her typing nagging lol but i know she isnt nasty "

Believe me, you haven't my lovely. Anyway in all seriousness this has gone away from the original thread so is therefore a little disrespectful to the OP. I'm off to destroy the Joker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

I will lose me? That makes no sense, I've lost my marbles, I haven't lost myself, pretty hard to lose a 15 stone lump like me

stop being horrible to yourself i meant lose against me in banter silly x

I wasn't being horrible to myself, that was called banter, you realy don't get it do you so therefore you lose

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if you say ive lost then i have lost dont fancy that 10 inch strap on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

oh i know ive had the full force of her typing nagging lol but i know she isnt nasty

Believe me, you haven't my lovely. Anyway in all seriousness this has gone away from the original thread so is therefore a little disrespectful to the OP. I'm off to destroy the Joker

"
yeagh your right what we doing your fault x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

oh i know ive had the full force of her typing nagging lol but i know she isnt nasty

Believe me, you haven't my lovely. Anyway in all seriousness this has gone away from the original thread so is therefore a little disrespectful to the OP. I'm off to destroy the Joker

yeagh your right what we doing your fault x"

Scrolling up a few posts I think you'll find you started it but its ok honey, I know you were desperate to contact me, you are after all, only human

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks"
i had the same problem . so i decided females needed a hand ! never looked back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see you see yourself as a cock

"Looking for a woman who knows how to treat a cock "....what does that mean?

I think you've confused having a go for banter, difficult to distinguish between the 2 sometimes when done so deftly well but do try to keep up my lovely!

haha your lovely flamehaired but keep up with the banter you have no chance miss bossy boots x

I don't want the chance

because you will lose you ok then anyway x

oh i know ive had the full force of her typing nagging lol but i know she isnt nasty

Believe me, you haven't my lovely. Anyway in all seriousness this has gone away from the original thread so is therefore a little disrespectful to the OP. I'm off to destroy the Joker

yeagh your right what we doing your fault x

Scrolling up a few posts I think you'll find you started it but its ok honey, I know you were desperate to contact me, you are after all, only human

Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee "
omg haha x

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By *urph6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

"I've on here a few months now and still not managed to get a meet can anyone help as I dont no where im going wrong. Thanks

It sure is a mystery! Your profile tells me everything I need to know. "

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