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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, just a question as im a little bemused! On my profile I have it listed that I am athletic, I also have pics that quite clearly show my body and on my profile I state pretty clearly what I am and am not..,yet upon sending someone a face pic they said that I look average build, and then blocked me...maybe my face tells a different story to my body piccs! Not that it bothers me but found it odd haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They weren't interested end of, no point stressing about it. You are not my idea of atheltic but there lies the problem, everyone has differing views as to what constitutes a certain body type. Put what you feel is right for you and don't worry about what others say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you! not stressing about it at all, just intreagued as to what someone would take more notice of, pics and profile text or that one little word for body type! As you say everyone is different in their thoughts on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd take more notice of the pics my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're fat just put fat, if you're thin put thin, It gets confusing when people put Cuddly, Fabulous, and the rest of the denials that your fat. Why lie or try make things diffrent, all that happens IF you meet is people just say sorry not our type a total waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you're fat just put fat, if you're thin put thin, It gets confusing when people put Cuddly, Fabulous, and the rest of the denials that your fat. Why lie or try make things diffrent, all that happens IF you meet is people just say sorry not our type a total waste of time."

Except fat isn't one of the options available for people to select. I put fabulous, but I have photos so I'm not lying to anyone or in denial about anything or wasting anyone's time. If you can't look at a photo and determine whether or not you fancy someone then that's your problem.

OP, the photos are much more important than the option you select.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would have thought so too! I would just add that they instigated conversation first by mailing say they liked my pics! it just makes me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put athletic, but my perception of athletic is thinner than say a bodybuilder? Like said before everyone's idea of body types is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought so too! I would just add that they instigated conversation first by mailing say they liked my pics! it just makes me chuckle! "

They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never even look at the description because it is so vague. Pictures speak a thousand words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put athletic for mine. Fits the bill IMO.

I got blocked once because she thought l had different face pics when it was just a different haircut. Silly girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought so too! I would just add that they instigated conversation first by mailing say they liked my pics! it just makes me chuckle!

They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth. "
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I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I never even look at the description because it is so vague. Pictures speak a thousand words"

Common sense, you say? I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, seems to be the consensus so far! Will change it to avoid further confusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never even look at the description because it is so vague. Pictures speak a thousand words

Common sense, you say? I'm in."

It's how i justify the use of fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems like a constant battle against supremacy on people's profiles, if you say your athletic your a liar, if you say your fat your still a liar,

If you write a lot of text it's to much, less is not enough,

Cock pics are acceptable an unnacceptable,

Just be yourself and put what suits you,

No point begging for sex

No point at all

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I never even look at the description because it is so vague. Pictures speak a thousand words

Common sense, you say? I'm in.

It's how i justify the use of fabulous "

I've decided after years of being curvy to plump for large due to my height to width ratio.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I used to put slim. But not sure I can get away with that anymore.

So more average territory.

To be athletic I'd need to have some definition about me.

Everyones will view what is athletic differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought so too! I would just add that they instigated conversation first by mailing say they liked my pics! it just makes me chuckle!

They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth. .

I disagree."

Ok then my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic."

What do you consider athletic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have thought so too! I would just add that they instigated conversation first by mailing say they liked my pics! it just makes me chuckle!

They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth. "

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy. You're slim. Just choose fabulous! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic.

What do you consider athletic?

"

You're athletic. Bigger more defined muscles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic.

What do you consider athletic?

"

Mo Farah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No farrer against Husain bolt ?

Both athletes and both have different builds and toned body's ?

Jeff Capes

Big Daddy

All athletes in there own right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic.

What do you consider athletic?

Mo Farah. "

His traing routine was mental

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too broad a subject is this - what is average to one is curvy to another - which in turn others may see as fat - who cares - if you like what you see carry on if you dont - ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too broad a subject is this - what is average to one is curvy to another - which in turn others may see as fat - who cares - if you like what you see carry on if you dont - ignore"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!"

I think mo farah is both slim and athletic. His muscles are very defined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never even look at the description because it is so vague. Pictures speak a thousand words"
Except they maybe ten years old,

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth. "

This is the real answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!"

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am obese,i use the word 'obese' in my profile...

I am who i am...take it or leave it.

Be happy being you OP and the rest will follow...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think your photos show you as slim, not athletic.

What do you consider athletic?

"

You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat "

What absolute rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat "

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you're fat just put fat, if you're thin put thin, It gets confusing when people put Cuddly, Fabulous, and the rest of the denials that your fat. Why lie or try make things diffrent, all that happens IF you meet is people just say sorry not our type a total waste of time."

This is what we do, and have done on our profile.

Mrs N=skinny minx, Mr N=fat fcuker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They didn't fancy you when you sent the face pic and used the excuse about your body not looking athletic as an excuse not to tell the honest truth.

This is the real answer "

No I don't think they would have been lying at all, I do t think they was attracted at all, surely someone wouldn't lie about a body and say the face ?

What would be the point in that ?

