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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just hoping some of you great people could give me some tips, I would love to get my girlfriend into swinging, she great in bed and up for trying most things, infact she's so kinky she would be a great swinger, but as soon as we're out of the bedroom she's abit of a prude, and has made comments in the past that sex is a private thing! Its a real shame that she thinks this as I know everyone would love her, would really appreciate your help

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

can see the standard replies being added to this one soon

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

she doesn't want to do it... your problem is?

alas the days of dragging the womanfolk to the swingers club in the cave round the back of the mountain, passed with the dinosaurs.

enjoy your private but fantastic sexlife with her...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Have you asked her?

If not, you might be better off sounding her out first, to see if she has any fantasies that involve swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with it

Hopping she knows you you have started without her

Cause you may one day regret it xx

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"can see the standard replies being added to this one soon "

Watches with interest...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"can see the standard replies being added to this one soon

Watches with interest... "

Jezza Kyle just started...

put on hold for 50 mins

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here. "

Some things have a correct order.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

sigh

Okay, I'll play.

Try the good old 'list of sexy things to do' trick. When your both in a really sexy mood one night give her a pad and pencil and tell her to list her top 10 fantasies. You do the same, and hey presto and opening to bring up swinging/MMF or whatever...

Can I go back to throwing poo through the bars now Ruggers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is a newish relationship, but hey I won't ask for advice again seems like sometimes you can't win lol, but thanks to those who are making suggestions

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here.

Some things have a correct order.

"

For who? This was his correct order. We can't demand what people do with their lives.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here. "

to be fair Rugby, he did and he will be told to respect her choice.

Speaking about her sexlife, her choices and even suggesting that 'we would enjoy her' like she is a chicken bhuna doesn't bode well.

I apologise if my previous answer appears flippant.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

actually 'love her'...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"It is a newish relationship, but hey I won't ask for advice again seems like sometimes you can't win lol, but thanks to those who are making suggestions"

You will get people on a NSA swinging site who don't like attached people playing, and they will say so....take no notice,I wouldn't if it was me.

Right, my other post , have you asked her does she have any fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her nicely.

If she says no, respect her wishes.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here.

to be fair Rugby, he did and he will be told to respect her choice.

Speaking about her sexlife, her choices and even suggesting that 'we would enjoy her' like she is a chicken bhuna doesn't bode well.

I apologise if my previous answer appears flippant. "

Don't be, you can answer how you like as long as it is within the rules.

I was answering also from what I had seen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She said her all time fantasy would be a ffm 3some but wasn't sure if she would enjoy sharing me, and a possibility or gettin jelous

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Thats how we started,and yes, I didn't think I could do it either.

Try the old list thing. Both write down a list of all your fantasies, then in a column next to it write down a YEs, No or Maybe as to wether you fancy trying it or not, then swop lists. Who knows it may get her wanting to try some.

BUT, don't push her, she may be great in bed and akinky woman now, but that doesn't mean she wants to turn fantasy into reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice :D

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Come on people be fair.....he may have only just started going out with her...but even so.......attached men come along and ask why they are not getting meets and they are told to go ask their partner to swing....he is asking advice on how to get his partner to swing.

Sometimes you can't win on here.

Some things have a correct order.

For who? This was his correct order. We can't demand what people do with their lives."

No but we will still point at people who put their pants on after their trousers.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Some of you might yeah....others like us don't care what people do with their own lives.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"She said her all time fantasy would be a ffm 3some but wasn't sure if she would enjoy sharing me, and a possibility or gettin jelous"

Make sure the other womans a minger then...

...and good luck.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

show her my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a new relationship maybe its worth getting to know each other properly first and building solid foundations before you bring another person into the mix.

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