FabSwingers.com forum: making the first move

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have a meet tonight and for the first time some time constraints.

Normally when we meet we talk and get a feel for the other people and generally spend an hr or so making sure everyone is comfortable. We've always struggled to get things started, but once we get going we go with the flow and nerves go away and its great.

Tonight tho we have some time constraints and not going to get that long to relax. Are there any suggestions on how to start things off quite quickly or stop us being so nervous in the first place?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

open the door naked

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL @ 'open the door naked'!

Seriously, have you told your meet that you normally like to take things slow, but don't have time, on this occasion?

Just tell 'em, upfront. Then, when they arrive you can all have a laugh and agree whether it's gonna be "a second glass of wine and let's meet again for naughty stuff" or straight-down-to-naughty-stuff!. If they know upfront that this is on your mind, they should be fine with it!

Good luck, and I hope you all have a good time xx