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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So. I updated my profile and got some good reviews about it.

But what about messages? What kind of things do you like to see in an initial message from a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple, introduce yourself with a bit about you. Refer to something that may have drawn you to someone's profile. Be humorous and polite. And if you don't show face pics, maybe attach one so the recipient can decide from the off whether to pursue a conversation.

Failing that. Send a cock pic' and proclaim 'fancy a go on this'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say what you want - let it flow, loosey goosey, touchy monkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture. "

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture.

You beat me to it "

Ermm, clearly I gave the best advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture.

You beat me to it

Ermm, clearly I gave the best advice."

I mentioned two animals - how many did that wench mention?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A face picture.

You beat me to it "

I always send a face pic with first message. Maybe that's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume - introduce yourself then be humourous and enquiring. Actually read the profile of whoever you are mailing.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Snd me your usual standard message and I'll be very honest in my critique. Like Yorkshire honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture.

You beat me to it

I always send a face pic with first message. Maybe that's the problem "

No it's not. they think your ugly, that's your problem.

Imagine you REALY like them after a month of conversation. Then you get to see what she looks like, and you don't like her. How do you now tell them. It's easier before you get to know them, surely.

I was kidding about your ugliness.....or was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send too many messages now as the time taken to write them only to see either read and deleted or deleted unread is frustrating. I've always been polite, sent a face pic etc but still no joy. At the same time I do appreciate that ladies and couples are bombarded with messages.

Life goes on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't send too many messages now as the time taken to write them only to see either read and deleted or deleted unread is frustrating. I've always been polite, sent a face pic etc but still no joy. At the same time I do appreciate that ladies and couples are bombarded with messages.

Life goes on.."

Yea I've taken on this attitude. I enjoy the forums so I'll happily stick around for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture.

You beat me to it

Ermm, clearly I gave the best advice.

I mentioned two animals - how many did that wench mention?"

Wench?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

polite, something that implies we'd be compatible and is backed up by the profile when i look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A face picture. "

This

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

The message is irrelevant if kik many you don't for what the person is looking for...that wastes so much of my time.beyond that I refer a hi how are you to the daft so called unique messages x one thing I hate mention of cock size,heavy cummer ...unless you're donating and being paid by volume it's useless and being told I won't be disappointed x
"So. I updated my profile and got some good reviews about it.

But what about messages? What kind of things do you like to see in an initial message from a single male."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pic show them what you are packing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Face pic

Some relationship to my profile

Why you think you match what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So. I updated my profile and got some good reviews about it.

But what about messages? What kind of things do you like to see in an initial message from a single male."

A face photo, clear , large and recent and a nice, pointed introduction, to ALL of us , as you would make in any social situation . It's not hard really.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

thing is you need to look at the statistics on this site,

for every couple there are over 100 single men, for every woman there are even more after their attention, single men and couples.

make yourself stand out from the rest, a decent and recent photo. a polite intro.....and wear a teflon coat. you have to let things slide off

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