FabSwingers.com forum: People viewing your profile mutiple times

By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Some people just want to look,fab pics,wink and invite as friend..No messages, no meets.

However you need to be a mind reader to recognise such..Odd but it has happened to me a number of times and is currently happening, I guess they maybe wanking over pics and reading verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what advice I can offer OP but in relation to the multiple viewing thing, I keep getting views from the same MM couple even though my profile clearly states that I'm straight and only looking for women.

I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read messages then either reply and delete or just delete if not interested in meeting sender. XXX

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not sure what advice I can offer OP but in relation to the multiple viewing thing, I keep getting views from the same MM couple even though my profile clearly states that I'm straight and only looking for women.

I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly!"

Yeah I had a same problem. But from single male who lived like half a mile from me. Kept winking every month fabbing my pics. I clearly said in a status will talk to anyone on here but not interested if gay or bi. But yet it continued till I blocked him. It's annoying when people ask for bi or gay activity when clearly states not interested. But I guess that's how women feel when they state something and us hungry men only see tits and Fanny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think they're interested but not sure for whatever reasons.

maybe they're not sure if they want to meet anyone at all, could be literally anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They maybe don't have free time to meet at the moment, don't want to be chatting for months, so friends list means they can find you easily when ready.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We got a friend request from a lady today look good do accepted & sent a message a few hours later she's looked at our message relooked at profile & nothing..

None so weird as folk..

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"i think they're interested but not sure for whatever reasons.

maybe they're not sure if they want to meet anyone at all, could be literally anything."

They have met before. They have been meet verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think they're interested but not sure for whatever reasons.

maybe they're not sure if they want to meet anyone at all, could be literally anything.

They have met before. They have been meet verified "

i meant they might not wanna meet right now.

you won't know unless they tell you anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been guilty of doing similar. For me, I've just been too busy trying to keep up with everything and haven't been keeping tabs on who's who. But as feir said, could be literally any reason.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?"

We've had multiple looks but no messages, bit pointless really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly!"

If we're not interested in people who keep looking, we block them. it saves having to tell them they're not for us when they eventually do message...either that or we assume that one of a couple likes the look of us but the other doesn't so they keep looking but don't bother to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough I views off people that have just met with my ex lol. Whatever let them look I'm happy doing my thing

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Fabs is a confusing place..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry OP. As weird as it may seem to you and me. This is perfectly normal behaviour on fab. I'm sure they'll let you know if they want to take things further. Or just block them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get people who read my message and they don't reply or delete that is irritating lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The weirder the profile, the more times I view; but I am cloaked

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This thread proves to me that I am right to look in stealth mode.

If I got messages and friend requests from everyone I looked at even I'd be whinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes how dare people look at your profile.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I get people who read my message and they don't reply or delete that is irritating lol"

Read the FAQs, it means no thanks

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So the couple viewed me again today. It's like every time they log on they peep my profile even if there is no new content on there. I politely said what are you looking for in my latest message to them. And said don't feel pressured into thinking have to meet me. But I'm find it weird that you view it every time u log on. If you want I am okay with just chatting. Let's see what they do with this message this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's people I view daily just because I can. Doesn't mean I want to either speak to them or meet them. Stop reading anything into it and if you don't like it just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably a single geezer

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I don't tend to take any notice of who's viewed me and who's winked. I'm more interested in the people who send messages. I wouldn't worry about it. No harm in looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the couple viewed me again today. It's like every time they log on they peep my profile even if there is no new content on there. I politely said what are you looking for in my latest message to them. And said don't feel pressured into thinking have to meet me. But I'm find it weird that you view it every time u log on. If you want I am okay with just chatting. Let's see what they do with this message this time"

If it bothers you that much just block them...simple and move on there are others. You can unblock in a few days or week or never

if you feel like it. My block list tends to be permanent when done and quite long lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peeps need to chill the fuck out..don't over think these things.. if someone wants to chat or meet they will sooner rather than later..

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Just going to have to wait but would not hold your breath for anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be aware if they are not verified could be a man posing as a couple xx

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By *ick71Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Just going to have to wait but would not hold your breath for anything more

I have had this a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you're on their hotlist? I have several on there that I have no intention of meeting so I don't message - but I'll still check out their profile sporadically to remind myself why they are on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just one of those things..just appreciate that someone finds you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're over thinking it OP. It's near impossible to read some people's thought processes on here. Just know that if they're really interested in meeting you - they will let you know!! I'd concentrate on people with whom there is an established mutual attraction and desire to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imy afraid I must confess I do regular check out the same profiles myself. I've either added them to my hot list as I am interested but either i don't meet all of their criteria. So will occasional check then out in the weird hope its change and I'm now what they are looking for.. pointless I know but fun all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not the case for the OP but often I just forget that I've looked at a certain profile and end up looking several times then realising. I guess the people think I'm being weird then...oh well. haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not the case for the OP but often I just forget that I've looked at a certain profile and end up looking several times then realising. I guess the people think I'm being weird then...oh well. haha "

I have a terrible short term memory, so that's my excuse and I'm sticking too it.

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

People do, what people do.

Just because others do things differently it doesn't make them any different to you or I.

It doesn't matter how many times someone looks at a profile or even likes photos.

If you don't receive a message, reply or any response.... So what, It's not the end of he world.

I can't see why people get annoyed, frustrated or anything else for that matter.

Why should it bother you to that extent?

Move on there's always tomorrow for another fab meet x

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