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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Does any woman have any advice as to how I can receive more answers from my messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send different messages x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Without knowing what you're sending we can't really comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the person your messaging, people prefer different kinds, personally any message that's a novel is just to much for my liking, If it's single woman i dread your chances I reply as much as I can do, if I come on to over 100 messages I just swipe clean then start a fresh, hate to imagine the great ones missed but some days you need a PA for this place

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Just send loads of random "Fancy a fuck?" messages, the more no responses you get, the closer you are to getting a shag

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Many women read a profile before reading a message. Maybe therein lies your problem, not your messages.

Just a thought.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Many women read a profile before reading a message. Maybe therein lies your problem, not your messages.

Just a thought."

Not allowed to give profile advice unless it's invited though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send loads of random "Fancy a fuck?" messages, the more no responses you get, the closer you are to getting a shag "

always one that lowers the tone

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"always one that lowers the tone "

How low do ya wanna go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Make a hot list of x amount of local women you want to meet.

2. Make notes about each profile ie are you their type? Do you want the same things? Are they social butterflys? Do they just play at clubs? What do their pictures show they are into?

3. Take out the women who you feel you won't suit.

4. Check your hot list updates and send a suitable message so it shows you are paying attention to them ie a woman posts she has been stood up why not send her a message offering to take her for a social drink?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd update your profile as well as add more pics. And get to know some more people, including visiting socials.

I'd focus less on the advice you had to join here and more on who you are and what you like and can offer.

It is incredibly tough for single men - we can't change that.

But, everyone reads the profile of the person sending them a message - so put your attention there.

You're a decent guy - let this shine more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always one that lowers the tone

How low do ya wanna go "

right down to the bottom

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"always one that lowers the tone

How low do ya wanna go

right down to the bottom "

I need some sort of notice if you're going anywhere my bottom young lady thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always one that lowers the tone

How low do ya wanna go

right down to the bottom

I need some sort of notice if you're going anywhere my bottom young lady thank you very much "

oh i think a spank would be notice enough

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By *onlyshowWoman
over a year ago

your dreams


"Does any woman have any advice as to how I can receive more answers from my messages?"

Have you thought about making an effort and uploading some new photos, if I were considering meeting somebody I'd want to know what they looked like now, not two years ago, after all we all have smart phones.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

I'd message the women that fancy you.

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near


"Does any woman have any advice as to how I can receive more answers from my messages?"

One easy way is to become a single bi lady

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

You might need a PA but then look at you. If you sent out 100s of messages and got no reply how would you feel really, like sending more? Probably not.

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Yeah I'll just become a single bi lady. Stupid answer!

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Could be the case thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be more attractive to those who you message. your profile isn;t offensive so there's nothing else that is putting people off you.

either visually or with what you send. it's gonna be different for each person also so you;re kind of fucked when asking for advice on this.

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near


"Yeah I'll just become a single bi lady. Stupid answer!"

Well you feel the need to ignore the sensible answers you are getting so thought I would give you another thing to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change gender "

This. Trust me; it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change gender

This. Trust me; it works "

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

How am I ignoring the sensible answers?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Without knowing what you're sending we can't really comment "

This.

Do you read the profiles of those you send messages to? Use their profile as a talking point in your message.

As previously suggested, take some recent photos also.

Remember the large ratio of men to women on here, your message will need to be unique to get the ladies attention.

Good luck OP

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Do you recommend cock pics at all?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Do you recommend cock pics at all? "

No!

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Definitely no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am I ignoring the sensible answers?"

I've no idea how you're ignoring them.

We've tried so hard to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you recommend cock pics at all? "

Kinda think that comment sums it all up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you recommend cock pics at all?

Kinda think that comment sums it all up "

Can I just say; you really ought to see a doctor. It's not supposed to have such a shiny end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many women read a profile before reading a message. Maybe therein lies your problem, not your messages.

Just a thought."

I second that. I always check the profile before replying.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Take a pic of your nob next to the sky remote..

Oh all the women will say they hate it but we know secretly they love it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depending on the person your messaging, people prefer different kinds, personally any message that's a novel is just to much for my liking, If it's single woman i dread your chances I reply as much as I can do, if I come on to over 100 messages I just swipe clean then start a fresh, hate to imagine the great ones missed but some days you need a PA for this place "

Your not just a single woman! Your the unicorn! A young bisexual female who can accommodate and your extremely attractive! Don't sell yourself short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How am I ignoring the sensible answers?"

Amongst the good-natured humour, there was some good advice - which you have chosen to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask questions that relate to their profile. It proves you have read it x

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I've added to my profile a couple of new pics and more writing, any thoughts?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I don't believe that throwing other single guys under the bus is a very good look.

You'd be better highlighting your own strengths rather than accusing other guys of all sorts..

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By *ickey40 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Yeah ok, good point. Thanks. Don't wanna be accusing others come to think of it

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