FabSwingers.com forum: cuckold experinces

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im looking to see what other people have a view on cuckolding.

I want to watch k fuck another man but we are both still very new to swinging and im nervous to invite another man round to fuck kim then i have my fun with her once hes gone.

I just want to hear from people who have done this and see what people have to say about it and how they feel and if they enjoy it or its a huge no no.

no harm it trying things once but just neverous and wanting to hear peoples point of views on it

any advice?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nerves are natural. How about meeting a guy socially first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take you time and explore it slowly, it's a rollercoaster of emotions for both of you and something that you can't rush into. You need to be ready for seeing your wife enjoy and even prefer the sex someone else can provide, I talk from experience here and processing that can take lots of talking and self discovery..

Good luck though if you do try it as we wouldn't have it any other way.. We just need to find a suitable 'lover' now that we can explore things with again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, slow build up. Get to know the guy first. Be comfortable with it so keep communicating your feelings to eachother about it..

Maybe just start eith soft swing and see how you feel after...

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By *imply DifferentCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

We love it but find many of the guys on here to be timewasters or the complete opposite of what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love it but find many of the guys on here to be timewasters or the complete opposite of what they say. "

Agreed.. We have started to explore other sites to find someone suitable because if this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear honest boundries set before any meet between you and kim.

Also boundries and limitations for the guy you invite (lucky sod ?)

And as most other posters have said take it slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fantastic we never invite people because it leads to the wife feeling pressured we prefer to go to clubs and just letting it happen if there's someone there we like . It's a massive turn on watching the wife with another guy though I'm sure you won't regret doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we are looking to try a club aswell

i think it would be better in a club as then like you said we can choose and if their intrested then it will naturally happen :p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we are looking to try a club aswell

i think it would be better in a club as then like you said we can choose and if their intrested then it will naturally happen :p x"

Yes it's more relaxed you may feel pressured to do something if you meet someone even if there not what your looking for .go to clubs mix with people have laugh and enjoy the atmosphere of there's someone who takes your eye go for it if not you will still probably enjoy the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started with a social first with a guy then week later organized a mmf an went back to his. Was nervous at first but then that soon went soon as he started fucking her and seeing her emjoying it and hearing her moan was such a turn on!

If no 1 is happy then stop right away

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Feel free to PM me, I've done this and once as a couples first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame.... Plenty of us here on Fab. Shame that people are letting other people down when looking at having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're new at this as well and have experienced the plague of the timewaster. We've started going to clubs just to see if we have more luck. Yes it's hit and miss who's there, but you could try playing on your own then invite someone in if you want to. It's at your pace and no means no.

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By *luetezoCouple
over a year ago

by the beach

We are just experimenting also not sure if cuckolding is the right label though, we have experienced soft mmf and are ready to take it up a notch, it's about all having fun and being included with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love it but find many of the guys on here to be timewasters or the complete opposite of what they say.

Agreed.. We have started to explore other sites to find someone suitable because if this.."

Same on all sites - many keyboard warriors around singles and couples but when it comes to crunch time the excuses range from :

1) Cat/dog/boss has died,

2) Stuck on M62 in jam [BBC traffic report has no jams for that day in North

3) Doesn't turn up but calls at 1am asking if meet is still on - Meet was for 8pm,

4) Has a social, arranges to meet at home - spend ages make-up picking corset stockings etc... AND ? never turn up, profile deleted, and phone number is unavailable or none existing,

5) Suddenly is married and wife is at home

or other way round

So it all boils down...time and time again ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love watching Rosie getting fucked, and she loves putting a show on for me. don't confuse lust with emotion, a meet in just that, it's not your relationship,once you get your head around that and separate them you'll love it ..hope that helps

Joey

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I just can't understand the mentality of people who don't turn up for a arranged date be it a play date or a social .

Now I'm into D/S fun so there's a lot of nerves involved based around will I play with in the agreed guide lines can I be trusted to not over step .now with all this added pressure I'm have never been should up for a first time full D/S adventure or for just a friendly social .

You know why this is I firmly believe most woman have the balls to talk the talk and then walk the walk .sadly from reading this post and talking to lots of woman and couples in this world its a sad fact lots of guys can talk the talk but only a few can walk the walk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are too far from me but I have had experience of "helping" a number of couples in this way.

