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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you lovely forum people please explain the term cuck and cockold please. Is it different for every cpl?

Betty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold is the thing people are doing, cuck is the guy, cuckoldress is the woman.

Basically it is a cheating wife.

But it has changed over the years to a wife fucking others with her husbands knowledge (so swinging in some respect), some people bring humiliation into it or chastity as well.

You can do it however you want to.

I did have on my profile excatly how i wanted it so people were clear before they approached me asking what i wanted but i thought i'd found someone so deleted half of it. Otherwise you'd could have had a look and it would have given you some idea what can be done.

I's say my version is a cross between cuckold and BDSM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and it has nothing to do with cheating .... cuckolding can be traced back 100s of years in couples who did this sort of thing history has loads of proof this happened too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh and it has nothing to do with cheating .... cuckolding can be traced back 100s of years in couples who did this sort of thing history has loads of proof this happened too"

Thanks

It's always good to ask and not asume everything you hear or read are facts

Betty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always thought that "cockold" is when a Dominatrix grabs a guys tackle firmly and squeezes until he cries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The historical definition of a cuckold (spelt with a u not an o) is a man who's wife has sex with other men. Within the swing scene the term has been used to describe a man who enjoys his wife being with another man. A 'cuck' is simply short for cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife"

That's correct, but it goes a step further. The cuckoo bird's chicks are brought up by another bird, because the cuckoo wants to pass it's genes onto the next generation, but can't be bothered to rear its chicks. The bird bringing get up the chicks becomes the cuckold. So the parallel is that the wife's lover plants his seed in the wife, and his children are brought up by the cuckold husband. That is the history of the definition.

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By *urvy hotwife 4 Black MenCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife

That's correct, but it goes a step further. The cuckoo bird's chicks are brought up by another bird, because the cuckoo wants to pass it's genes onto the next generation, but can't be bothered to rear its chicks. The bird bringing get up the chicks becomes the cuckold. So the parallel is that the wife's lover plants his seed in the wife, and his children are brought up by the cuckold husband. That is the history of the definition."

Great explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife

That's correct, but it goes a step further. The cuckoo bird's chicks are brought up by another bird, because the cuckoo wants to pass it's genes onto the next generation, but can't be bothered to rear its chicks. The bird bringing get up the chicks becomes the cuckold. So the parallel is that the wife's lover plants his seed in the wife, and his children are brought up by the cuckold husband. That is the history of the definition."

Just to be clear.

Most couples these days do not require the children business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife

That's correct, but it goes a step further. The cuckoo bird's chicks are brought up by another bird, because the cuckoo wants to pass it's genes onto the next generation, but can't be bothered to rear its chicks. The bird bringing get up the chicks becomes the cuckold. So the parallel is that the wife's lover plants his seed in the wife, and his children are brought up by the cuckold husband. That is the history of the definition.

Just to be clear.

Most couples these days do not require the children business. "

Yeah but some husband's love the fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Italy "cornuto" and the hand sign is small finger and index finger stretched out and Middle and Ring finger bent... All Italians understand what you mean with that... Relaxed (m)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, others have explained cuckolding well. The different spellings are just errors, not categories.

However, not all couples that enjoy having another man fuck the wife would consider it cuckolding. There are subtle differences, and different people have their own definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that."

I'll have to ask my husband where he got his literature from. I did read something he showed me, but I can't remember what it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

I'll have to ask my husband where he got his literature from. I did read something he showed me, but I can't remember what it was"

We've been into it for a number of years, back before it was a common thing. It's hard to find any decent info about historical precedents for the fetish. If you find the literature I'd also like to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that."

Is the historical information of relevance? If it is a scenario that turns you on, do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

Is the historical information of relevance? If it is a scenario that turns you on, do it."

yeah i like learning about history, especially social history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

I'll have to ask my husband where he got his literature from. I did read something he showed me, but I can't remember what it was"

thanks classy.

even just names of historians would do and i could hunt the stuff down myself. i'd love to read more about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's becoming more and more mainstream too though men will never admit they're a cuckold in the vanilla world. I know I certainly wouldn't which then raises the question, how many friends share the same likes.. One will never know.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that."

