FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It has nothing to do with paying.

It has everything to do with the effort you've put into your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is really boring. Work on it. Sell yourself.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Been a paid up member will make very little difference. Your profile and the content of the messages you send are the most important things. And before shag comes along patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have virtually no profile...and for me, your username sounds really unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun. "

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun. "
Your username, profile and pics are not going to help you nor is paying to be a site supporter, try making a concerted effort that might help you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, young single males tend to find it hard here. Your profile text and pictures will do you no favours.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

attitude through profile dialogue wouldnt entice any meets or interest .. . ... its not a meat market but perhaps you think it is ... ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun. "

No need to pay. Have a look at some other profiles and don't expect sex to be handed to you on a plate and for the love of all that is holy reconsider your user name.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort!

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By * PillowsWoman
over a year ago

stevenage

"you have virtually no profile...and for me, your username sounds really unpleasant."

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yeah mate thats definitely it, all down to you not being a paid up member

I mean your profile is great

And having a public mardy has never failed to pull the girls in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun. "

Your profile text isn't very good and will stop a lot from meeting you and your username may put the rest off too

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort! "

I know a lot of people say no cut and paste messages but i genuinely don't know why not?

I mean if you are politely saying hi, a quick few lines about yourself and letting them know your interested why should all the messages be different?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

How on earth do you think being a paying member will possibly help elicit a reply?

Your post is five times longer and is a lot more coherent than your profile OP. That's where your problem lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The photos and profile are not very good at all. Describing yourself as athletic is also stretching the truth a bit. Muscle poses with very little muscles aren't going to have the girls banging down your door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort!

I know a lot of people say no cut and paste messages but i genuinely don't know why not?

I mean if you are politely saying hi, a quick few lines about yourself and letting them know your interested why should all the messages be different? "

I agree, it isonly an opening line, what else are you supposed to say?? Get blitzing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort! "

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your user name definitely, if you don't want to pay you will have to leave and rejoinder to do this. More details in your profile text are needed. Better pictures, the dropping arm one and the muscle shot are not right for attracting lady's for sex

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Womb raider - come across as a little immature.

Your profile is so bland.

I'd look and delete your message.

I only go for those who look like they can offer some thing. You're fails to show you could add anything...

Sorry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Cut and paste isn't a problem for us just for goodness sake remember to change the names

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

Perhaps because you're writing to an individual(s) so one copy and paste message won't suit everyone, some wont mind them, others will think you're a boring lazy twat for doing them and let's face it who wants a boring lazy shag?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort!

I know a lot of people say no cut and paste messages but i genuinely don't know why not?

I mean if you are politely saying hi, a quick few lines about yourself and letting them know your interested why should all the messages be different? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah mate thats definitely it, all down to you not being a paid up member

I mean your profile is great

And having a public mardy has never failed to pull the girls in

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mmmm pmsl

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Cut and paste isn't a problem for us just for goodness sake remember to change the names

I do find it amusing how many guys actually don't remember to do that hat it 8 times today alone

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort!

I know a lot of people say no cut and paste messages but i genuinely don't know why not?

I mean if you are politely saying hi, a quick few lines about yourself and letting them know your interested why should all the messages be different? "

Simple...a cut and paste message says you aren't interested because it's unlikely that you've read someone's profile and therefore unlikely that you will know if there's any chance of someone being interested.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Do i have to pay for this site to get the most of it? Id be happy to do that but wouldnt want to pay to end up with the same results.

I dont think im a bad looking bloke, i can accommodate or drive to meet. I dont no where im going wrong? Is it that im a free member?

If not could i have some tips on what to send in the first message as thats maybe why i dont get replies.

Im also verified photo whys but cant really get more if i dont get meets.

Just want to have sum fun.

Get blitzing my friend, copy and paste and generic but not cheesy opening line and message as many suitable people as possible

Nooooo cut & paste messages are a massive turn off as shows lack of effort!

I know a lot of people say no cut and paste messages but i genuinely don't know why not?

I mean if you are politely saying hi, a quick few lines about yourself and letting them know your interested why should all the messages be different?

Copy n paste messages are just lazy.

Especially the 'how are you both'... Or .... 'I would really love to watch you guys fuck'.

Both who? I'm a single fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harsh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaand he's gone.

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