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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have vitiligo and just wondered if anyone else on fab does?

It's an autoimmune condition that causes you to lose the pigment in your skin and have white skin I patches instead of normal coloured skin.

Michael Jackson had it apparently.

It makes me very self conscious as the patches are quite bad by my pussy and arse and before a meet I make sure i show all photos of me in case people are put off.

It's not catching or contagious just makes me look like a cow lol

I'm also a bbw so fat and patchy ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful jigsaw woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have vitiligo and just wondered if anyone else on fab does?

It's an autoimmune condition that causes you to lose the pigment in your skin and have white skin I patches instead of normal coloured skin.

Michael Jackson had it apparently.

It makes me very self conscious as the patches are quite bad by my pussy and arse and before a meet I make sure i show all photos of me in case people are put off.

It's not catching or contagious just makes me look like a cow lol

I'm also a bbw so fat and patchy ha ha "

I have always been fascinated by the condition.. I actually think it's beautiful.. natural markings which make you unique in another way to everyone else.. wear it well petal it contributes to the great person that I'm sure your are..

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By * Reason WhyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Area

My husband does over 30% of his body. He has to be so careful in the sun now.

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I to have the condition. I woke up one day when I was around 20 and it had appeared.

I spent years being so paranoid about it.

About 5 years ago Id had enough of hiding and ventured to leysdown nudist beach.

Most people would look and not be bothered, only one woman commented to her husband about how ugly it was (I didn't give her the satisfaction of a reaction).

Unfortunately I too have it around my genitals. Most people with vitiligo do.

On a positive note: I dated one lady who described it as looking beautiful like marble. And I'm seeing a FWB who loves it now.

But I still worry about the look from time to time ... and always eplain and show before playing... giving her the option to walk away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My husband does over 30% of his body. He has to be so careful in the sun now. "

Me too have to wear factor 60 every day!!

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

I don't, but have a couple of friends who do. If anything I think it enhances a person's beauty. I can understand the need to explain it, or why it might make someone feel self-conscious (I have similar issues), but I've not come across someone who thought it strange, off-putting or otherwise. It is likely to attract looks - it's unusual, after all - but it's not worth equating those looks with ill will, because I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of those looks aren't borne of negativity.

It's easy to say "don't let it affect you" without having the same condition and knowledge of bearing it myself, but I'd like to encourage you (and anyone with vitiligo) to not be ashamed of it, or seek to hide it away, or generally feel bad about it. It's skin. If someone has a problem with it, they're not worth a damn

(slight tipsy, hope this makes sense!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beautiful jigsaw woman x"

Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I to have the condition. I woke up one day when I was around 20 and it had appeared.

I spent years being so paranoid about it.

About 5 years ago Id had enough of hiding and ventured to leysdown nudist beach.

Most people would look and not be bothered, only one woman commented to her husband about how ugly it was (I didn't give her the satisfaction of a reaction).

Unfortunately I too have it around my genitals. Most people with vitiligo do.

On a positive note: I dated one lady who described it as looking beautiful like marble. And I'm seeing a FWB who loves it now.

But I still worry about the look from time to time ... and always eplain and show before playing... giving her the option to walk away. "

I've had loads of comments throughout my life .... Mine started at age 8 .

This year has crept onto my face.

I often forget I have it and see people staring at me and I think 'wtf are they looking at' then I remember!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awwww Thankyou xxxxx


"I have vitiligo and just wondered if anyone else on fab does?

It's an autoimmune condition that causes you to lose the pigment in your skin and have white skin I patches instead of normal coloured skin.

Michael Jackson had it apparently.

It makes me very self conscious as the patches are quite bad by my pussy and arse and before a meet I make sure i show all photos of me in case people are put off.

It's not catching or contagious just makes me look like a cow lol

I'm also a bbw so fat and patchy ha ha

I have always been fascinated by the condition.. I actually think it's beautiful.. natural markings which make you unique in another way to everyone else.. wear it well petal it contributes to the great person that I'm sure your are.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's so sweet and kind Thankyou babes xxxxx


"I don't, but have a couple of friends who do. If anything I think it enhances a person's beauty. I can understand the need to explain it, or why it might make someone feel self-conscious (I have similar issues), but I've not come across someone who thought it strange, off-putting or otherwise. It is likely to attract looks - it's unusual, after all - but it's not worth equating those looks with ill will, because I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of those looks aren't borne of negativity.

It's easy to say "don't let it affect you" without having the same condition and knowledge of bearing it myself, but I'd like to encourage you (and anyone with vitiligo) to not be ashamed of it, or seek to hide it away, or generally feel bad about it. It's skin. If someone has a problem with it, they're not worth a damn

(slight tipsy, hope this makes sense!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do too..i have the original spotted dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your lucky you look normal in your photos xxxx


"I do too..i have the original spotted dick "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I to have the condition. I woke up one day when I was around 20 and it had appeared.

I spent years being so paranoid about it.

About 5 years ago Id had enough of hiding and ventured to leysdown nudist beach.

Most people would look and not be bothered, only one woman commented to her husband about how ugly it was (I didn't give her the satisfaction of a reaction).

Unfortunately I too have it around my genitals. Most people with vitiligo do.

On a positive note: I dated one lady who described it as looking beautiful like marble. And I'm seeing a FWB who loves it now.