As others have said...unless you are already experienced in this then do TAKE YOUR TIME.

There are literally hundreds of wannabes on here..take care. Too many who confuse it with wanting or them being a "Dom".....avoid!

Choose carefully. Get to meet the guy a couple of times socially first. Discuss what you are looking for and what they can offer with respect!

Once you are happy you then need to decide how far things go first time....certainly with you all present. As things progress you can then decide if you add other things to the dynamic. If or not it includes humiliation etc. it can eventually lead to a relationship involving the third party (the bull) taking the lady out on dates or overnight stays etc. and you both enjoying discussing this afterwards.

The thing to remember AT ALL TIMES is that you guys, the couple, are the ones in control.

I wish you luck...and would be more than happy to discuss further if you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love watching Rosie getting fucked, and she loves putting a show on for me. don't confuse lust with emotion, a meet in just that, it's not your relationship,once you get your head around that and separate them you'll love it ..hope that helps

Joey "

That's some really good advice, really well put.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks joe tbh that sounds like more how im feeling

how long did it take for you to get your head round it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it have to be a 'cuck' experience? If you aint cuck, you just aint! If you are questioning the subject perhaps its not what you should be asking? Why not enjoy a pure and simple MMF. You get to enjoy the sights and sounds of watching AND be part of it.

Joey loves to watch me but I want him you join the action (but I am a bit greedy)! No way is Joey cuck but we both love the shared experience. Like he said, its only sex! No one has my heart, mind and everything in between - only him.

X Rosie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i didnt quite know what to call it ahaha

but thats very true rosie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So..... Youre thinking its a MMF your looking for?

X Rosie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to do spontaneous meets and was never let down by anyone. it does seem to work best that you invite someone over for a fuck at the exact time you're both horny - if you're having sex regularly with people online.

what i did though was they guy who wanted to fuck me after all the other guys was not watching, he just wanted to know about it and fuck me right after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the few occasions I have been involved in a situation like this I can promise you.. it's terrifying as a si gle man stepping into a couple's dynamic.

Lots of communication before during and after would be my recommendation.

As for why it works.. I think it's a caveman thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it.

We jumped in with two feet, joined fab then had a guy over the same night. For me (fem) it was now or never, we had a great evening and knew it was for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for it.

We jumped in with two feet, joined fab then had a guy over the same night. For me (fem) it was now or never, we had a great evening and knew it was for us

I am totally glad about this.. because you a freaking hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ve very much enjoyed this over the years but experience has taught us to look for guys with at least a couple of veris meeting couples only our opinion

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By *tom69Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Yes it gets very frustrating guys pretend to be something they are not. Come up with silly excuse why they cannot make it!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get all your getting to know each other done online,skip the social and get down to business.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

"We ve very much enjoyed this over the years but experience has taught us to look for guys with at least a couple of veris meeting couples only our opinion

Sound advice - if they've had veris from couples, whilst it doesn't mean they are what you're interested in, at least it means they aren't going to suffer from stage fright at the thought of seeing a couple for the first time

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By *TRACouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are looking for a genuine guy for cuck not 10000000 miles away , drop us a mail if your genuine x

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By *aster nd SlaveCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are looking for a genuine male whos into cuck.. we are sick of dreamers and non shows..

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I've met a few couples but not for as long a time as I'd like. To get trust going and take her out alone etc. It's not just guys that are let downs. I was chatting to this couple for around 2 years I know it was a couple because we spoke on the phone. But when it came to meeting she'd got a cold and had put a little weight on

I've also had a few say they'd like to stay at my place in Turkey. I've said he can watch and join in or just listen from the other room

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

definatly and an mmff

just see where it leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went up a notch on saturday evening with one of my fantasies developed. I am quite keen for mrs N to cuckold me and we did something which certainly ticked many of the boxes.

We invited a young man round we've met before and I asked for them to handcuff and blindfold me to a chair.

I was anxious not to do anything to spoil their pleasure. I think my favourite bit happened right at the beginning. Once blindfolded and restrained they left the room and went out onto the landing. I could hear them kiss and there was faint rustling as she probably disrobed him. I of course do not really know what they did but it was soooooo erotic. Mrs N as usual was a bit coy and said she'd mainly just helped him out of his clothes and then sucked his dick.

