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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I have recently been thinking about being a sub .

But what I really want is for my man to learn how to Dom me properly , don't suppose there's an instruction manual ?

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose just talk about what you're wanting to try!! Have a little code set up for when you want to stop and try it out

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

There are plenty of books that cover BDSM, "Screw The Roses Send Me The Thorns" and "SM 101" being two of the most widely acclaimed, but there's no, as far as I know, Dom instruction manual as such, and that's probably because every Dom/sub relationship is different and unique coming down to the individual needs and preferences of the people within that relationship.

Probably the best thing to do is sit down between you and discuss what you think you want from a D/s relationship and take it slowly from there. Seeking out local "munches" (socials) where you can discuss and swap ideas and thoughts with like minded people is probably not a bad idea either.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, maybe try one of the sites dedicated to the side of the lifestyle, you can make connections through there. And then possibly find out about a 'munch' in your area,which is kind of like an organised social for people in the fetish/bdsm scene.

I'm sure there are books you can buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google is your friend

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Thanks all .

Jo x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I have recently been thinking about being a sub .

But what I really want is for my man to learn how to Dom me properly , don't suppose there's an instruction manual ?

Jo x

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Your the instruction manual you no what you want to experience as a sub what titillates and excites you about the dynamic now all you have to do is express that in a face to face situation on a munch to potential Doms or dominant men .

Fetlife posts regular list of social munchies that occur in your local area if your not a member I am and can pass on to you a list for your area .

You can even attend with your husband that's assuming the female half posted this if not well everything I've said here still stands for the male half .

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