FabSwingers.com forum: How did you start out?

By *ezmanyorks OP Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I am quite intrigued to hear how people started out on their swinging journeys, has it been as a mutual couple wishing to broaden your horizons, or did you start out as a single participant joining others.

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"I am quite intrigued to hear how people started out on their swinging journeys, has it been as a mutual couple wishing to broaden your horizons, or did you start out as a single participant joining others.

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss."

I fell in lust with a beautiful personality, then I fell in love with her naughtiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss."

I joined after a bad break up wanting to explore new things

Jumped in on a meet straight away and still loving it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I was vanilla and had left a long, bad relationship. A friend at the time chowed me Fab and I was horrified.

In conversation one day I said I thought I might be ready for a FWB and she put me on Fab.

The rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend introduced me to the club scene cupids being my first ever club and never looked back. To be honest swinging is now part of me and I would find it very hard to give up. Its not just the sex side for me but socially too the whole package. I may take a break but I always come back as I miss the people and the forums are so addictive x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It was a natural progression from bedroom fantasies. We spent a long time talking about whether we were going to actual do anything and by chance found fab.

We had a few socials before actually doing anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been poly without realising it and swinging allows that side of my personality to come through, without being in a committed poly relationship. It started with several conversations over a span of months and culminated with me sleeping with two guys and going home to fess up to the fella. He loved it and we never looked back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a relationship for 23 years that broke up and a friend told me about fab,so i joined and its the best thing i ever did,met some fantastic people and made a lot of new friends some lovely folk on here.

And its not all about sex as i have day to day conversations with people i have been chatting to a long while about everything which is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started a new rship, but told him i couldnt get serious as i had too many fantasies to fulfil. He agreed to join with me but then didnt want to share me.

He later joined as a single guy lol.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've always been bi..

My ex and I had a profile. I didn't know about at the time and took me to meets.

Now it's because I want to and wanted to give Dick a 3some

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Joined after a friend of mine (another cross dresser), told me about this site.....glad she did, lol.

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By *aughty danMan
over a year ago

Worcester

iv always been a horny very sexual person. when i found fab it was great. because i found a place that so many other people like myself chat and meet.

Anybody fancy chatting, im rather horny right now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging after a long boring very vanilla relationship. It's been great to have some fun and chat to people about life and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a bet. If she didn't shag me over my managers desk she had to go to a swingers club with me. I lost the bet, we still went!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gay friend of mine recommended this site after I mentioned to him in conversation that I hadn't had sex in nearly two years and was looking for a FWB/FB. So I signed up!

I also joined a club which was something that never crossed my mind previously! I was made to feel very welcome and have enjoyed my visits!

While my "full sex" dry spell continues, I have had a couple of highly enjoyable play sessions in the club from a couple of lovely ladies!

And of course, I enjoy the forums on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a break up my friend in one night of random d*unkenness created me a profile.

Used it for a while, got addicted, got annoyed, deleted account.... Then ended up back creating my own account

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

I'm a fab virgin, this is all very interesting reading for me

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I chatted a lot to someone on a dating site but I never met him. For a birthday present he set me up a FAB profile. Brilliant present. I met my partner through FAB a year ago and we are having a great time.

Sally.

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By *ezmanyorks OP Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I started a new rship, but told him i couldnt get serious as i had too many fantasies to fulfil. He agreed to join with me but then didnt want to share me.

He later joined as a single guy lol.

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Sounds like he came to the realisation that if he couldn't beat them he had to join them so to say lol

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Sorry but you'll have to wait until I publish my memoirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I started a new rship, but told him i couldnt get serious as i had too many fantasies to fulfil. He agreed to join with me but then didnt want to share me.

He later joined as a single guy lol.

Sounds like he came to the realisation that if he couldn't beat them he had to join them so to say lol"

It was his idea to join as he'd had a single profile before. He just didn't like the idea of watching another guy fuck me at the time. Asks me all the time if he can join in now lol. I guess its different if you're not attached to someone (for some any-ways).

