FabSwingers.com forum: Organising meets successfully.

By *isarray OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I was wondering if anyone on here had any tips for organising meets with people? I've been here a while and have met a few people from the site, but it's rare. I often find that a lot of people message me, but when it comes to organising to meet people it tends to fall through.

After having a lot of no shows, I now only meet people if they're willing to have a social meet first, which seems to have stopped me wasting my time going to meet people who don't turn up, but I'm still filtering through a lot of messages and finding that it generally doesn't lead anywhere. Whilst I don't expect everyone who contacts me to actually want to meet, I'm finding that using Fab is very time consuming relative to the amount of meetings I've arranged, and I can't help but think that there's something I'm not doing right.

So, i thought I'd ask: how do you go about filtering out creeps and time wasters, and go on to organising a successful meet up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know we women get a lot of flack for it, but the first thing for me is automatically deleting anyone who hasn't bothered to take 30 seconds to read my profile. So no face pic, or asking if I like something I've clearly said I don't... Gone. Next for me is if i fancy their face pic. Then i see if, through messaging, we're on the same wavelength. If they get my weird sense of humour, and we fancy each other physically, we arrange a meet. I don't do socials, I can't be bothered. I have friends already, I'm on here to fuck

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I won't do full on sex talk. Some people are just here to get their rocks off. Beware of the 'if we meet what will you do to me' guys. They are just after wank material and will never meet. And the pic collectors. All they get before a meet (social first always) is a face pic. Good luck x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I won't do full on sex talk. Some people are just here to get their rocks off. Beware of the 'if we meet what will you do to me' guys. They are just after wank material and will never meet. And the pic collectors. All they get before a meet (social first always) is a face pic. Good luck x"

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Always double or triple book, then you may have some chance of one of them actually turning up and if they all turn up....

Bonus.

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

Verifications. Simply that.

By meet - not camera. And displayed. Veris from socials are fine, it shows they DO turn up!!

It's harsh, but newbies can work their way to a few veris through clubs, socials etc.

Photos on their profile helps too.

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