No offence op

They didn't fancy you

On the chin, head up and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha hopefully that would be obvious from a pic too...I would hope'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here "

Lets get together and have a joint heart attack, keep each other company through it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat "

That statement is medically inaccurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mo Farrer runs 20 odd miles per day or more everyday every week, his build is what I would class as athletic,

Also maybe take a look at a bloke called

Joss Nayler MBE Fell runner

That is an athlete with athletic build

Athletic build is not a person that sits on his arse at the gym benching 150 kg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mo Farrer runs 20 odd miles per day or more everyday every week, his build is what I would class as athletic,

Also maybe take a look at a bloke called

Joss Nayler MBE Fell runner

That is an athlete with athletic build

Athletic build is not a person that sits on his arse at the gym benching 150 kg "

In your opinion, other people like myself would disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat "

What if they are very tall? Plenty of guys over 6'4 weigh well over 14 stone yet they are still slim and can usually run quite far with no problems at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here

Lets get together and have a joint heart attack, keep each other company through it! "

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mo Farrer runs 20 odd miles per day or more everyday every week, his build is what I would class as athletic,

Also maybe take a look at a bloke called

Joss Nayler MBE Fell runner

That is an athlete with athletic build

Athletic build is not a person that sits on his arse at the gym benching 150 kg

In your opinion, other people like myself would disagree. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

That statement is medically inaccurate "

I agree. It's about composition, height etc. It is also an illusion. The leaner you are the bigger you look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

What if they are very tall? Plenty of guys over 6'4 weigh well over 14 stone yet they are still slim and can usually run quite far with no problems at all..."

I'm going by fabs most desired male height of 6ft 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here

Lets get together and have a joint heart attack, keep each other company through it!

Deal "

Bloody hell, can I come too, I'm an "athletic" 20 stone ?!

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

We think your hot so don't stress over it Hun.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here

Lets get together and have a joint heart attack, keep each other company through it!

Deal

Bloody hell, can I come too, I'm an "athletic" 20 stone ?! "

The more the merrier. Only if you're over 14 stone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a debate that could go on into the next generation, we may all end up like those folk on that film WALLY

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love it im going to get eating more this sounds like a much more fun club to be a part of!

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel


"Thank you, seems to be the consensus so far! Will change it to avoid further confusion! "

athletic in my books

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think al stay a skinny fuker the positions I manage are endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What if they are very tall? Plenty of guys over 6'4 weigh well over 14 stone yet they are still slim and can usually run quite far with no problems at all...

I'm going by fabs most desired male height of 6ft 1 "

You're talking shit more like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What if they are very tall? Plenty of guys over 6'4 weigh well over 14 stone yet they are still slim and can usually run quite far with no problems at all...

I'm going by fabs most desired male height of 6ft 1

You're talking shit more like... "

True take notice, there's more men that's 6ft 1 than any other height going and I'm sure the average height of a British male is below 5ft 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google says 5 ft 10

Fabs inches must be a 16th bigger than the usual inch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm slim. 72KG at 176cm height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What if they are very tall? Plenty of guys over 6'4 weigh well over 14 stone yet they are still slim and can usually run quite far with no problems at all...

I'm going by fabs most desired male height of 6ft 1

You're talking shit more like...

True take notice, there's more men that's 6ft 1 than any other height going and I'm sure the average height of a British male is below 5ft 10 "

You do know the defenitions of average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm slim. 72KG at 176cm height "

I'm around 70-72kg at around 184-185cm

So I'm probably slightly skinnier than you but it's all good

I think with my brain and my cock

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By *icpl81Couple
over a year ago

hednesford


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

15.5 stone of pure heart attack over here

Lets get together and have a joint heart attack, keep each other company through it!

Deal

Bloody hell, can I come too, I'm an "athletic" 20 stone ?!

The more the merrier. Only if you're over 14 stone though "

Wooza! Ruby....hot is an understatement for you woman!! Heart attack in sexy company can I come too? - her ??

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Hi all, just a question as im a little bemused! On my profile I have it listed that I am athletic, I also have pics that quite clearly show my body and on my profile I state pretty clearly what I am and am not..,yet upon sending someone a face pic they said that I look average build, and then blocked me...maybe my face tells a different story to my body piccs! Not that it bothers me but found it odd haha "
think you should put 'yummy' and forget about the haters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat "

dont really think weight is a guide - as height comes into it - himself is about 11 and half stone and slim/average and toned - nowhere near heavy build

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His training routine is crazy! What an athlete! But not an athletic but it would appear!

I would class him as in athletic build, anything over 11-12 stones I would class as heavy build, can't run as far or as fast and gets tired a lot quicker , anything over 14 stone I would class as heart attack waiting to happen be it muscle or fat

What absolute rubbish!"

So please explain your theory to this as I'm over 14 stone but still play rugby, go to the gym and try to keep fit? My mind really does boggle at times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They weren't interested end of, no point stressing about it. You are not my idea of atheltic but there lies the problem, everyone has differing views as to what constitutes a certain body type. Put what you feel is right for you and don't worry about what others say. "
m

This!

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