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"You need to respect her wishes. She doesn't want to do it so no amount of persuasion will make it happen. If you try you run the risk of losing her" I agree. If she won't entertain it or Fab then that's your answer. | |||
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"I would hate to have a BF that would go out of his way to try and manipulate me just for his own pleasure " And to get others to help him | |||
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"How to get my gf to have a mmf?? Me and my GF came on this site for a MMF and she pulled out last minute. I know deep down she gets turned on by the thought of getting used by two guys . I need to find a way to go about making it happen as I don't think both of us coming on this will work for her but I think if it happened out the blue and she thought it was all her idea and it was random she would go for it . So I need some advice,ideas and plans to go about making this happen thanks . " Read that back to yourself. | |||
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"Alcohol." *bursts into laughter* I loves you Clem, you know that? You're an unapologetic reprobate! | |||
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"Alcohol. *bursts into laughter* I loves you Clem, you know that? You're an unapologetic reprobate!" True. | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post." Swinging is meant to be fun and freely entered into. Some people love it, some people don't. It certainly should not be about coercion or manipulation. | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post." Posts like this are disturbingly common tbh. | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post. Posts like this are disturbingly common tbh. " No means no! . .unless it means yes. Women can sometimes be very confusing. I dont think ill ever know where i stand | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post. Posts like this are disturbingly common tbh. No means no! . .unless it means yes. Women can sometimes be very confusing. I dont think ill ever know where i stand " There's nothing confusing in the original post and if you always assume that no means no you won't ever be confused and will always know where you stand. If a woman says no when she means yes she's being manipulative and putting you in a very dodgy position. Does that clear it up? | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post. Posts like this are disturbingly common tbh. No means no! . .unless it means yes. Women can sometimes be very confusing. I dont think ill ever know where i stand There's nothing confusing in the original post and if you always assume that no means no you won't ever be confused and will always know where you stand. If a woman says no when she means yes she's being manipulative and putting you in a very dodgy position. Does that clear it up?" Clearly you havent met some of the ladies i have in the past lol They say no to something and then 2 days later they moan because i havent done it yet. Like wtfaaaaaaaaaack | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post. Posts like this are disturbingly common tbh. No means no! . .unless it means yes. Women can sometimes be very confusing. I dont think ill ever know where i stand There's nothing confusing in the original post and if you always assume that no means no you won't ever be confused and will always know where you stand. If a woman says no when she means yes she's being manipulative and putting you in a very dodgy position. Does that clear it up? Clearly you havent met some of the ladies i have in the past lol They say no to something and then 2 days later they moan because i havent done it yet. Like wtfaaaaaaaaaack " I know women like that and as I said they're manipulative putting you in a potentially dangerous position. If a woman can't be honest about wanting something then she is being dishonest for a reason. | |||
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"I think u should respect her wishes. It should be her decision and if she feels that it is not for her then u should let it drop and not try to trick her into anything as she wont enjoy the fun " You're talking to no one hes unlos lol | |||
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"do the guys play wit each other in mmf? ive always wondered." I believe they do in a MMF but not in a MFM | |||
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"do the guys play wit each other in mmf? ive always wondered. I believe they do in a MMF but not in a MFM " Not necessarily! The terms are interchangeable. In all our MMFs, MMMF, MMMMFs etc the guys have played totally straight (personally anything else would turn me off). If only MFM meant that the guys played straight how would you write a straight MMMMMF? | |||
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"We meet as a couple for both mmf and ffm, when I do mmf it's for me not for the guys. I do not consider myself used at the time. They give me pleasure and I hope they get some in return" Certainly in an MMF the women is getting twice as much fun as the guys!! | |||
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"The op hasn't been back to this thread since so I guess he's had a rethink or didn't get the answers he thought he would. I'm always bothered a bit by posts like this. The coercive nature of the language and the insistence that the op knows what their partner wants despite evidence to the contrary. It's a not very subtle attempt to set a woman up and put her in a position where "she thinks it was all her idea". I find it quite sinister nobody who had real respect for their partner or their autonomy would even think of writing this post." | |||
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"do the guys play wit each other in mmf? ive always wondered. I believe they do in a MMF but not in a MFM Not necessarily! The terms are interchangeable. In all our MMFs, MMMF, MMMMFs etc the guys have played totally straight (personally anything else would turn me off). If only MFM meant that the guys played straight how would you write a straight MMMMMF? " Agree with you - but I always use the combo MFM - as a subtle way of highlightin that I am straight... Yet to do a MMMF, or more! | |||
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"We meet as a couple for both mmf and ffm, when I do mmf it's for me not for the guys. I do not consider myself used at the time. They give me pleasure and I hope they get some in return Certainly in an MMF the women is getting twice as much fun as the guys!! " That's why I like it - I have this image of myself being some sex stud (ha!) servicing some rapacious greedy lady with her partner. | |||
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