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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mr & I are going to Cj's tonight and it will be our first time in a club. We are both looking forward to it,but I'm slightly more apprehensive than him.

I've read the site info so know what rooms etc there are, and I know there's no pressure etc so most of the apprehension is just fear of the unknown.

I'm currently sitting wondering if the dress I've chose will be ok.

It probably sounds daft, but would there be something too casual that would stop us getting in.

I know I'm overthinking it, but I can't help it.

Thanks in advance

Mrsboab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them a ring and have a chat. When you arrive tell them you're new, most clubs will give newbies a tour.

Don't worry too much. Everyone had a first time.

Never be afraid to say "no thank you". And have fun. x

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

It can be scary going to a club for the first time but. IME they are very friendly places where pp are happy to chat to you. And everyone has had that experience of it being their first time so knows how daunting it can be! There's no pressure to do anything, just go, watch others, have a drink and relax.

I'm sure you will have a really nice time. ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have to take I.D with it being our first time, so they'll know we're newbies.

And thanks for the replies.

Im sure we'll be fine, and have ed some fun. Nothing ventured and all that lol x

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"We have to take I.D with it being our first time, so they'll know we're newbies.

And thanks for the replies.

Im sure we'll be fine, and have ed some fun. Nothing ventured and all that lol x"

You guys will love it.

Brill club and everyone's friendly and helpful. A dress will be perfect for Cjs...first time can always be a bit scary...but once your in, you will wonder what all the fuss was about.

Enjoy

L xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

relax and enjoy the company and banter - if you meet and play its a bonus - we find it very arousing just being in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How was it, we are in Scotland in a few weeks and might give it a try ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What made it a bad night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just not a lot of play going on, but there were also a couple of demos happening which put a few of the rooms out of action, then all the private rooms were locked, so not a great night.

But we will try again x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Take lots of condoms & lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just not a lot of play going on, but there were also a couple of demos happening which put a few of the rooms out of action, then all the private rooms were locked, so not a great night.

But we will try again x"

It can be hit n miss whether it will be mad busy or dead. You might have been overwhelmed if it was crazy busy. So see it as a positive first night and you'll know what to expect next time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know.

It's all just trial and error x

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x"

Aww that's a shame. Glad it's not put you guys off. Try couples and single fems night. We find them by far the best nights to go. Always a fantastic atmosphere x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x

Aww that's a shame. Glad it's not put you guys off. Try couples and single fems night. We find them by far the best nights to go. Always a fantastic atmosphere x"

That's the plan. At least we have a better idea of what to expect x

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By *andl kinkycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland


"I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x

Aww that's a shame. Glad it's not put you guys off. Try couples and single fems night. We find them by far the best nights to go. Always a fantastic atmosphere x

That's the plan. At least we have a better idea of what to expect x"

hopefully see you both there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x

Aww that's a shame. Glad it's not put you guys off. Try couples and single fems night. We find them by far the best nights to go. Always a fantastic atmosphere x

That's the plan. At least we have a better idea of what to expect x

hopefully see you both there "

hmmmm fancying a trip up north now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think last night was a bad night to choose. So it wasn't great.

But regulars have also told us that it was a bad night and usually a lot better than that.

So we won't be put off, and will try it again x

Aww that's a shame. Glad it's not put you guys off. Try couples and single fems night. We find them by far the best nights to go. Always a fantastic atmosphere x

That's the plan. At least we have a better idea of what to expect x

hopefully see you both there "

You very well might x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popped our club cherry for the 1st time in July went to cjs club.it was couples and female night it was very relaxed and had great FUN meet lots of nice folk.

Definitely will be back sept

If yous guys are at the club come and say hello xx

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