FabSwingers.com forum: 8 years few meets help

By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

Ok my user name awful I picked it for fun as an alter ego thing as I'm nothing like lord flash but now I realise it might give the wrong impression.

My profile is crap I've wrote it that man times I'm truly lost.

I spend a lot of time In mids chat usually and feel I'm getting on with lots in there and want to go to a club or social one day when time from work allows. But I feel I'd like to have some or one meet that is one on one or even have a friend that I can learn to join the life style properly.

I love this way of life but I feel I'm on the edge and wonder if I'll die still wondering what it's about.

I've been on here nearly a decade now and starting to come to the conclusion it's me.

I'm sure I'll get some sarky comments back as all single males do on here. Lol always worth a read though.

Just want to have some fun make some friends and live a bit like my dreams. Maybe it's part of growing up to realise dreams might just be dreams.

Hope y'all having fun cheers Rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 10 years so you must know women won't be chucking themselves at you, unfortunately.

I'd say firstly prioritise what you want - find a way to do that, and by this i mean make sure you get the time to go to those socials and clubs you fancy going to. You don't have to go to loads, just at least try and make it once a week, or every couple of weeks at least.

It probably is you yeah (and imo it is), but you can fix that. You're in charge of you.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You have been on here long enough to know that you need to have some public photos. You have set all yours to private. Before you say it, you don't have to show your face in your public photos but people need some idea of what you look like.

At age only 32, I am surprised you are having such difficulty. Especially travelling all over as a musician in a band!

Makes me wonder why?

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Grow a vagina

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

Yeh I often change my photos to private sometimes I show them. Never sure if to do face or cock or what I'm not a fan of my body so don't tend to show it.

As for the single male over subscription and it being nearly impossible I recognise all that and I can see that there are many superior men to me everywhere.

As for being a musician all over yes that's true but the lifestyle is not what people think it is. It's driving around play a gig and drive around somemore mostly.

Looks like going to clubs is the only way it's not just about sex sure that's nice but I just want to make like minded friends too.

But the idea of be able to find someone to develop something with then go to clubs seems better and going straight to a club on your own is frankly scary !

I was on here as a couple for a long time but that didn't work out either.

Also I'm well aware of how many time wasters and fakes there are on here. An al those who add you after chatting and then never reply once they are friends.

It's a real mine field. I wonder if there are many genuine people out there or if most of them are here for an ego trip on photo likes or something.

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

That's could be fun. Wonder if Alan Titchmarsh knows how

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm really not sure what advice to give, but I really wouldn't worry about the profile name.

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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago

mysteryville

Thanks

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why is going to a club scary? It's just a building, like s pub or nightclub, where somebody, somewhere, might be having sex.

There's more chat and drinking in clubs than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is going to a club scary? It's just a building, like s pub or nightclub, where somebody, somewhere, might be having sex.

There's more chat and drinking in clubs than anything else. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you don't like your current name, then choose a new one. Write down a different profile text - you can go through the forum and read what people suggest for all those men asking for help. Keep going to clubs - why not? They are fun after all, sent they and I suppose the nerves have worn off by now.

As above: decide what you want to do and what you want out of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you don't want to go to a club on your own and do want to make freinds on the scene then i suggest you make freinds with other men who want the same.

it's highly unlikely that any woman will want this with you.

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