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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

offer them the things you love doing to them.

nothing worse than meeting someone who has talked a load of shit to you and built up your hopes of having an amazing meet then doesn't live up to that.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you don't have to appeal to every woman on here, in fact it would be impossible because as you say we all like different things.

What is generally meant by that advice is to sell yourself and put into your profile what you are good at. Only you know this so we can't help you with this. What kind of things are you into, are there any fantasies you want to try.

Show us a little bit of your personality in your profile, make us laugh. Most ladies on here may be looking for no strings sex but we could get that any night of the week down at the local pub.

You need to impress us. A photo of your cock and a message saying "do u wanna fuck" isn't enough to make us drop our knickers. This may be a sex site but we do have standards. My standards are much higher on here than in the real world.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer vodka

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your profile as it stands tells the reader nothing apart from the fact that you are single and want sex!

It needs an injection of personality and a little humour....oh and for gods sake lose that cringey status! Its like a really bad version of a 1970's romance novel!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

What do you enjoy doing with a lady? What activities have you enjoyed in the past, or would you like to explore?

You cannot appeal to everyone and for the best chance of a great time for all, do talk about things you know you enjoy and do not pretend to have experience or to enjoy activities you do not.

Your profile is like your shop window, advertise yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not looking for couples, so my advise may only be semi relevant. But we look for guys who are able to offer a friendship as well as sex. Other things I make a bee line for are men who are sexually confidant, good at seduction, and into domination.

You work out what your strengths would be and sell yourself based on that. Then you can attract those women who are looking for what you can do. If you just want big standard sex - well everybody does that.

Btw. My curiosity has got better of me. Why are you saying in your profile that you are looking for a cuckold? I would have assumed you meant cuckold couple, but your profile says you are only looking for ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be your on the wrong site and a gf if what you're really looking for, that's kinda how your profile reads. XXX

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

OP's profile does not suggest to me that he is looking for a gf, but it doesn't really come across what he is looking for.

OP, hopefully you know some of your strengths, likes, dislikes, what you really enjoy doing with a lady and what you'd like to try.

What you have to offer is personal to you. But it will include elements of the above, of your personality...imagine a woman looking to spend a few hours in your company...what might she experience? What's in it for her?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Have sent you a message with advice, for what it's worth.

Good luck OP

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"OP's profile does not suggest to me that he is looking for a gf, but it doesn't really come across what he is looking for.

OP, hopefully you know some of your strengths, likes, dislikes, what you really enjoy doing with a lady and what you'd like to try.

What you have to offer is personal to you. But it will include elements of the above, of your personality...imagine a woman looking to spend a few hours in your company...what might she experience? What's in it for her?"

Don't know what I like/dislike because I am sexually inexperienced and women don't want that. I would like a girlfriend but it's never happened. The female cuckold thing was hoping to find a woman to help me grow sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP's profile does not suggest to me that he is looking for a gf, but it doesn't really come across what he is looking for.

OP, hopefully you know some of your strengths, likes, dislikes, what you really enjoy doing with a lady and what you'd like to try.

What you have to offer is personal to you. But it will include elements of the above, of your personality...imagine a woman looking to spend a few hours in your company...what might she experience? What's in it for her?

Don't know what I like/dislike because I am sexually inexperienced and women don't want that. I would like a girlfriend but it's never happened. The female cuckold thing was hoping to find a woman to help me grow sexually. "

If you want a girlfriend, why not join a dating site and pursue that avenue. A female cuckold is known as a cuckquean. If you were to have a girlfriend in this role, she would be getting her kicks out of you fucking other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and say who you are and what you seek up front ! This place is NOT a shagathon !

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By *uv2bseenCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"OP's profile does not suggest to me that he is looking for a gf, but it doesn't really come across what he is looking for.

OP, hopefully you know some of your strengths, likes, dislikes, what you really enjoy doing with a lady and what you'd like to try.

What you have to offer is personal to you. But it will include elements of the above, of your personality...imagine a woman looking to spend a few hours in your company...what might she experience? What's in it for her?

Don't know what I like/dislike because I am sexually inexperienced and women don't want that. I would like a girlfriend but it's never happened. The female cuckold thing was hoping to find a woman to help me grow sexually. "

Got to ask you, what is it about this site that made you think it was for you, especially seeing you say you have never had a girlfriend.

This isn't really the place to find a gf in our humble opinion.

Do you imagine free and easy sex?

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"Just be yourself and say who you are and what you seek up front ! This place is NOT a shagathon ! "

I've been honest in my profile but wondering if my lack of sexual experience puts women off. Women keep telling me to change my profile that don't know what to say.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

Offer them cake and wine.

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"OP's profile does not suggest to me that he is looking for a gf, but it doesn't really come across what he is looking for.

