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"From being on this site and others over the years there are hundreds of males who want to see there female partners with other guys ,if you was one of them and got your female to play how did yo do it there are many who would be interested how it happened. My wife said to me in bed one night "how would you feel if i invited another women to join us in bed" and it all kinda stemmed from there Id say your best bet is to ask her there is no trick and to be honest and ooen with her " just this really being open and honest with each other | |||
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"Apparently there are many men that enjoy this unfortunately I've only found ones that say they want it then get possessive and jealous. I honestly think most men like the idea of it but the reality doesn't live up to the fantasy of it especially if the lady seems to them that she enjoys the other man more than them " I always thought of myself as the jelous type and was quite worried about that aspect but as it turns out seeing her pleasured by other people turns me on like i never knew possible | |||
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"I did not get her to do anything. We discussed sex and fantasies and she made up her own mind. Open no pressure discussion is the only way to know. " Same here. We discussed it and took our time slowly progressing to where we are today over a period of year or so. Kayla decides who and when and how often. And we both have to agree on the guys. We both enjoy and have to feel part of it and get something from it. | |||
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"From being on this site and others over the years there are hundreds of males who want to see there female partners with other guys ,if you was one of them and got your female to play how did yo do it there are many who would be interested how it happened." My partner loves it, it's a bigger turn on for him watching me than him playing with another woman. And because i love seeing him with another guy so a bi mmf is our favourite meet, we both really enjoy them, and knowing both of us get so turned on watching the other is great My partner had swung before, so had hinted at it in conversation, I said i had a fantasy about being watched, then said i'd like to watch two men together, so he said he knew a way he could make it happen, and so we joined fab, and met a guy that same evening. We'd been together less than two months at this point, three years later we're still here! He never "got me to play", i was never pressured, it was all at my pace, and i know if i'd said i wasnt interested the subject would have been dropped. Some people are swingers, some are not, if anyone tries to "get their female" to play when she isn't, it won't end happily - just my opinion. | |||
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"From being on this site and others over the years there are hundreds of males who want to see there female partners with other guys ,if you was one of them and got your female to play how did yo do it there are many who would be interested how it happened. My partner loves it, it's a bigger turn on for him watching me than him playing with another woman. And because i love seeing him with another guy so a bi mmf is our favourite meet, we both really enjoy them, and knowing both of us get so turned on watching the other is great My partner had swung before, so had hinted at it in conversation, I said i had a fantasy about being watched, then said i'd like to watch two men together, so he said he knew a way he could make it happen, and so we joined fab, and met a guy that same evening. We'd been together less than two months at this point, three years later we're still here! He never "got me to play", i was never pressured, it was all at my pace, and i know if i'd said i wasnt interested the subject would have been dropped. Some people are swingers, some are not, if anyone tries to "get their female" to play when she isn't, it won't end happily - just my opinion. " very true | |||
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