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By *esperatewife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

I haven't had any luck in clubs for years so stopped going but after watching other ladies realised part if the reason may be that they dress up and I don't. I am not really interested in sexy underwear but think it may be the only way to get what I want (desperate is my name after all!). The problem now is size, I need a bra size 44 to 46 K, this size does not come in sexy! Any ideas or helpful suggestions ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try love honeys plus size range of lingerie. They have some lovely outfits and have free returns.

Google plus size lingerie as there's more out there than you'd think. Happy shopping x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Simply Be or Fashion World online, they do nice lingerie in bigger sizes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if Bravissimo go up to that size but worth a look. If you fancy really treating yourself Vollers do made to measure corsets, expensive but worth every penny. Had one since 2004 and it still looks good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look online, Try marisota and yours website. Babydolls and outfits etc try curvalicious beauties website.

Doll x

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By *esperatewife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

Thank you for all messages so far, though I have tried most places without success there are some I've not thought of and some who I've not looked at for a while who may have improved thier range, so time for some retail therapy methinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's also yours clothing website. Hope you find something. Happy shopping x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 44F and really struggle with this too, but I found that's the 'dream girl' range and most of love honey do it at long as they don't have cups built into the design. Sometimes my baps are soiling over the top but never had anyone complain so far

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By *evnLuCouple
over a year ago

NW

Yours Clothing is great for bras but if you order online get a couple of different sizes to try first.

Dreamgirls stuff is nice too but can sometimes be a bit tight on mine (42GG) x

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Google an online shop called figleaves. Their stuff is very sexy.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Bra stop. Com has some really pretty bras in most sizes

Simply be has a great range in bras

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I'm with you here. 40K does not come in sexy. Anywhere. And if you want matching undies... not a hope. I make my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for a corset . Looks stunning and gives you a fab figure.

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By *evnLuCouple
over a year ago

NW


"Just go for a corset . Looks stunning and gives you a fab figure."

I do love a corset! If you want to invest get measured etc for one. I bought one online and it was a bad fit. Just check your measurements when ordering or get someone else to if you buy online. Cos if you are like me I close my eyes when I get on scales or a tape measure comes near me

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

If you aren't in to "dressing up" then you shouldn't feel you have to. After all its the gift inside the wrapping that counts the most.

From what I've seen in chams lots just go naked or in a towel and seem to get plenty attention.

I think a lot of it comes down to confidence. If you feel good then it shows. I have masses of pretty underwear, corsets etc but I don't radiate confifence and it definitely puts people off.

As others have mentioned if you do want to go underwear shopping then lots of good suggestions.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had any luck in clubs for years so stopped going but after watching other ladies realised part if the reason may be that they dress up and I don't. I am not really interested in sexy underwear but think it may be the only way to get what I want (desperate is my name after all!). The problem now is size, I need a bra size 44 to 46 K, this size does not come in sexy! Any ideas or helpful suggestions ladies? "

44 to 46k come very sexy even with or without bra.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Just be careful when searching..

I've just been looking and noticed a pic for a lovely babydoll... On a certain site it is £49... Yet on eBay its £14. It's the exact picture for both sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the Goddess range on herroom dot com. Fit fantastically and their lingerie bras are beautiful.

To be perfectly honest though, I prefer them swinging free - I know they're my best feature so a towel round my waist and nips out is the look for me *grins*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you. I'm a 34K and really struggle. I do like to dress sexy and find I have to hang out of a cupped top (or smaller bra)or look for soft cups.

Have you thought about body stockings? Or the fishnet style fresses you can buy. Corsets are an investment and a pain to get in and out of but do look amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't had any luck in clubs for years so stopped going but after watching other ladies realised part if the reason may be that they dress up and I don't. I am not really interested in sexy underwear but think it may be the only way to get what I want (desperate is my name after all!). The problem now is size, I need a bra size 44 to 46 K, this size does not come in sexy! Any ideas or helpful suggestions ladies? "

Nipple rings and helium baloons.

That's all I got. Sorry

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

It has to be about you. You have to be comfortable to exude the confidence and if lingerie and corsets are not your thing it may hinder rather than help.

I do dress up when I go to a club however I wear stockings daily so for me it's nothing special. . But at the end of the night I'll be in a towel because I love a jacuzzi too much lol

Be you

Be beautiful

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op try ebay. Filter out and find the uk sites. And i think curvissa do larger. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Op, I absolutely know the struggle, I'm a 34J and honestly try Amazon. I buy my bras from there. Fingers crossed and good luck xx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Hi OP ... im a 48 e .... and a recently bought some new bras and under wear from YOURS .

I was really pleased with it.

Also evans and simply be are good ..... though I tend to wait for the sales ... looking on line is good .....you will get some bargains at the moment ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My God your nice. Only a fool would say no. Xxx

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By *evnLuCouple
over a year ago

NW


"

Nipple rings and helium baloons.

That's all I got. Sorry "

What with having a similar issue, this did make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nipple rings and helium baloons.

That's all I got. Sorry

What with having a similar issue, this did make me laugh "

Rachael strikes again!

Shoe shopping anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go to clubs I always wear a LBD.

My clothes stay on unless if find a reason to take them off and then I unleash a sexy basque and knickers.

Mylene Klass does a great range. Not sure of the sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure bravissimo do a k cup but not certain on a 44. I think they only do a 40 back.

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By *evnLuCouple
over a year ago

NW


"

Nipple rings and helium baloons.

That's all I got. Sorry

What with having a similar issue, this did make me laugh

Rachael strikes again!

Shoe shopping anyone? "

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By *esperatewife OP   Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

Thank you everyone, wish I could favourite many of the posts above (I know, that's Twitter), but genuinely, some made me laugh, many ideas and also thought provoking stuff about why I may be struggling. You're right ladies, it's a vicious circle, no attention leads to no confidence and even less attention...

I don't know if I will ever have the confidence to return again but if I do I now have a few ideas on what to wear, thank you all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Nipple rings and helium baloons.

That's all I got. Sorry

What with having a similar issue, this did make me laugh

Rachael strikes again!

Shoe shopping anyone? "

aint this bout boobs,,so no,,,lets go bra shopping,,hope you know yer size

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