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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x"

In my experience,mixing business and pleasure never ends well.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Trickey...

If your female he may want 1 on 1 fun...

If your male,he may want your wife and be stroppy with you.

If he is part of a couple, his wife nay have issues with you spending to much time together.

If its a female then all of the above is just one big assumption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't tell him who you were.

I would keep my job and swinging separate.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

He's your boss, you do not know how uncomfortable things could get so keep things to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x"

No, keep work and home seperate

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Omg you could have such fun with that get him to rate all the staff and what he would like to do to them but don't let him know who you are.

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By *op2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west

Thanks guys and girls will have a think about it x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Big mistake already imo. Back peddle and also block so he can't see your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will all end in tears...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Hope he/she doesn't come on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone I know from work message me. I deleted their message without reply and blocked them. Its really not worth the hassle or embarrasment it could cause you or them.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I personally wouldn't tell him who you were.

I would keep my job and swinging separate.

"

This

That's a groovy new pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't there saying that goes " don't crap on your own door step?" I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own opinions but personally I'd never mix business and pleasure, too many variations for things to go wrong on both sides

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Disaster of biblical proportions both on the job and the swinging sides.

Avoid.

Like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disaster of biblical proportions both on the job and the swinging sides.

Avoid.

Like the plague."

It's one of those things that works well in porn... and nowhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone from my work is on here.....but they all know I am...... From the newest recruit up to the MD..... But as a single guy I'm probably in a different position to the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone we see that we even think we might know, they just get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go quiet he will delete his acount and start ssking at work just so you cant use the info for a pay rise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x"

Whoa!! You told him you know him from work? Poor guy will probably be as paranoid as fuck now.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

If you want to risk everyone at work finding out you're a swinger, possibly losing your reputation and or job then go ahead. Otherwise block and delete! I'd also change your user name in case they rejoin under another profile and find you again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x"

If he reads the forum he's going to know anyway. I'm not sure why you told him you know him if you didn't know if you were going to meet him or not that's not discreet at all.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Just seen my boss on here and we started chatting told him that I know him from work and it's ok we're discreet now he is wanting to know us do we tell him or not x

Whoa!! You told him you know him from work? Poor guy will probably be as paranoid as fuck now. "

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

He has as much right to a private life as you do. Id block him so that you can both continue in privacy without awkwardness. And its not fair to tell him you know who he is without revealing your own identity. I was stalked in this fashion for a long time.

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