FabSwingers.com forum: Couples for TVs.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am cringing as i write this, I can't abide the 'what am i doing wrong?' messages or the 'is my profile ok?' Etc. And I am never one to moan and complain about the situation as a rule.

So this isn't about that as such, it's more to do with...well actually now I think about it, it is I guess.

I have played as a tv, as a guy and as part of a couple at various times over the years and thoroughly enjoyed it. But as a tv and having played with guys and other tvs, i am currently looking to meet a m/f couple instead. So when i do a search on here i filter my search looking for just that, a couple that wishes to meet a tv. So i send messages or wink etc. But frustratingly no replies. Of course it could be that im just not their type and should just keep trying,but its a bit of a dent to the old ego to find that even the couples who have previously met tvs aren't interested in meeting me. So either my profile is rubbish, my pics are or im just fuck ugly! So im obviously doing something wrong. I'm not asking for a critique of my profile as such but maybe some feedback on what couples are looking for from a tv. Ok whine over.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Just keep plugging away. It may happen, it may not, but keep trying.

And i doubt its cos you are ugly, not that i am saying you are

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We're a couple that love playing with tv/cd's, and as such your profile would really interest us. The only downside for us is that you're too far away! Love your pics too, you're an incredibly sexy lady x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thank you for the lovely comments

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"Well thank you for the lovely comments

You're very welcome, sweets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're a couple looking for a cd/tv for MFM but We find that most of the people that message us can only meet in the day time which is difficult for us. Plus they can't accommodate and neither can we so we're not having much success. Perhaps the daytime only could be a problem for your potential couples?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Where is Shag?

"Patience is the key"

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Amazed you've not had any couples after you. There are lots of us here on Fab who love TV meets.

Janet & Nick xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am cringing as i write this, I can't abide the 'what am i doing wrong?' messages or the 'is my profile ok?' Etc. And I am never one to moan and complain about the situation as a rule.

I would imagine it is the initial message you are sending or wink.

Everytime you send a message you have to think that the reader is just scanning fab whilst they have a spare 5 minutes and may have 50 other messages.

The message has to be catchy enough for them to interact and click on your profile.

A wink will give you a minor chance but you can do several winks in a short time. - It is like putting leaflets though doors.

The message has to be catchy from the off.

A simple "hi hon?" "your beautiful?" "fancy a shag?" will not get you much of a response unless the reader has a bit of time to spend looking at profiles.

I would recommend reading their profile, making it personal.

so a message to you would be something like this

Heading:

"daytime fun at mine!"

I just read you are looking for this, so this wiil grab your attention.

First line (will you open it?"

Hi [name] =(personal message not spam)

I was reading your forum post = how I found you.

Then follow it on. It should read-

you want therefor I can offer.

My conditions.

What to do next.

Add a photo if you think it will help.

Maybe send a friend request.

If they don't reply but accept you as a friend maybe try a wink in a few days.

Maybe then send a second messsage "Hi, I noticed you was online, not sure if you are (Both) looking for fun this week? I am free this week on Tuesday and Thursday from 10am to 6pm if you are looking for some fun and time suits?

The very best way though is to meet the people first eg clubs.

Oh and be yourself

Hope any of this helps.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's personal choice .... We both adore Tv's but your profile comes across as you just being a crossdresser when we look for Tv's we look for the whole package ie wig boots make up and we wouldn't look at yours because of this reason but like I say it's personal preference .

I also think many of your photos are the same ie legs and shoes ...... Maybe put some more interesting ones in to lure people into wanting to know more .

Keep at it I'm sure the right people will come along soon xxxx

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By *easerxxWoman
over a year ago

merseyside

Lovely pics and informative profile..... I'm just wondering if it's too informative.

TV , bi, straight, maybe a profile for each persona would help

Good luck lovely x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the advice, I shall take it all on board xx

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By *imply DifferentCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

L and I do love it but we have to be in the right mood for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available for couples ??

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

If there are any genuine couples who love to ay out bodge type games with me then please drop me a line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im wanting to really expand my horizons as Samantha next year

And that could include M/F couples.

But as its more about the dressing than what's between someone's legs i would only be only interested and willing to meet a couple as a couple,where the female takes control of the situation and when all 3 are happy.

I have countless males contact me saying their in a couple and want to meet...but just the male to meet.

Forgive me for splitting hairs here,but that to me is a single male met isnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where is Shag?

"Patience is the key"

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xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics ?? Even in private pics help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics ?? Even in private pics help xx"

Who are your comments being directed to,please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics ?? Even in private pics help xx

Who are your comments being directed to,please ?"
meaning if Katie had any face pics on profile x

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By *obbie BelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston, Lancaster, Blackpool

"I am cringing as i write this, I can't abide the 'what am i doing wrong?' messages or the 'is my profile ok?' Etc. And I am never one to moan and complain about the situation as a rule.

I would imagine it is the initial message you are sending or wink.

Everytime you send a message you have to think that the reader is just scanning fab whilst they have a spare 5 minutes and may have 50 other messages.

The message has to be catchy enough for them to interact and click on your profile.

A wink will give you a minor chance but you can do several winks in a short time. - It is like putting leaflets though doors.

The message has to be catchy from the off.

A simple "hi hon?" "your beautiful?" "fancy a shag?" will not get you much of a response unless the reader has a bit of time to spend looking at profiles.

I would recommend reading their profile, making it personal.

so a message to you would be something like this

Heading:

"daytime fun at mine!"

I just read you are looking for this, so this wiil grab your attention.

First line (will you open it?"

Hi [name] =(personal message not spam)

I was reading your forum post = how I found you.

Then follow it on. It should read-

you want therefor I can offer.

My conditions.

What to do next.

Add a photo if you think it will help.

Maybe send a friend request.

If they don't reply but accept you as a friend maybe try a wink in a few days.

The very best way though is to meet the people first eg clubs.

Oh and be yourself

Hope any of this helps.

xxx

"
O:-

Exactly what Jennifer says!

Plus and this is very picky, but meant to help you refine your profile.

Your pics are samey, repeated, One pair of turquoise knickers is plenty.

Also stick a face picture up.

People make instant decisions.

Good Luck. Happy New Year.x

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By *ph1977Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I think it's personal choice .... We both adore Tv's but your profile comes across as you just being a crossdresser when we look for Tv's we look for the whole package ie wig boots make up and we wouldn't look at yours because of this reason but like I say it's personal preference .

I also think many of your photos are the same ie legs and shoes ...... Maybe put some more interesting ones in to lure people into wanting to know more .

Keep at it I'm sure the right people will come along soon xxxx"

not helped by Fab lumping every trans identity into one grouping and i suspect that some legally changed gender people who are pre-op or none -op wpould get reported and closed down for beign 'fake' ...

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