OP, hopefully you know some of your strengths, likes, dislikes, what you really enjoy doing with a lady and what you'd like to try.

What you have to offer is personal to you. But it will include elements of the above, of your personality...imagine a woman looking to spend a few hours in your company...what might she experience? What's in it for her?

Don't know what I like/dislike because I am sexually inexperienced and women don't want that. I would like a girlfriend but it's never happened. The female cuckold thing was hoping to find a woman to help me grow sexually.

Got to ask you, what is it about this site that made you think it was for you, especially seeing you say you have never had a girlfriend.

This isn't really the place to find a gf in our humble opinion.

Do you imagine free and easy sex?"

No. It's not the 1960's. As I'm not a pub person, thought online might offer something that I've missed out on. Yes I want sex but also intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine cake chocolates flowers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Floss your teeth and please smell good.

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"Floss your teeth and please smell good. "

I use Molton Brown black pepper

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Floss your teeth and please smell good. "

You mean you don't like the smell of kippers on a man?

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Offer to clean their oven.

If that fails offer to roughly fuck them from every angle on their parents lawn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???"

a bag of chips and a can of Tizer? (the surpriser )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am only able to offer Victoria Sponge at the moment, but once fully trained then I shall also be able to offer ham and cheese toasties then I will rule the world

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Updated my profile. It's the longest I've ever written so please be kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pretty good, i also like the status.

i'm sure your inexperience will put some people off but it's better to be honest about it, and it seems you've been honest about a lot of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well you can only offer if you have it to give - so no promises that are no possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's very good. I personally wouldn't say that you are sexually inexperienced. As you are looking for one lady friend, I was wondering why you have chosen a sex/swingers site, and not a dating site. Women on this site will usually be looking for a number of partners, as opposed to someone who is looking to spend time with one lady. Dating sites are more cheered towards the one to one monogamous liaisons. And men do tend to get more success on dating sites, if they are happy to settle for what dating offers.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???"

99% of them want chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???

99% of them want chocolate"

it's cake. have you not been paying attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???

99% of them want chocolate

it's cake. have you not been paying attention?"

As the OP is not a pub person, I'd take the lady to a nice cafe and order them a slice of chocolate cake. lol

Personally I would try dating sites. I've had a few relationships with fuck buddies and married women. Always left me frusterated - I needed lots of fuck buddies to get regular sex and relationships with married women are not poly. On dating sites there might be more women after the same thing as the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noticed this as profile advice but don't know where to start because women want different things. ???

99% of them want chocolate

it's cake. have you not been paying attention?

As the OP is not a pub person, I'd take the lady to a nice cafe and order them a slice of chocolate cake. lol "

this guy knows...

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"Yes it's very good. I personally wouldn't say that you are sexually inexperienced. As you are looking for one lady friend, I was wondering why you have chosen a sex/swingers site, and not a dating site. Women on this site will usually be looking for a number of partners, as opposed to someone who is looking to spend time with one lady. Dating sites are more cheered towards the one to one monogamous liaisons. And men do tend to get more success on dating sites, if they are happy to settle for what dating offers."

Last time I dated, she turned out to be friends with my best mates mother. I don't do dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's very good. I personally wouldn't say that you are sexually inexperienced. As you are looking for one lady friend, I was wondering why you have chosen a sex/swingers site, and not a dating site. Women on this site will usually be looking for a number of partners, as opposed to someone who is looking to spend time with one lady. Dating sites are more cheered towards the one to one monogamous liaisons. And men do tend to get more success on dating sites, if they are happy to settle for what dating offers.

Last time I dated, she turned out to be friends with my best mates mother. I don't do dating. "

But what you describe on your profile sounds like dating ?!?!

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By *rotiquexxx OP   Man
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"Yes it's very good. I personally wouldn't say that you are sexually inexperienced. As you are looking for one lady friend, I was wondering why you have chosen a sex/swingers site, and not a dating site. Women on this site will usually be looking for a number of partners, as opposed to someone who is looking to spend time with one lady. Dating sites are more cheered towards the one to one monogamous liaisons. And men do tend to get more success on dating sites, if they are happy to settle for what dating offers.

Last time I dated, she turned out to be friends with my best mates mother. I don't do dating.

But what you describe on your profile sounds like dating ?!?!"

I lack the experience to make it what you think it should be like. Perhaps when I've had sex it will show in the profile?

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

When I started on this site I was lucky enough to have been shown things by an ex girlfriend that was quite open about me learning more and i did....hell i am still learning now

Dax

It was because of Dax that I am on here, when i met him i had very little experience at all, please dont think people read that and think negatively...at the end of the day, we have all be there at the start of it and each time we do something we learn more and more about ourselves

Boo

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

visit local clubs and get yourself known by couples and singles that attend. let them see who you are and the rest will follow

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