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By *rownsuga1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

silly question but why do some people say then want to meet but wount go on cam or chat on phone beforehand...they only show pics

then they make up excuses like they had bad chat experiences.

must be a faker?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Id say they were fake id never meet anyone without seeing then on cam and chatting on phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never chatted on cam or phone, i say quite clearly on my profile, although I do give my number to those I arrange to meet with, I have not had a problem with meeting. Fake? No, just my preference.

Good luck

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't cam because I live with a teenager and have no wish for her to walk past and catch me. I do give out my phone number before a meet but only when all is confirmed. And guess what? I have never stood anyone up, and I am pretty sure I am not fake. Even the tits are real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can someone having their own preferences mean they are fake?

I dont do cam, I dont do phone calls. No cam because children around the house, no phone calls because I dont want someone having my number who may turn out to be a weirdo!

x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"no phone calls because I dont want someone having my number who may turn out to be a weirdo!

x"

Exactly! Although being on this site we may have to put up with a few.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't meet someone unless I had seen them on cam/chatted on the phone first.

If they won't, it doesn't mean that they're fakes, just that they have different preferences from me. However, our chances to decide in advance if we're likely to 'click' are reduced (hence we could be wasting each others time), so I prefer to move on to other Fabbers whose vetting systems are more similar to mine.

Each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"silly question but why do some people say then want to meet but wount go on cam or chat on phone beforehand...they only show pics

then they make up excuses like they had bad chat experiences.

must be a faker?"

we have two teenagers in the house and at 16 and 15 we wouldnt want them to overhear a conversation or catch us on cam!!

its all about timing ,were not single males chasing fanny who live alone with fuck all better to do all day than arrange meets and flash on cam for frustrated single males

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By *rownsuga1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

when i said go on cam i meant just show face not flash lol

just find it strange that this person refused so stongly that she dont talk on phone,, well if it was really a she.

ive only seen pics of her. well anyone can get pics and say its them....its happened to me before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya all, I really dont feel comfortable going on cam, I have done so once or twice only because the couple we were meeting thought we were not real, Its a shame a simple phone call and meeting in a public place isnt enough. Its quite off putting keep being asked to go on cam. And I def do not break meeting if I agree to meet T x x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"no phone calls because I dont want someone having my number who may turn out to be a weirdo!

x"

We have a “swingers” mobile, which is only switched on as and when we're arranging a meet

Can pick up a PAYG mobile for around a tenner nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, we have bought a pay as you go just for this and it takes the worry out of nuisance calls. With children at home, the last thing you want is someone pestering you x x

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By *rownsuga1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

leicester

ive met someone in past which ive seen pics and didnt have a phone chat beforehand. and it turned out to be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"silly question but why do some people say then want to meet but wount go on cam or chat on phone beforehand...they only show pics

then they make up excuses like they had bad chat experiences.

must be a faker?"

i will always cam an chat with a person prior to meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course people are not fake if they dontn want to go on cam or chat on the phone, its their preference.

I dont chat on the phone or cam before meeting anyone and neither will I ever do so. I am not interested in having phone conversations and i down own a cam.

Now I know there are guys who are pretending to be couples and so single guys may worry that I dont exist, but thats up to them, I dont give my phone number out to men and thats my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"silly question but why do some people say then want to meet but wount go on cam or chat on phone beforehand...they only show pics

then they make up excuses like they had bad chat experiences.

its all about timing ,were not single males chasing fanny who live alone with fuck all better to do all day than arrange meets and flash on cam for frustrated single males"

tad harsh..must be so grand up on that high horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there are fakes out there but we dont own a cam and dont plan to ever get one. We only give hubbys phone number when giving directions for meet and its worked for us so will continue this way.

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