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What's over the horizont

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

I am not into judging.

You probably know what I would say otherwise.

You have been here for 5 months which is an indication that your relationship is not in a good place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

You talked about it and it's not for her...

So you thought you would give it a go anyway?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

Very bad!!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

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"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

If either of us decided we didn't want to be involved in swinging we would both stop....simples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

Would your wife agree to go to couples counselling with you? It seems you're dissatisfied and are unable to resolve that by talking to each other. I wouldn't suggest swinging without her or trying to persuade her into it as solutions.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replays and yes I know is bad to go behind your partners back , there for I didn't have any meets even thought I'm here for 5 mounts . But where else I could go to see how is swinger life working if not here also is it right to give up on my desires ? I know is selfish but how to find the happy medium without hurting the one you love and still live the life you want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone I'm being with my Mrs. for nearly 10 happy years now , recently I started to feel i wanna discover what's over the horizont , seing others women's couples spice up life a bit . But my Mrs is not really into it , we been talking about swinging for long time now but is not for her. Is anyone in or ever been in the same shoes ?

Any advise or experience share would be great thanks . "

I think it's going to be a bit tricky for you OP, as you have already chatted to her about swinging she may be on the look out for tell tail signs. Tread carefully my friend XXX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for all the replays and yes I know is bad to go behind your partners back , there for I didn't have any meets even thought I'm here for 5 mounts . But where else I could go to see how is swinger life working if not here also is it right to give up on my desires ? I know is selfish but how to find the happy medium without hurting the one you love and still live the life you want ?"

that's a question lots of people have asked themselves. The truth is that if you want this and your partner doesn't there is no way for you both to be happy.

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Thanks for all the replays and yes I know is bad to go behind your partners back , there for I didn't have any meets even thought I'm here for 5 mounts . But where else I could go to see how is swinger life working if not here also is it right to give up on my desires ? I know is selfish but how to find the happy medium without hurting the one you love and still live the life you want ?"

Thats great you didnt have any meets at all. There cant be a happy medium you either swing with your partner or go behind her back. Do you think your partner has any interest at all? My hubby and I talked about this world for years, and for years I was the one that kept it strictly in fantasy land. Then it was a voyeuristic pursuit, watching other couples and them us etc, took many years to get to where we are now. But I did have a slight interest in the world if your partner doesnt then that is different.

As previous poster suggested go to couples counselling and explore your relationship together. Cake and eat it springs to mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No where on your profile does it say that you are married. Let people have an informed choice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again for all help , probably will just pushing it slowly as far as I can than who knows she is not really against it just not being confident . Ps I will change status

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks again for all help , probably will just pushing it slowly as far as I can than who knows she is not really against it just not being confident . Ps I will change status "

I thought you said it wasn't for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the horizon is a big drop into nothingness. The world is flat. And people find great sex on Fab. All true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over the horizon is a big drop into nothingness. The world is flat. And people find great sex on Fab. All true."

Fuck, that's Donald Trumps eye !

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