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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just looking for advice about my profile and etc. Whenever I send messages I aim to be polite (like I liked your profile and pics would you like to chat etc) and not come accross as a sleazeball. However 98% of the time when I check sent mail it's always deleted. As you can imagine this is getting a tad irritating. Is it my profile and pics or do I need to be more forward or what? Any advice much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as a game of chance.

Your message will often be one of many that ladies and couples will receive daily, so you are competing for their attentions.

There is no secret formular. If you can pull in your "normal" life, chances are you will do so here too.

You need to use the same personal skills here as you would chatting in a club or pub.

Best of luck

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"There is no secret formular. If you can pull in your "normal" life, chances are you will do so here too.

is that rule reversed for women cos i dont pull in my normal life but do alright on here hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to reiterate the point, be yourself, be genuine and you'll be fine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was swinging singly (this is bloke, by the way), i found this.

you have to remember that it's partly a numbers game, and that men vastly outnumber women on here

i'd be interested in what the ratio is actually, if anyone knows?

but if you have plenty of pics, and an interesting profile, you'll get some replies, it just takes time

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