FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By *elleBBW OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Why do some guys feel the need to send abusive messages?

I've had 2 guys in the last couple of days message me, one saying I'd have more success if I hid my pics because I'm fat and the other saying this site is good cause it makes ugly fat girls feel good about themselves.

I'm BBW and advertise myself as such on my profile. If that's not your thing then don't bother contacting me, don't send me a horrible message.

And to the guy who said I'd have more success if I hid my pics, I've currently got 150unread messages in my inbox from guys who do like BBW, how many have you got???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you turn them down by any chance?. You are far from fat or ugly. You look nice to us. Shame you don not travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete and ignore, don't let them get you down either.

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By *raceyntonyCouple
over a year ago

london

u look good to us ignore them its sad when they say things like that just shows they are childish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had this too xx and i know its not nice and because i turned him down as was loacl , i said i get loads of mail here and can pick he say .. to me your a size 14 and fat why would people wish to meet you .... i got all sorts nasty things from him x Now blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just the men that do it, I had the nerve to decline a couple and they went ballistic on me, just block and move on love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look great to me .just get some guys just grrrrr.had same on my singel profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just the men that do it, I had the nerve to decline a couple and they went ballistic on me, just block and move on love

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Thats not nice. We all have the right to pick who we like to meet here.

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By *elleBBW OP Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Did you turn them down by any chance?. You are far from fat or ugly. You look nice to us. Shame you don not travel"

I'd not spoken to either of them before so it wasn't even that I'd turned them down. Just total pricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had that as well i even had sent a very abusive message then block me so i could reply to his the ones that dont like bbws are sad when they have to point it out.

not to say that ur proply getting more that them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the abusive messages out the blue.. normally telling me I am mindless, stupid, or mentioning my weight..

We just report, block and move on...and find it amusing that we could inspire someone to take the time to write such things..

It takes all sorts..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had one who had the nerve to actually threaten me on here, saying he knew where i lived and that what would the ppl on my street do if they knew i was meeting men for sex, (bearing in mind he was on thsi site as well and had been for a lot longer than me) i jsut reported him and then bloked him

but it did frighten me for a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and he called me fat and ugly as well,

i am 6ft tall and a size 20, not ashamed of it xx met plenty guys who love me lol haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh and he called me fat and ugly as well,

i am 6ft tall and a size 20, not ashamed of it xx met plenty guys who love me lol haha xx"

Take no notice their just insecure and hit out whenever there unsuccesful, you do the right thing by blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

As been said before if you get abusive messages the report the profile and block the user from contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh and he called me fat and ugly as well,

i am 6ft tall and a size 20, not ashamed of it xx met plenty guys who love me lol haha xx

Take no notice their just insecure and hit out whenever there unsuccesful, you do the right thing by blocking

i didnt take that much notice of that, but i did when he said he knew where i lived tho, that wasnt nice

i hav been labelled ugly and fat most of my life, am now 42, so i am pretty used to it

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