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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you get there ?

In normal clothes

You can shower and get changed ?

Is locker big enough for two with towels and shower gear ?

Drink ?

If you bring your own 4 cans do they keep them for you ?

Me and Miss's so bear back ,will this be frowned on ?

We won't swing in any way ,so what's best was to keep us not getting hassled ?

Please help club is cham's on a Saturday night

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

All the clubs i have been to are no pressure...so you dont have to play with anyone if you don't want to.

Most will have lockers and showers and bits.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Chameleons is a lovely club. No pressure at all .

If you are driving there and back I'd say arrive ready. If you are booked in somewhere again arrive ready.

The lockers will hold clothes but they're not suitcase sized

Chat with people and should anyone ask you to play politely decline.

As for BB you have the couples room or private rooms so no issues .. after all it is your choice.

Drink is given in on arrival and then you order it at the bar from your locker number

Enjoy

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Am i missing something?

Why would you go to a swinging club if you won't swing?

I know there is never any pressure or expectation to play but don't understand why you would rule it out beforehand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't want to swing ,just have sexy time with each other ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i missing something?

Why would you go to a swinging club if you won't swing?

I know there is never any pressure or expectation to play but don't understand why you would rule it out beforehand

"

Isn't that a bit of a narrow minded view of the swinging scene?

Because they don't actually want to play with others? It's their choice.

The club offers far more than just sex with others.

The social aspect, to chat with like minded people.

The sexy atmosphere which a couple can just enjoy together, as well as the facilities, you can't fuck each other in the jacuzzi at your local leisure centre, (or you can, just expect to be behind bars of a different kind than what the club offers....) and not everyone has a cage, sex swing or cinema or glory holes at home..

The voyeurism, both watching others or being watched?

A safe, open and none judgmental environment to test the waters, expand boundaries or discover likes/dislikes?

To name but a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely can do that at home but I guess having others watch ect 8s pretty sexy and by no means any judgement have fun and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i missing something?

Why would you go to a swinging club if you won't swing?

I know there is never any pressure or expectation to play but don't understand why you would rule it out beforehand

Isn't that a bit of a narrow minded view of the swinging scene?

Because they don't actually want to play with others? It's their choice.

The club offers far more than just sex with others.

The social aspect, to chat with like minded people.

The sexy atmosphere which a couple can just enjoy together, as well as the facilities, you can't fuck each other in the jacuzzi at your local leisure centre, (or you can, just expect to be behind bars of a different kind than what the club offers....) and not everyone has a cage, sex swing or cinema or glory holes at home..

The voyeurism, both watching others or being watched?

A safe, open and none judgmental environment to test the waters, expand boundaries or discover likes/dislikes?

To name but a few.this is what swinging is about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that reply ,it's true we want to get sexy but not arrested ,we have never been and sex/swingers club and see it a place we can get sexy in a nice safe place ..if this is wrong I guess I'm going a bit mad ?

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

We do occasionally play with others but like to go to our local club so we can be as noisy as we like without offending the kids or neighbours

Hope you have fun OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol that's more like it

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Have been to Chams a few times and love it. On some visits we have just played alone and other times we have played with others. There is no rule that says you have to play with others so go and enjoy yourselves doing whatever you both want x

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