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What am I doing wrong ladies :(

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trying my best to get at least a reply but no I take time in every msg I send any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a smile. Women are more receptive to someone with a friendly, smiley face.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No profile to speak of, blurred face pic, cock pics. All not great.

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and you will find the answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many cock pics and not enough words...

oh and the user name is rather offputting too

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a few non cock piccies on your profile, pics of you not in work clothes and a nice smiley face can go a long way...good luck x

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Poor wording, username not great, pictures cock cock and blurry face....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everybody for advice I wasnt sure on the pic myself tbh I will change and have a big smile haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The username sucks to be honest!

Quite a few of the ladies looking for younger guys would probably find it off putting, we do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it sucks anyway I can change it what will indulge the ladies lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sausageroll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really like that hahaha my new name it is x

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Excercise some patience you got to take the ratio of guys to girls into consideration....id advise you to go out to socials and parties its far better meeting people in person pics are most of the time misleading and the girls receive so much mail to go through....change your game plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really like that hahaha my new name it is x"

no offence OP but you do look very young...

I can see now why you were wearing the workwear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all they advice and yeh I got a baby face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all they advice and yeh I got a baby face "

Yeah change the username and I agree with the post about getting to socials and clubs - it's a great way to meet people

Why married women? That set my spidy sense off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even the nicest message in the world may not necessarily invoke a reply. The ratio of women to men stacks the odds against you, and the ladies on here receive hundreds of messages a day, so the chances are a lady may just delete your message for the sake of keeping her inbox clean!

Aside from the pointers that other people in this thread have given, there's no set formula to receiving a reply, it really is just pot luck I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying my best to get at least a reply but no I take time in every msg I send any advice "

Bad grammar is an instant delete for us, that and your into married women, swinging in our view is about openness and honesty so that's a big NOPE from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal opinion,I don't like the way you start :Hey all I am 25!

I appreciate when I guy starts the introduction with his name first and speak a bit about himself.Best of luck.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

You have written "can you really handle me" in your profile.

To us that sounds arrogant... And experience tells us that those that shout the most, have very little to shout about!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Are you attached op?the discretion bit and cannot accom would make me a little suspicuous .

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Suspicious even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you attached op?the discretion bit and cannot accom would make me a little suspicuous .

Miss"

I don't accommodate and I also appreciate discretion,because I have a professional life and also Have many reasons people can't accommodate .Living with parents,or children or even roommates! Once I rented a room and I couldn't receive guests.So I don't see nothing suspicious in that.we need to safeguard our life and reputation that's all.thankyou

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Are you attached op?the discretion bit and cannot accom would make me a little suspicuous .

Miss

I don't accommodate and I also appreciate discretion,because I have a professional life and also Have many reasons people can't accommodate .Living with parents,or children or even roommates! Once I rented a room and I couldn't receive guests.So I don't see nothing suspicious in that.we need to safeguard our life and reputation that's all.thankyou "

I totally appreciate people need discretion ,but you havent plastered your face all over your profile.I dont think everyone who can't accom is attached ,but certain things make me question it ie wanting to meet married women .

Miss

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Try a smile. Women are more receptive to someone with a friendly, smiley face. "

Actually research proves otherwise Google it and you will be surprised

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