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale". "

It seems with the literary references it's the classic definition in the sense that the cuckold is unaware, or is aware of what's happening but hates it.

As for the fetish definition, it seems to be a recent thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale".

It seems with the literary references it's the classic definition in the sense that the cuckold is unaware, or is aware of what's happening but hates it.

As for the fetish definition, it seems to be a recent thing? "

The term 'cuckold' was used in the film 'The Duchess', historical drama based on the lives of the Duke and Duchess of Devonshire. The Duchess asked her husband if she could take a lover in view of the fact that he had taken her best friend as his mistress. He went berserk and said he would not be made to be a cuckold. Assuming the language used in the film was accurate to the era (18th century I think), being a cuckold was something that would bring great shame on a man, especially a man in his position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale". "

thanks. that poem is too long for me at this time of the night but i'll have a read tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckold was even mentioned in an episode of the Simpsons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex-gf cucked me for a short time before leaving me for him. I didn't really see it coming at first. I thought I hated it, him txting her, sending her pictures, and flirting with her in person. But it didn't take long before i'd find myself in bed making a night of the idea, while she was off in his. That is when I realised that I was a cuckold. I always have been submissive. I have a new gf now, and she has no shortage of men hitting on her. I love to sit back and enjoy the show. The way she responds to them. Mmmm. So sexy. She knows that she could totally cuck me but isn't ready to yet (if ever). I'm hoping for her to join fab one day when she is ready. She should be having regular sex with a real man. Not a little sissy like me. Lol. I should be in chastity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the cuckoo bird lays its eggs in another birds nest hence another man burying his cock in another guys wife

That's correct, but it goes a step further. The cuckoo bird's chicks are brought up by another bird, because the cuckoo wants to pass it's genes onto the next generation, but can't be bothered to rear its chicks. The bird bringing get up the chicks becomes the cuckold. So the parallel is that the wife's lover plants his seed in the wife, and his children are brought up by the cuckold husband. That is the history of the definition.

Just to be clear.

Most couples these days do not require the children business.

Yeah but some husband's love the fantasy "

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be another adage that was used in conjunction with cuckolding, that of the woman involved being referred to as a "buttered bun".

Wasn't meant to be in anyway derogatory, simply being used in a similar way to saying "having his cake and eating it".

a creamy one then please?

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom . "

Sexy.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom . "

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

They made a film about it with that big dark haired one out of " Gavin and Stacy " playing Hattie , sure there would be clips on You tube .

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

Cuckolds are like an onion,there are many layers, some like lots of humiliation, some just like to serve and everything inbetween. I am a bit cuck. I like to fluff my bull, prep my lady, put the condom on for him, make tea when he's done and leave them to fondle and chat whilst doing so. I dont like to be talked to like shit (well not yet anyway)

Hope this helps x

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol


"It's becoming more and more mainstream too though men will never admit they're a cuckold in the vanilla world. I know I certainly wouldn't which then raises the question, how many friends share the same likes.. One will never know."
im cuck and proud, done all of my insecurities, love to facilitate my bull and queen. Obviously i dont let anyone outside the scene know any of this because i pressume they cant take it and im the ceo of my business. Im very happily versatile

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale". "
i have a thing for intelect and intelectual people, you're turning me on

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By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom . "
john le masurier was also in a similar sittuation with tony hancock

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale". "

And now I know!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"this is interesting. where is this info on cuckolding documented? i'd like to do some research.

i'd just like the historical info, nothing that recent coz i won't be interested in that.

English usage first appears about 1250 in the satirical and polemical poem "The Owl and the Nightingale" . The term was clearly regarded as embarrassingly direct, as evident in John Lydgate's "Fall of Princes" (c. 1440).

In the late 14th century, the term also appeared in Geoffrey Chaucer's "The Miller's Tale".

