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By *lake91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Slough

Evening all,

Need some help with my profile and general approach. I'm flatlining each time! I don't think I'm a bad looking guy but I'm just not ticking enough boxes.

Thoughts and advice please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start it with I'm tall clean shaven part eveything before that is unnecessary and a load of shite....like your pics....maybe one with your shirt off but keep your trousers on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you taken the time to read other profiles?

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By *lake91 OP   Man
over a year ago

Slough

So I have altered it slightly. I agree with what you said. I'm using 1000 words when 10 would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start it with I'm tall clean shaven part eveything before that is unnecessary and a load of shite....like your pics....maybe one with your shirt off but keep your trousers on x"
yep this one hits the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only you was closer I wouldn't say no

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

5'11" isn't tall enough to mention it again when your profile clearly states your height.

For me, anyone who pulls big open mouthed 'wacky faces' is a big turn off.

OP you appear to think you're something special, and you may well be, but there's a ton of guys on here saying that and then waiting for us all to fall at their feet. It just doesn't happen that way.

You're good looking, maybe come across as a bit less showy-offy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking for hours sounds good to me. Can't accommodate puts me off. But that's just me.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Your not mentioning what you are looking for in a lady .... you need to give us a clue ...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I offer the same advice to all genders and demographics..

There are countless threads offering generic advice in the archives..they all say pretty much the same thing happy reading .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m not fussed on your profile picture. To be honest it's off putting for females when a guy says they can fuck for hours. XXX

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Photos:

1. I'm guessing the face pulling is aimed to show me you can have a laugh

2: too dark for me to see you enough

3:out of focus

I don't know what you want. ..are you looking for fuck and go meets

Regular local

Club buddies

?????

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Profile picture avatar scares me!

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's okay. Agree, you don't need to mention your physical characteristics again as we can see those. I think the profile sounds more like you are looking for a female fuck buddy than for swinging. You can mention it would be great to meet some friends you could play with regular, but I guess, as a single female it might put me off, thinking that you aren't really interested in swinging as such, and that if we met you might get a bit clingy and think that we were then automatically regular fuck buddies or something(some men do this) Ive exaggerated a bit here just to highlight my points. Be more open and humble. Maybe visit a few socials and build up some veris that way. It takes a while to build up a reputation as a single bloke, be prepared to wait and to be as open minded as you feel comfortable with. Good luck

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel free to ask..."

How many ladies have asked you? It is an admission that your profile is lacking.

And it is. What do you offer that would make you a good meet? Why can't you accommodate? Where would you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all,

Need some help with my profile and general approach. I'm flatlining each time! I don't think I'm a bad looking guy but I'm just not ticking enough boxes.

Thoughts and advice please!

"

it won't make a difference lol there very choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a guy ive found that no matter how much you alter profile it will never suit everyone and to be fair getting fed up of all guys getting lambasted...most here pick the best looking guys on here then complain when they find out 1 they airbrushed or two fake and no shows ..so try the normal guys who are more likely to be real and fun remember you pick them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as a guy ive found that no matter how much you alter profile it will never suit everyone and to be fair getting fed up of all guys getting lambasted...most here pick the best looking guys on here then complain when they find out 1 they airbrushed or two fake and no shows ..so try the normal guys who are more likely to be real and fun remember you pick them"
oh and they pick BBC too ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op... too young and too far away from me but as profiles go I don't think it's that bad..

It shows that you have at least put a little effort and think it would get a reply from me if not for the distance and age already mentioned.

And ignore the people saying women are picky... or only go for BBC as yes we are picky but doesn't mean you don't have a chance... and the BBC bit... just as many don't as do.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


" as a guy ive found that..most here pick the best looking guys then complain when they find out

1 they airbrushed or

2 fake and no shows ..so try the normal guys who are more likely to be real and fun remember you pick them oh and they pick BBC too ......"

Big generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do get the raw end of the little deal ...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For the record the OP has taken a lot of advice and improved his profile.

He's actually quite an intelligent and literate guy in his messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good boys or bad boys usually get a better success rate there is no in between ......

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