Anyways I fulfilled all my fantasy's, left and then couldn't go back into the vanilla world, so re-joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr6262 suggested it, I wasn't too sure but said I would give it a try....we went to a swingers club....he stayed clothed and was v shy.....I got right into the action asap!...we have more or less carried on in the same way, except he is a bit less shy now! and we have made lots of friends! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw swinging in a potn video so went to a swingers club and struck out then i went to another and struck out. Then a yr or so later i found this and met a couple since then i've had a few good nights in amours and not striked out since.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss."

It was suggested I (female) join by someone from a cam website.

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We were a couple and decided to broaden our horizons a little.

We started with a bit of cam fun before moving on to a meet and full swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on POF and had a few dates with someone off there, we didn't quite gel romantically but she told me to come on here.

I think that was about 3 years ago now, weirdly it's taken us that long to play! Worth the wait though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on here after a bad breakup with a married long term lover. I wanted to fulfil some long held fantasies with her, but now going it alone.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Hi we met a couple on the beach , got chatting next thing we are back to ours for hours of sex,,since then we have meet some really nice people and enjoyed all our meets,, now into the party scene lov to see everyone relaxing and playing, we still meet people on the beach ..connie x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My single Fab profile was a birthday present from a man on POF I chatted to and never met. I met my partner on here and we have been a couple for over a year now. SallyS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined to meet like minded people and explore my kinks. In an open relationship that isn't based on sex (though we do have it) and I explained to her my desire to experience life to the fullest whilst I'm still young. Everything must be tried once right? =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

originally was a dare

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I was in a relationship for 23 years that broke up and a friend told me about fab,so i joined and its the best thing i ever did,met some fantastic people and made a lot of new friends some lovely folk on here.

And its not all about sex as i have day to day conversations with people i have been chatting to a long while about everything which is great."

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I was dumped by a fb, 2 female friend were in Blackpool for the weekend and they invited me over to cheer me up. The day after when one went to the toilet, the other one said "so what are you going to do now". "Have fun" I replied. "You should be on this website that I'm on then" she said. That was over 2 years ago

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

It was recommended to me by a lady that I'd met from AFF.... I joined and never looked back and have had the pleasure of introducing a few new ladies to the world of fab over the year's

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By *ushman001Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Usual story for me I suppose, a wife who doesn't do sex, once a year if I'm lucky. Just looked out of curiosity then joined. I was surprised to have had a lot of interest from guys and was curious anyway. I have a profile on fabguys now as well and have an FB who I met there and have had a few other meets, love it. Still no meets on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usual story for me I suppose, a wife who doesn't do sex, once a year if I'm lucky. Just looked out of curiosity then joined. I was surprised to have had a lot of interest from guys and was curious anyway. I have a profile on fabguys now as well and have an FB who I met there and have had a few other meets, love it. Still no meets on here though

your profile says straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split with my longterm fb.. came on here for fun, play and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had just come out of a bad relationship and was looking online, found a site, met a few women initially.. one of them told me about another site, met a few more women and men and was told about fab so joined on here.. that was 6 years ago and I'm still enjoying the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile says straight "

Fab straight?

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By *ushman001Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Sorted it, what am I like probably still won't get me anywhere haha.

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

I just finished in a long term (from school) relationship so I thought time to experience the real world so went out met some ladys and one was checking her fab page on night and I asked her what's that, she told me about it so I joined and that was well over 14 years now, I did leave but missed it so come back

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I worked in a hotel that had a club and moved upstairs to work in the club. Didn't have a clue about the swinging scene. You know that saying . If you hang around a barbers shop long enough you're going to get your hair cut. Took me about a year to have my first 3some , I was nervous as hell. Been here ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got chatting to someone on a site called face party and i had just had huge big c scare rest is history. I thought that was close i need fun in my life. I was having 2_3 meets per week back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went the Amsterdam and visited a swingers club there. Was hooked

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By *ezmanyorks OP Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

"originally was a dare

What exactly was the dare? I'm intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A naughty chat during a sex session that snowballed into us joining another site to arrange a 4sum.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Started going out dogging,then the saunas,then one of my friends at work found out that I went to the saunas,and asked me one day if I would like to go his home and fuck his wife it would be rude not too,a good time was had by all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started out from a couple (in their mid to late twenties) who used to shop at an off licence I worked at in 1999. They edged towards suggesting what they were all about numerous times over a period of 3 months. I was oblivious at the time.