It seems with the literary references it's the classic definition in the sense that the cuckold is unaware, or is aware of what's happening but hates it.

As for the fetish definition, it seems to be a recent thing?

The term 'cuckold' was used in the film 'The Duchess', historical drama based on the lives of the Duke and Duchess of Devonshire. The Duchess asked her husband if she could take a lover in view of the fact that he had taken her best friend as his mistress. He went berserk and said he would not be made to be a cuckold. Assuming the language used in the film was accurate to the era (18th century I think), being a cuckold was something that would bring great shame on a man, especially a man in his position."

Well - I wonder when the word "hypocrite" first came into usage - that unfortunately is what the Duke is?!

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By *otwife Cuck LifeCouple
over a year ago

Local North West pr1

The great medievalist Peter Dronke noted a reference in the late 1100s in the work of Bernart de Ventadour. The earliest image of the cuckolded husband apparently dates, meanwhile, to a fourteenth-century French manuscript (of Gratian’s Decretals), where a husband is shown with antlers on:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuckolds are like an onion,there are many layers, some like lots of humiliation, some just like to serve and everything inbetween. I am a bit cuck. I like to fluff my bull, prep my lady, put the condom on for him, make tea when he's done and leave them to fondle and chat whilst doing so. I dont like to be talked to like shit (well not yet anyway)

Hope this helps x"

Applauds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm looking for a cuckold couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


" The great medievalist Peter Dronke noted a reference in the late 1100s in the work of Bernart de Ventadour. The earliest image of the cuckolded husband apparently dates, meanwhile, to a fourteenth-century French manuscript (of Gratian’s Decretals), where a husband is shown with antlers on: "

Wow - we have some true historians on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!"

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work "

Not something we've experienced but hopefully one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work

Not something we've experienced but hopefully one day. "

We had to work up to that, and he has to really trust the man concerned. Both guys we had had threesomes with a few times. But he loved it. However we do it the other way round to and I love it, but he sees someone I'd rather be told after the event

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work "

Ha - that is even better - hadn't even thought of that scenario ! Good for you. One lovely couple I played with that loved that - myself and the lovely Hotwife in the marital bed and hubby downstairs but two lovers and hubby what work - now that is very erotic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work

Ha - that is even better - hadn't even thought of that scenario ! Good for you. One lovely couple I played with that loved that - myself and the lovely Hotwife in the marital bed and hubby downstairs but two lovers and hubby what work - now that is very erotic!"

Yeah we send him photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always thought that "cockold" is when a Dominatrix grabs a guys tackle firmly and squeezes until he cries. "

No, that's called "Being Married"

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Carry on actress Hattie Jaques and John le Masurier ( out of Dad's army fame ) were in a cuckold marriage . Hattie even moved her lover into the matrimonial home and her husband sent to sleep in the spare room whilst Hattie and her lover were in the Master bedroom .

God - that is so horny! Fucking a lovely Hotwife in the marital bed while hubby is in the spare room!

I've had 2 of my lovers in our marital bed whilst hubby is at work

Ha - that is even better - hadn't even thought of that scenario ! Good for you. One lovely couple I played with that loved that - myself and the lovely Hotwife in the marital bed and hubby downstairs but two lovers and hubby what work - now that is very erotic!

Yeah we send him photos "

Ha - good for you...I like the way you two funsters think

I have played with one hotwife and we both love doing this - sending her hubby pics of what we are getting upto

I have to say - the marital bed is a big turn on for me - to be able to f8ck a lovely sexy wife in her marital that she shares with hubby is sucha turn on! Its almost a religious experience!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


" The great medievalist Peter Dronke noted a reference in the late 1100s in the work of Bernart de Ventadour. The earliest image of the cuckolded husband apparently dates, meanwhile, to a fourteenth-century French manuscript (of Gratian’s Decretals), where a husband is shown with antlers on: "

I wonder why the whole antlers and cuck thing came about! It's so strange!

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