FabSwingers.com forum: Why do single guys lie about being a couple?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Mr and I got a message before from a guy and his 'wife' but both were the same age, height, build etc and were called Robert and Boaby.

Really?????? If your going to lie, at least try to make it believable.

I don't think he appreciated the message I sent him as he read it and deleted it.

I like this site better than the previous one we were on, but how hard is it to find someone to have our first proper full swap with?

As far as I know I've been as honest as I can in our profile info but maybe we're destined to be swinging virgins forever

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

not saying he was lying but those that do hope it will make it easier to get meets.

I'm sure you'll be successful soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women lie too! Single profile, just her in the pics, no mention of a partner in profile or messages, comes to arranging a meet and she drops in that her fella will be there too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So why do either sex feel the need to lie?

Yes,we all lie on occasion, but with something like this surely it's not worth it.

Am I just naive? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So why do either sex feel the need to lie?

Yes,we all lie on occasion, but with something like this surely it's not worth it.

Am I just naive? X"

to get what they want. it works sometimes as well, and when it does it can cause people like me trust issues.

sometimes i wonder why the fuck i'm on here. wouldn't say i'm gullible but gullible enough to fall for some shit.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Why do single guys lie?

Well, as you can block single guys, creating a 'couple' profile means he can message more people.

The fact that these people don't want to talk,possibly because of the previous selfish single men, doesn't occur to him.

It's desperation for a meet.

If you just want lots of messages, setting up a fake profile as a single bi woman would be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not our area of interest, but I believe there are plenty of couples that are looking for partner swaps. Shouldn't be too hard. Or if you get to a club on a couples night there will be loads of couples to get to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what the point of lying is, yeah you may get more messages as a couple profile but at some point it will become clear its not actually a couple so what do they expect to happen exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. To collect pics.

2. To play out a fantasy in their head sex chat etc.

3. They really are attached/married but the other half has no interest in swinging or no idea.

4. They are trolls.

Could be lots of others reasons and any combination of the above.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"So Mr and I got a message before from a guy and his 'wife' but both were the same age, height, build etc and were called Robert and Boaby.

Really?????? If your going to lie, at least try to make it believable.

I don't think he appreciated the message I sent him as he read it and deleted it.

I like this site better than the previous one we were on, but how hard is it to find someone to have our first proper full swap with?

As far as I know I've been as honest as I can in our profile info but maybe we're destined to be swinging virgins forever

x "

Jesus christ they do it for one reason and one reason only their desperate for a shag and lying about being single improves the odds on these sorts of sites ,

Just like fake pictures pictures from ten years ago when you were a stone and a half lighter saying you can fuck for hours pretending to be into some sort of sexual activity your not all these lies are about improving the liars chances of getting sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"women lie too! Single profile, just her in the pics, no mention of a partner in profile or messages, comes to arranging a meet and she drops in that her fella will be there too!

Report the profile/ mail they sent and Admin will change it to a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So why do either sex feel the need to lie?

Yes,we all lie on occasion, but with something like this surely it's not worth it.

Am I just naive? X"

No......but the folks who do it are because they always get "Sussed" . Some are just idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I may know one even though there are pics and veris of him with his lady

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The number of 'single' women's profiles I see where there's a partner involved in the meet is ridiculous - I do report and frequently note admin have changed it to a couple but it's a common problem

I suspect the women do it as they know single women get more attention and can they can use that to arrange more meets for their couple

And the men do it to bypass the single guy filter and message women and couples who aren't interested in them

Either way it's trying to 'game' the odds and the site in their favour essentially

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By *ppleschnappsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

It's bloody frustrating. We are trying to arrange a meet tonight and have spoken to 2 couples that have turned in to clearly single men.... One was "yeah we can meet this afternoon" then deletes messages and when John messaged calling him out as a bloke the message comes back "partner has decided she doesn't want it anymore but meeting a woman tonight"... Hmmmm waster!!

Guess it'll be MOTD watching Lineker in his pants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He probably got more than he bargained with from me.

Hubby sent a few messages back being civil, then I sent him one telling him I may be blonde and female but I'm not stupid. I also told him that the closest he'd ever get was imagining Mr putting his hard cock into my soaking wet pussy until he makes me squirt

And that should give him enough wank material so to kindly fuck off and leave us alone.

I'm assuming he got the hint cos he deleted the messages lol

I was just so pissed off x

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