FabSwingers.com forum: Help from TS/ TV

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

Was hoping for some help.... I have been on fab before and had one meet but apart from that it has been pretty quite.

I am left wondering what I am doing wrong? I am hoping to meet TS/ TVs but not sure if my profile is appealing enough.

Any suggestions/ help would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you're straight.

Some - not all, but some - will class you as bi-curious at least if you say you're looking to meet TS/TV ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose that makes sense.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

you could drop the sense of humour and fairly intelligent options... ooohh..I'm only kidding.. i don't think the straight option is holding you back as lots of tvs meet straight... i think it could be just too many guys too few tvs.. ..have you ever thought of dressing yourself your sure too meet some then..

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Why not go to a Tgirl admirers night at a club? Townhouse have them once a month and they are very well attended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gatehouse in bolton holds 1 of the best tgirl and admirers afternoons every weds its super friendly and a great place to socialize and play

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

I imagine it's because the kind of TS/TV you seek (you're probably more looking for a TS), is kind of like the much sought after Single Bi-Woman. They probably have their pick any day of the week.

So you'll need to stand out more, or as someone suggests go and try a club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I haven't considered that. Dressing isn't really for me. As fun as I'm sure it would be, I would look a muppet in anything other than jeans and a shirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A admirers club sounds like a good idea. Closest one to Chester anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahhhh just seen townhouse is in Birkenhead..... That's pretty close

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

3 pics, all of which are essentially the same won't help much. Go on Tgirl nights out, they are always good fun. I'm miles away from where you are, so don't know the ones local to you, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says you're straight.

Some - not all, but some - will class you as bi-curious at least if you say you're looking to meet TS/TV ladies."

But who cares what they think?

TS girls will class him as straight as they class themselves as women.

So it wont cost him meets with yos target market.

"You must have a sense of humour and be fairly intelligent... Big turn ons for me

I am only attracted to feminine looking girls so if this is not you, no disrespect but it's likely I will not be interested."

This will though.

Holy shit is that going to put trans girls on edge and make them feel uncomfortable around you.

Ditch it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go to canal street in manchester especially the bar napoleon's or bar Pop.

You'll meet lots of trans girls and in a normal noght out atmosphere rather than a dodgy sexclub one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a few lols, canal street is good to meet us in a normal, chilled way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing much wrong with your profile text but a nice face pic would go a long way and make you stand out from the rest in a crowded inbox x you're quite specific about wanting a tgirl and that counts a lot, for me at least x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not put off by you saying you're straight. Most guys I meet consider themselves to be straight as they don't see me as anything other than female.

As for dressing; for me it's an absolute no. I have no interest in guys who dress.

I second the big positive for you saying you seek trans playmates. I hate being a secret. If you desire me be proud of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 pics, all of which are essentially the same won't help much. Go on Tgirl nights out, they are always good fun. I'm miles away from where you are, so don't know the ones local to you, though.

I suppose some different type of photos could help.... Best get snapping

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"Your profile says you're straight.

Some - not all, but some - will class you as bi-curious at least if you say you're looking to meet TS/TV ladies.

But who cares what they think?

TS girls will class him as straight as they class themselves as women.

Me personally I like that comment, honesty is the best policy for me...

I would say a face photo could be the reason, but if you're sending those with your message then maybe not...

I just wouldn't message a profile that doesn't have a face pic personally... x

So it wont cost him meets with yos target market.

"You must have a sense of humour and be fairly intelligent... Big turn ons for me

I am only attracted to feminine looking girls so if this is not you, no disrespect but it's likely I will not be interested."

This will though.

Holy shit is that going to put trans girls on edge and make them feel uncomfortable around you.

Ditch it "

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By *w33tCh33ks91TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm not put off by you saying you're straight. Most guys I meet consider themselves to be straight as they don't see me as anything other than female.

As for dressing; for me it's an absolute no. I have no interest in guys who dress.

I second the big positive for you saying you seek trans playmates. I hate being a secret. If you desire me be proud of it!

Touché sistah!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep I know what I want... Just need to find it. Thanks for all the help guys. Appreciate it.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

There will have been about 3,000 Trans people and their friends in Manchester earlier this month for the annual Sparkle event.

Every first Friday of the month there are usually 150+ descend on the Lower Briggate area of Leeds for LFF.

These are very friendly social gatherings worth popping to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will have been about 3,000 Trans people and their friends in Manchester earlier this month for the annual Sparkle event.

Every first Friday of the month there are usually 150+ descend on the Lower Briggate area of Leeds for LFF.

These are very friendly social gatherings worth popping to."

I was at sparkle. Had a great weekend.

I'll be at Manchester pride too August bank hol weekend.

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can second jade northwich sauna is fab I went every Wednesday when I worked nearby mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

That sounds fun... Have never heard of it before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good post. I'm in the same boat, any advice for me?

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

"I can second jade northwich sauna is fab I went every Wednesday when I worked nearby mmm"
Nice bra! Where from?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

So how do these saunas work? I have heard a lot about them this past two weeks. Think I might go this week. Not sure of etiquette etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

So how do these saunas work? I have heard a lot about them this past two weeks. Think I might go this week. Not sure of etiquette etc. "

You pay to get in.

They give you a towel and a locker key.

Get undressed and pop the towel on and go for a wander.

There tends to be porn cinemas and jacuzzis, steam rooms and little seedy play rooms. Perhaps a glory hole area. Depends on the sauna.

Many guys seem to just gesture and hope you understand what they want. I can't be bothered with all that and I actually talk to people! Shock horror!

as a result I get a lot of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

So how do these saunas work? I have heard a lot about them this past two weeks. Think I might go this week. Not sure of etiquette etc.

You pay to get in.

They give you a towel and a locker key.

Get undressed and pop the towel on and go for a wander.

There tends to be porn cinemas and jacuzzis, steam rooms and little seedy play rooms. Perhaps a glory hole area. Depends on the sauna.

Many guys seem to just gesture and hope you understand what they want. I can't be bothered with all that and I actually talk to people! Shock horror!

as a result I get a lot of fun.

Shock horror, someone actually talking in a sauna and treating people like human beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Northwich Sauna Hun Wednesday's I am always there most Wednesday's till 7pm hope that helps lots go xxxx

So how do these saunas work? I have heard a lot about them this past two weeks. Think I might go this week. Not sure of etiquette etc.

You pay to get in.

They give you a towel and a locker key.

Get undressed and pop the towel on and go for a wander.

There tends to be porn cinemas and jacuzzis, steam rooms and little seedy play rooms. Perhaps a glory hole area. Depends on the sauna.

Many guys seem to just gesture and hope you understand what they want. I can't be bothered with all that and I actually talk to people! Shock horror!

as a result I get a lot of fun.

Shock horror, someone actually talking in a sauna and treating people like human beings

I know

Does my head in when everyone's sat in silence playing with their cocks.

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

Just ignore them way I see it if they don't want to talk. Then they can go take a walk as I am not interested. I avoid the gay guys to bunch of clueless gits

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