I've spoken to him since and he saw it differently. He said they'd kissed alot. It was how he remembered kissing with her several months ago and it was passion re-ignited. I love the idea of her not quite telling me the truth and keeping somethings to herself. We need to explore this further I think. Just Mrs N is so guarded and wont ever quite let go. The blindfold was a great idea I think. There is more to tell of the meet if anyone is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im looking to see what other people have a view on cuckolding.

I want to watch k fuck another man but we are both still very new to swinging and im nervous to invite another man round to fuck kim then i have my fun with her once hes gone.

I just want to hear from people who have done this and see what people have to say about it and how they feel and if they enjoy it or its a huge no no.

no harm it trying things once but just neverous and wanting to hear peoples point of views on it

any advice?

Be honest with the bull and he'll be honest with you. A good bull will know how to ease you in to the lifestyle and push your boundaries

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By *ecent guy2016Man
over a year ago

burnley

local guy if u fancy chat message me

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

"It's fantastic we never invite people because it leads to the wife feeling pressured we prefer to go to clubs and just letting it happen if there's someone there we like . It's a massive turn on watching the wife with another guy though I'm sure you won't regret doing it

Really agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few couples on my own now.

Wouldn't say any have been cucked but each has had a different approach and limits, some want to just have the guy watch, other want full involvement....some don't even want to be present.

Like anything communication and setting The ground rules is rule number 1

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We arranged to meet a guy in a club, but made it clear no full sex on that meet, though ok for heavy petting etc

We enjoyed it with no regrets as we didn't go too far all at once

As a bloke I found liking the guy, but not feeling threatened or intimidated is very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find more than one man removes the "emotional" risk. What i suggest will bother you is not so much he is fucking her physically but if she is developing an attachment to him. It's emotions that wreck relationships not physical activity.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Take you time and explore it slowly, it's a rollercoaster of emotions for both of you and something that you can't rush into. You need to be ready for seeing your wife enjoy and even prefer the sex someone else can provide, I talk from experience here and processing that can take lots of talking and self discovery..

Good luck though if you do try it as we wouldn't have it any other way.. We just need to find a suitable 'lover' now that we can explore things with again."
Great advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck though if you do try it as we wouldn't have it any other way.. We just need to find a suitable 'lover' now that we can explore things with again. Great advice.

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just this very sound advice

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By *nglishGent1234Man
over a year ago

London

Hi T & K. I'd love to chat with you both, feel free to send me a message

Jon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres no set rules for cuckold or hotwife only you know your bounderies and what you want but before you start please make sure that you both want this 110% and set what ever rules you want first ...clubs are not for everyone seen so many couples fall out because of male jealousy in clubs

best bit of advice I can give is this is as much for the male half as it is for the fem keep him horny and you will have a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a cuckold to ex girlfriend. Found it both very humiliating and very horny. I actually miss it and would love to experience it again

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I always wonder with this, does it ruffle a bloke's feathers, or will he be the kind of guy who just gets very turned on by watching his woman being sexual? Is it all about humiliation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it was/is both

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Have experience with cucks and hotwives. Everyone operates differently but it seems like you should both take it slow, all get to know one another and progress slowly.

Good luck

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

Why not go to a Club on a Couples and Singles night, and if Guys show an interest and you are keen, let it happen.

1. you are in the Zone which will make you feel horny and possibly a bit braver

2. It saves all the last minute nerves in a pub waiting for a guy to turn up and then not getting along and feel a bit deflated.

Would you really consider just inviting someone to turn up on your door step ?

Sod that...lol.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I let a lady friend get another guy to join us but he either did not like my lady r was to shy cos he could not get it up . But she tried her best bye giving him a Bj n boy was I so turned on watching her suck d cock off him n I made up for him leaving early fucked her for Ireland n she Luved it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always wonder with this, does it ruffle a bloke's feathers, or will he be the kind of guy who just gets very turned on by watching his woman being sexual? Is it all about humiliation?"

It's not always the humiliation, people have different limits.

It is something emasculating but thrilling about seeing my wife with another guy who's maybe taller, fitter, older, more dominant, more hung, or more successful. Or all of those things.

I could explain more if anyone wants but I'm not always comfortable going into it on an open forum but can do if people won't be too judgmental lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For myself, my wife had me play with her one morning saying she was in the mood. Suddenly she was on fab while I licked her out. After just ten minutes she pushed me off and lead me to living room where I was tied up. Not unusual for her as she has kinky runs every now and then. Suddenly a gag, blindfold and cock cage were all applied to me.

