FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to get responses

By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Hi all just looking for a bit of advice on my profile as no fun as of yet I look forward to your constructive feedback please be a little kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say the main issue with you not getting a response is your only pic which is a cock pic. It puts most women off. I wouldn't even click on a profile with a cock profile pic let alone read it. There are thousands of cocks on here, we all know guys have one. To stand out you need much better pics. Good luck

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks it seemed to be the trend for men but that's what I get for be in the sheep instead of the wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just looking for a bit of advice on my profile as no fun as of yet I look forward to your constructive feedback please be a little kind"

Your profile text makes little sense. You need to check the grammar.

What is a 4am guy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You describe yourself by means of comparison to people you think are better than you somehow, it seems a bit defeatist as does your description of your relationship which isn't relevant and your only picture is still your cock.

What do you mean by fun, its a word lots of people use but doesn't really describe much?

Write a positive text, take a picture of your body and see how you get on. You're one of many so patience is vital. I also think joining in the general hurly burly of the forum is a good way to get to know people a bit and can open up opportunities for social meets etc.

Good luck!

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

The Last guy left in the room, just thought it was a fun way to say I know I am not a looker

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The Last guy left in the room, just thought it was a fun way to say I know I am not a looker

You should let the people you're potentially meeting decide if they find you attractive or not.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Hi all just looking for a bit of advice on my profile as no fun as of yet I look forward to your constructive feedback please be a little kind"

More pics and more profile text..

Lose the cock pic though.it looks diseased and dirty..if you want a cock pic on then make it a good one

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Cheers all have made some changes have removed cocktail pic as can't take one where I am and changed text would you say this should hopefully improve my outlook?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyones thoughts on mine as we seem to have helped OP hehehe be nice and message me x

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheers all have made some changes have removed cocktail pic as can't take one where I am and changed text would you say this should hopefully improve my outlook?"

The grammar is still very bad.

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Cheers all have made some changes have removed cocktail pic as can't take one where I am and changed text would you say this should hopefully improve my outlook?

The grammar is still very bad."

I know but I get fustrated with my phone autocorrelation etc

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

*auto correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics would be a help, also explain why you cannot accomodate. It says "been in an almost vanilla relationship" if your not still in it you might want to lose that bit as i personally don't think it needs to be in there.

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"More pics would be a help, also explain why you cannot accomodate. It says "been in an almost vanilla relationship" if your not still in it you might want to lose that bit as i personally don't think it needs to be in there. "

Thank you have updated text more pics in private collection does this help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you have updated text more pics in private collection does this help?"

You now have no public pics and no avatar so you have kinda gone a bit backwards with the picture issue, but the text is a bit better

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thank you have updated text more pics in private collection does this help?

You now have no public pics and no avatar so you have kinda gone a bit backwards with the picture issue, but the text is a bit better

Going to take some more and upload next time I am on thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why ask advice in the forums it a tiny % of the site/people on here just be you tell people about you and what you want fab is much much bigger than just the forums..x

oh and by the way there just as many women who like cock pics as there are those who don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show more pics

Come across as intelligent, articulate and witty

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By *tothet OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thank you all

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