But I still worry about the look from time to time ... and always eplain and show before playing... giving her the option to walk away. "

I will never understand why some people are so rude and ignorant. It wouldn't bother me in the slightest if I met someone with the condition. Just makes them unique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

I had it in my late twenties and early thirties and also on top of it had pityriasis versicolor. I saw a Dermatologist who treated me with PUVA treatment (like standing in an upright sunbed, but a different kind of light). I also washed my body in a shampoo called T gel. I had it for a few yrs but this treatment cured it. I feel for you, it's really annoying and I was very self conscious. I hope it goes xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your very lucky if it's disappeared xxxxxx


"Hi,

I had it in my late twenties and early thirties and also on top of it had pityriasis versicolor. I saw a Dermatologist who treated me with PUVA treatment (like standing in an upright sunbed, but a different kind of light). I also washed my body in a shampoo called T gel. I had it for a few yrs but this treatment cured it. I feel for you, it's really annoying and I was very self conscious. I hope it goes xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes MJ did have it.

I have friends who have it.

It's nothing to be embarrassed about it. It's just like any condition, if a woman has to have a breast removed because of cancer then it's nothing to be ashamed of.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

It sounds like you had 'Sun Fungus' 10% of people going to warmer climes such the tropics can pick it up. Myself included.

Easily treated with strong anti dandruff shampoo used as a lotion overnight.

Selsun shampoo was what the ships Doctor gave me to use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was that for Dana? I def have not got sun fungus!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A great friend of mine has it, he's still gorgeous.

I have patch on my arm that tans darker than the rest of me. I as self conscious to begin with but don't care any more

OP hope you can stop worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone with it but know a few people with major birth marks etc all id say is this

To me (and allot of others) im not bothered about size weight age or any of thag shit if a women can hold an interesting conversation, make me laugh and laugh at my jokes i will find her irresistable once the mind is stimulated the body follows on the counter i could meet a women and think wow shes stunning but if i dont connect intellectually i will very quickly lose any interest

Dont worry nobody worth playing with will care at all relax and have fun

Mr x

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By *R and BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Bebington, wirral

I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too "
I would feel conscious in a club I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too "

If that would put a couple off, then I really question how much fun you could have had with a couple that shallow anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have it, but know people who do. I say celebrate the diversity of differing beauty. There is no such thing as the perfect body, there is beauty everywhere and variation in skin colour is just as attractive as uniform skin colour. Your beauty will be enhanced by your uniqueness! X

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too I would feel conscious in a club I think "

Apart from the fact that nice people wouldn't discriminate against a potential playmate for having vitiligo, what I would also say and what you might find reassuring, is that the lighting in the play areas of the clubs I've been to is pretty flattering - quite low, not bright. Many (most?) people feel self conscious about revealing themselves because of scars, stretchmarks, or other things *they* (and probably not most others) perceive as 'imperfections' about themselves, myself included, but somehow, in a club environment once you realise that people of all shapes, sizes and with various different physical features are okay about stripping off, it becomes easier to do, and very liberating, despite how you might feel about your own body usually.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awww that's lovely Thankyou xxxxx


"Never met anyone with it but know a few people with major birth marks etc all id say is this

To me (and allot of others) im not bothered about size weight age or any of thag shit if a women can hold an interesting conversation, make me laugh and laugh at my jokes i will find her irresistable once the mind is stimulated the body follows on the counter i could meet a women and think wow shes stunning but if i dont connect intellectually i will very quickly lose any interest

Dont worry nobody worth playing with will care at all relax and have fun

Mr x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too "

Ha ha ha oppps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your so sweet Thankyou xxxx


"I don't have it, but know people who do. I say celebrate the diversity of differing beauty. There is no such thing as the perfect body, there is beauty everywhere and variation in skin colour is just as attractive as uniform skin colour. Your beauty will be enhanced by your uniqueness! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it, Mr C. Probably started in my 20s. Looked like I had camouflage balls. Now I have completely white balls. About 6 months ago I noticed a white patch at the base of my dick, it is gradually growing bigger. Doesn't bother me or Mrs C at all. The only problem is I think I will end up with the exact opposite of what most women want on here (a BBC), a SWC small white cock LOL.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I have it too! It's developed over time on my hands and feet. I stay out of the sun generally and have to put factor 50 on. I also have it on my genitdks. I went to the GUM clinic once and the Dr seemed a bit shocked by it!

I'd rather have hair there to cover it up but men usually want the hairless look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't, but have a couple of friends who do. If anything I think it enhances a person's beauty. I can understand the need to explain it, or why it might make someone feel self-conscious (I have similar issues), but I've not come across someone who thought it strange, off-putting or otherwise. It is likely to attract looks - it's unusual, after all - but it's not worth equating those looks with ill will, because I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of those looks aren't borne of negativity.

It's easy to say "don't let it affect you" without having the same condition and knowledge of bearing it myself, but I'd like to encourage you (and anyone with vitiligo) to not be ashamed of it, or seek to hide it away, or generally feel bad about it. It's skin. If someone has a problem with it, they're not worth a damn

(slight tipsy, hope this makes sense!)"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha ha that made me laugh xxx


"I have it, Mr C. Probably started in my 20s. Looked like I had camouflage balls. Now I have completely white balls. About 6 months ago I noticed a white patch at the base of my dick, it is gradually growing bigger. Doesn't bother me or Mrs C at all. The only problem is I think I will end up with the exact opposite of what most women want on here (a BBC), a SWC small white cock LOL. "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I have vitiligo and yes it's on my pussy and nipple it used to upset me but now I try to embrace my white(or pink if been on sunbed) I look like I had anal bleaching too I would feel conscious in a club I think

Apart from the fact that nice people wouldn't discriminate against a potential playmate for having vitiligo, what I would also say and what you might find reassuring, is that the lighting in the play areas of the clubs I've been to is pretty flattering - quite low, not bright. Many (most?) people feel self conscious about revealing themselves because of scars, stretchmarks, or other things *they* (and probably not most others) perceive as 'imperfections' about themselves, myself included, but somehow, in a club environment once you realise that people of all shapes, sizes and with various different physical features are okay about stripping off, it becomes easier to do, and very liberating, despite how you might feel about your own body usually.

Ms G"
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