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By *urved Hunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I have been lucky to have been regularly approached by men who would like to play with me at parties, however I have to be attracted of course and only have so much energy lol. What's the nicest way to say no thanks, politely, as I hate to cause offence etc, I'm not always getting through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just shake my head lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been lucky to have been regularly approached by men who would like to play with me at parties, however I have to be attracted of course and only have so much energy lol. What's the nicest way to say no thanks, politely, as I hate to cause offence etc, I'm not always getting through "

Do you mean in person, or on here?

If messaged on here I usually just say 'sorry not my type, ty' .. that tends not to elicit a backlash of abuse

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Say an unequivocal "no thank you" with a nice smile. There isn't a way to say no without actually saying the word and if you beat around the bush it just makes people think they have a chance.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I'd chat for a few mins and politely make my excuses and move elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you say it politely that should be enough. but some men take that as you are polite so therefore uncomfortable with saying no and they can pressure you into saying yes.

carry on being polite, the first time only.

if you have to say no again then be firm, even loud, but be rude if you have to be.

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By *urved Hunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

At clubs.... Ah thanks,yes it has to be definite but often goes down like a s..t sandwich lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A "No thank you" should suffice, if they get stresy, just say would you like to hear it from the organiser? Your body, your rules!

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