The knock on the door came and moments later hinata was moaning with pleasure. After a horny 15 minutes the grunting and moaning came to a crescendo and some clothes were put on. Then I was pushed face first into her dripping pussy, other mans cum and all. Only when I had satisfied did she allow me out of my straining cage for pleasure. I ended up wearing the cage for about 10months straining on it so hard it broke.

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

Cuckolding is as old as the hills, though reading some of the posts on here you would think it was invented in 2015...

have a look at my blog http://lifeasabull.blogspot.co.uk/

as I'm certain it will answer all your questions

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey

I love the thought of watching my wife being fucked by another guy, but not in a cuckold way I want to join in and enjoy the fun. I must say that I love my wife very much, and that e_tra marital sex is just that. I make love to my wife. The thought that it is a fuck never enters my head

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"We'll I let a lady friend get another guy to join us but he either did not like my lady r was to shy cos he could not get it up . But she tried her best bye giving him a Bj n boy was I so turned on watching her suck d cock off him n I made up for him leaving early fucked her for Ireland n she Luved it . "
Yup we had a 'wilter' as well. Talked the talk, was hard during the early stages and then droooooop.... She used all her best skills but to no avail

He left early too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple very much together we do this regularly and very much enjoy it BUT it never impacts upon our own love-life.

There's no such thing as the perfect "Bull" but they do need certain characteristics : confidence, reliability, almost certainly a proven track record and ego.

They need to believe that you, the "cuckolded male", have been "bested" when in truth it is they who have been used to fulfil a need for BOTH of the couple.

But there is one highly important thing that we have not seen mentioned yet . . jealousy. If your own relationship as a couple isn't strong enough to send the "Big J" to the other world than don't do it . . if it creeps into a crack it will form a chasm. Walk away.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

For me and an ex we started with a proper masseur.

He came home with the table and all. But during the massage his hands wandered and Sue became increasingly turned on. Nipples hard. Wet patch.

He was v respectful. She clearly wanted him and he was straining. So I gave the nod. And sue and I both ended up sucking him.

Next time was less about.massage

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By *ikerjohn123Man
over a year ago

Malton

"As a couple very much together we do this regularly and very much enjoy it BUT it never impacts upon our own love-life.

There's no such thing as the perfect "Bull" but they do need certain characteristics : confidence, reliability, almost certainly a proven track record and ego.

They need to believe that you, the "cuckolded male", have been "bested" when in truth it is they who have been used to fulfil a need for BOTH of the couple.

Really well put about bull thinking he is in control when really he has been used for couples pleasure. Having been both the bull and cuck you've hit the nail on the head there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found after meeting a guy once or twice its becomes more relaxed.

Tbh what you could do that I (male) sometimes do is, I'll excuse myself fronnthe room to get a drink or whatever and send a text message asking them to start.

Its really horny hearing through the walls and then being able to choose when I join the room.

Just one of many many options :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple very much together we do this regularly and very much enjoy it BUT it never impacts upon our own love-life.

There's no such thing as the perfect "Bull" but they do need certain characteristics : confidence, reliability, almost certainly a proven track record and ego.

They need to believe that you, the "cuckolded male", have been "bested" when in truth it is they who have been used to fulfil a need for BOTH of the couple.

Nobody is being 'used'. Not a nice way to put it. Everyone wins.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Well, you could start by taking off the block for men messaging you.......

I would love to meet you both.....

A genuinely experienced lover

Jack Dom Bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I can see why you would want to watch, Kim is very attractive!

I assume Kim is also keen on this scenario - or she going ahead with it to fulfill your fantasy?

Wow, some guy is going to get lucky and hopefully, you will all enjoy yourselves!

Don't forget to tell us all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an alternative opinion here that won't be popular. I think the kind of guy you want is more likely to be part of a couple. That's how we've had success with this anyway. So few single guys are actually able to, or care to, relate to how the male of the couple feels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just an alternative opinion here that won't be popular. I think the kind of guy you want is more likely to be part of a couple. That's how we've had success with this anyway. So few single guys are actually able to, or care to, relate to how the male of the couple feels. "

Oh yes, good point. We've experienced that too.

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