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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, so I have been on the site just coming up to a month and I still haven't been able to arange a single meet. I understand it is a lot more difficult for single guys to meet on here due to the vast majority or members being single males.

I actively make an effort to message other members after reading there profile.

Is there any tips anyone can give me, or even better is there anyone who is interest in me as a single male?

Mark

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Do a forum search for 'Profile Advice' and read the posts, there is some great advice in there

A month is no time on here.

You've too many cock pics for starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

way too many cock pics..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay so less cock picture, what sort of pictures should I replace them with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, so I have been on the site just coming up to a month and I still haven't been able to arange a single meet. I understand it is a lot more difficult for single guys to meet on here due to the vast majority or members being single males.

I actively make an effort to message other members after reading there profile.

Is there any tips anyone can give me, or even better is there anyone who is interest in me as a single male?

Mark "

Just be patient. We're on here a while now, with a beautiful sexy lady and you would think we'd be meeting people every other day!

But we don't, trying to sync up with other people is very difficult.

Don't worry about it, try not to get too obsessed with Fab, you'll get very jaded.

Use it along with other sites (if that's your thing) and it'll happen eventually.

Best of luck.

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

Will you really fuck someone aged 99 and you will do everything on the list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here for a month! Far too many cock photos too, you only have one cock, you only need to have one photo of it.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a lot of guys will say that a month is no time at all and you need to be patient.

Make sure your profile stands out from the crowd and that you have a few photos, preferably not just cock shots. I haven't looked at your profile so I'm keeping it general.

Read profiles before you message to make sure you match their requirements. Keep your message short and friendly and include some clues that you've read their profile. If they ask for a code or a face pic, include them.

Try socials and clubs to meet a lot of people in one hit.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'll say the same that I did on your last thread OP...

1) When you say you've approached people, are the people you've approached looking for someone like you? Have you read what they're looking for and you feel like you can bring something to the table, or do you just message anyone where you're in their age range?

2) What's the content of your initial messages? Is it a copy & paste job (really easy to spot when you've been here long enough) or do you tailor a message to a specific profile?

3) Look at your profile from a single woman's or couples POV... what catches your eye? Would it be memorable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank everyone with the help so far. I plan on rewriting my profile today and adding some new photos any suggestion on what photos to take?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"And I'll say the same that I did on your last thread OP...

1) When you say you've approached people, are the people you've approached looking for someone like you? Have you read what they're looking for and you feel like you can bring something to the table, or do you just message anyone where you're in their age range?

2) What's the content of your initial messages? Is it a copy & paste job (really easy to spot when you've been here long enough) or do you tailor a message to a specific profile?

3) Look at your profile from a single woman's or couples POV... what catches your eye? Would it be memorable?"

Good advice !!!!

It does work, also get yourself to a social or club and be willing to chat to people not just for a few days but longer sometimes people can't meet at drop of hat but when you do meet normally good fun

Also make your photos stand out

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Desperate statuses don't help your case. Big turn off

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