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By *ovvz OP   Man
over a year ago

trimdon

Y am i finding it hard to get a meet

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

2 things are vital for single guys to get a meet on fab. One is your profile and the other is your opening message. My guess it will be on or both of those things that are making it difficult to get a meet.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Maybe because you come across as a selfish lover

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By *ittle Miss MuckyWoman
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Why not try going to a club or social to meet people first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because you come across as a selfish lover "

Boom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y am i finding it hard to get a meet"

Your profile basically states you need a woman to fulfil your needs. Meaning it sounds like you have nothing to offer and only want your needs met. Women don't like that.

Plus all your photos are cock shots.

I would honestly try and write something better about yourself. What YOU can offer and stuff

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Y am i finding it hard to get a meet"

Truthfully? It's probably because you seem to be looking for a woman to fulfil your needs and that's all.

It doesn't work like that on here although I know lots of men join with that expectation.

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

The ladies have all the control on here, you read some of their profiles and they say they are inundated with messages. So it can be difficult to stand out from the crowd.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound demanding in your profile.

You have 10 dick pics, why on earth would you need 10? Does your dick change colour or hairstyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like a selfish lover.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Y am i finding it hard to get a meet"

OP your profile sucks. There are hundreds of men for every woman on here. Single ladies have so much choice, why would they choose you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single guy who cannot accommodate screams of married and playing away...

Sometimes guys try to be something that they're not...

Just be yourself and try not to come across as desperate...

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Your profile text is very short (though I've seen worse admittedly) yet it's all about you, and not what you could offer a potential meet. Most women want a mutually satisfying experience ... very few indeed will be in to 'servicing' you.

There's no punctuation in that text, the last bit of it doesn't read properly (did you check it before you posted it - or since?) and it also contains 'lazy' text speak like 'sum' and 'u'. You might not think stuff like that matters but it reads as though you spent all of, I don't know, one minute's effort towards trying to sell yourself and it just looks like you couldn't be arsed. When you then ask why you're not getting meets it therefore smacks of entitlement. Most women will think if you can't be bothered to try and make a good impression, then you might not be too bothered about their comfort, safety and enjoyment either = little chance of meets.

Ms G

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Y am i finding it hard to get a meet"

Your spelling.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Maybe because you come across as a selfish lover "

And this. There is nothing on offer for a female. It's all about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You better be one rich mofo to have a profile like that!

Not even 25p or cunt west are that selfish!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The topics of your forum threads put me off, I've not looked at the profile.

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