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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.

I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x

I

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

the bi thing will always put some people on when online but in my experience it rarely is a problem when playing at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.

I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x

Isn't sexuality about sex not relationships. If you play with the same sex you're gay. If you play with both you're bi. I struggle to understand when people say they're not bi but happy to play with both sexes.

That said I think there's too many labels for people anyway and we should stop trying to put people in pidgeonholes and just accept differences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've moved this post to the lounge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? I couldn't find it.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Who cares?

Why pigeon hole people?

Go take a Kinsey test.

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By *rs and Mr BondCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

I am 100% bisexual. In fact I find women more desirable than men but still very much enjoy the company of both. Ms B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, what is it you don't understand exactly about bisexuality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't rightly care that much..i just enjoy what i enjoy..its pretty fluid. Why pen it into a box with a name?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I don't rightly care that much..i just enjoy what i enjoy..its pretty fluid. Why pen it into a box with a name? "

That's the way. Do what you like and enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of labels and don't think everyone's idea of bisexuality is identical.

I class myself as bi however I only find women attractive although I find the sexual side with men arousing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered this on the other identical thread

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/533854

Bi may not be the perfect label, but it opens the possibility if you are into same and opposite gender sexual fun. straight or gay are more restrictive as labels.

But all are useful in adverts for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I answered this on the other identical thread

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/533854

Bi may not be the perfect label, but it opens the possibility if you are into same and opposite gender sexual fun. straight or gay are more restrictive as labels.

But all are useful in adverts for sex."

This - would prefer to avoid labels but with using this site you have to categorise yourself sometimes. Plus with the hostility towards man on man action from some people, we've found best to make it clear so we know who to avoid.

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

I love cock 100% especially hubbys big fat one, but I also love biting/sucking tits too and then the rest, love how it all pans out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - the fact that you are unable to understand something doesn't make it unreal..!!!

If it isn't for you, then just step away please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.

I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x

I

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If you play with other lady's even occasionally you are not straight you are Bi......Same with men.

Bi means you have sex with both genders.

It doesn't make you not Bi if you don't want a same sex relationship

What part do you not understand????

There was a similar thread to this last week, try searching for it.

Bi is Bi

Straight is straight

Gay is gay

Simple

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.

I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x

I

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it makes you bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.

Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.

Bi have an attraction to both.

That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.

A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - the fact that you are unable to understand something doesn't make it unreal..!!!

If it isn't for you, then just step away please...

"

No need for rudeness, the op surely is allowed to ask questions.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bisexual. Where on the spectrum I am though varies from time to time and depends on who I'm having sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bisexual. Where on the spectrum I am though varies from time to time and depends on who I'm having sex with. "

Now you are just being difficult... how dare you allow mood, or person to interfere with the labeling system

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm bisexual. Where on the spectrum I am though varies from time to time and depends on who I'm having sex with.

Now you are just being difficult... how dare you allow mood, or person to interfere with the labeling system "

Label Mabel Smabel. It's a vague description 'bisexual' as the devil Iain the detail.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Gay here, but happy to play with anyone I find attraction & trust with.

I clicked a button when I joined Fab that says sexual preference Gay, as I'm mostly attracted to men.

That said, Fab has helped broaden my horizons, but then they were pretty broad anyway before Fab.

Clicking a button isn't going to change my preference, but neither is society going to stop me from exploring with the right people in the right circumstances. My Fab friends know that & accept me for who I am, what my preferences are, & are supportive if I broaden my choices when I choose to.

Clicking a button doesn't pigeon hole me or mean I'm ever going to be rigidly caged in any given category unless I choose to.

Labels... pah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly the same as the OP, but as a male. I like playing with other men (not fully, yet) and I'd not consider a relationship with one. I put the lable as Bi-curious on my profile.

But in the end lables are just that, and they mean different things to different people. Just explain what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.

Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.

Bi have an attraction to both.

That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.

A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion"

. . not forgetting that many gay men and women have fathered children either before they "came out" or still "in the closet".

To be a bisexual is to be open-minded and gregarious, we're possibly some of the most tolerant to "likes and dislikes" that, at times, plaster this site with "anti" views . . yet we are also the most condemned, disliked and "blocked" group on here.

Bisexuals are rarely bigots . . most of those are "straight".

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Im straight .... I would never play with a woman .... if I did id state I was bi ....

Whats to be confused about ?

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.

Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.

Bi have an attraction to both.

That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.

A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion"
a woman whose 100% straight will never kiss another woman unless its a peck on the cheek merry Christmas kind of kiss. Not a full on snog, EVER. if she does shes aint straight.

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