Then one evening they came and bought a fair amount of beer, spirits and wine and said they were having a get together and I should come along after I'd finished my shift.

I turned up and I walked in where I was introduced to everyone. After 3 hours everyone started to clear with just two couples and a random guy left. I went to get a drink from the kitchen and walked back into the living room to some shady porn on video. After 5 minutes, hands were wandering and after 15 minutes of foreplay I ended up being the sandwich filling and sore as f*** the next day. Too innocent at the time and under sexed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was believe it pr not a jungle v.i.p , but i reached the top and had to stop , and thats er, whats botherin me

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss."

Put a vanilla in the paper for a vanilla girlfriend (pre Internet) - got a reply from married lady who told me she like to have sex with brown men in front of her partner! I was so shocked and turned on. I still remember exactly where I was when I was talking to her. Needless to say - I learnt the pleasures of meeting a Hotwife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the wifes freinds showed her this site she showed me we both decided it looked like fun so we arranged our first meet and had the time of our lives expected it to be a nerve wracking anxious and awkward meet being our first time it was easy comfortable fun and sexy as sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple for us, always had a fantastic sex life together, then due to a medical condition I was unable to perform as I once did, couldn't see why we both had to miss out so suggested a change of life style, lol, didnt go down well at first with Lady, but after a long priod of soul searching on her part we evenually found ourselves here, the rest is history , have made some good friends and both very happy. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also how was your first time/times?

Did you jump straight in and love it, or was it a tentative and nervous experience?

Please discuss."

In an awful relationship. No sex, no kissing no nothing. Started looking on line and came across another site and took it from there. Think I over did it though. I was meeting 3 guys a day some days. Toria.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I was at a munch got chatting to fern looking for a owned dynamic which involved as part of the dynamic consensual bounded blindfolded and gaged play based around strangers using her .

When I asked where one would find guys willing to play in that way she named this site along with one other the rest is history been on here on and off for other 8 years now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both started as singles on here, I was introduced to fab by a guy I met on the club scene.

After quite a lot of single fun on here, we both met on here around 5 years a go and the rest is history. Couple fun is so much better than single fun

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Not long been together and there was a program on TV that was discussing it and I (male) suggested it. Saying that 'you have lists of sexy outfits that you can't wear in normal life wouldn't it be good to go somewhere that you could?'

Anyway after a few more drinks it was agreed. So we ended up in a swinger club where you meet other people. Not a great deal happened there... We ended up playing a little which led to going to other clubs that was more full on. Had some great times since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

started off with swingers club was dead nervous at first and then dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was led astray via plenty of fish

Irony is I never have played with him yet!!!

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I started off going to a swingers club.i went early in the day thinking it would be quiet and I could ease myself in to it all, but to my surprise there a crazy fuckfest going on which really turned me on.i ended up taking one women from behind while she was sucking a guy off and I was fingering another women while she had another guy in her mouth as well. Safe to say I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lets think back!! One saturday morning stood around the tombola stall and i was slipped a mystery raffle ticket and to look for the lady with no teeth.... since then its been non stop

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By *empted123Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I started off on my 21st birthday at a club in Chester called Relax.Now 23 years later still got the swinging bug.

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd been dressing since my early teens and that inevitably led to fantasies of what it would be like to be with a guy, which in turn led to a very nervous first meet

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By *ezmanyorks OP Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Well lets think back!! One saturday morning stood around the tombola stall and i was slipped a mystery raffle ticket and to look for the lady with no teeth.... since then its been non stop"

Did she have a beard too??

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

Brilliant idea for thread and great reading peoples journey to this world.

Our journey was led from fantasy for many years and then we went to a club. I (wife) was frozen whilst in there.........but then turned on for days after seeing a threesome on an open bed.

Took a while to get me to a club again but that first seed of feeling turned on brought out that exhibitionist/ voyeuristic side too

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