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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More lube... Never had a problem in fact I find that it makes it easier once you are in.. if it's too tight it will be hard to get in,but just use your fingers to relax her open a bit then slide it in.

What type of lubricant are you using?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey thanks. Will try opening up a bit with fingers and extra lube.

I'm

pretty patient and I can stay hard while trying to slide in.

I just use durex lube.

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By *inkykouple2016Couple
over a year ago

moray

We use Maximus lube. £10 for a decent sized bottle from lovehoney.

Excellent stuff.

I could use my arse as a sledge the next day it's so good .

Jim.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex


"We use Maximus lube. £10 for a decent sized bottle from lovehoney.

Excellent stuff.

I could use my arse as a sledge the next day it's so good .

Jim."

Wow that sounds like good lube you should be a rep for lovehoney

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By *evils-couple13Couple
over a year ago

Neath

We use lube designed from love honey,amazing stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?"

Stick it in bareback first.. After 5 strokes, pull out and put on the condom. Then go back in and fuck her all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a problem,even with extra safe condoms and I usually use normal Durex cherry lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use Maximus lube. £10 for a decent sized bottle from lovehoney.

Excellent stuff.

I could use my arse as a sledge the next day it's so good .

Jim."

Try some Swiss Navy silicone based lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For anal your best to use a lube especially designed for anal. I think it's usually silicone based and doesn't dry up as quick as normal water based lube. Therefore giving a better experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try WD40

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By *kpartystartersCouple
over a year ago

Chester

ID lube and lots of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try WD40 "

At least she won't creak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of rimming

Followed be fingering gently

Then more lube and then let it slide in with a condom

Always works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?"

Coconut oil

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By *hemonkeyheadMan
over a year ago

Reading

butter

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm a fussy sod with anal so I've always used condoms anyway lol.

Plenty of lube & build up gently using more lube if need be otherwise she won't walk for a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of rimming

Followed be fingering gently

Then more lube and then let it slide in with a condom

Always works "

for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durex extra safe and good old ky jelly.

Also helps to use a toy and anal plug to stretch.

X

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Have used durex lube without problems but sure on one or two occasions, we've started off with vaginal sex and used her own natural lube quite effectively after switching to anal. I'm sure 20 people will now give me 20 different reasons why you shouldn't do this - Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have used durex lube without problems but sure on one or two occasions, we've started off with vaginal sex and used her own natural lube quite effectively after switching to anal. I'm sure 20 people will now give me 20 different reasons why you shouldn't do this - Go!"
Actually, that way is ok, it's arse to pussy that isn't.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Personally never done anal without condoms durex extra safe and ky works everytime for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?"

Don't use ribbed condoms!

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Hot bath and lots of foreplay

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Try WD40

At least she won't creak "

Ha ha, an old engineering saying: If it doesn't move and it should, WD40.

If it does move and it shouldn't, gaffer tape.

Transposes nicely onto sex.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Butter

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Crisco.........aka chip fat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

Some of these suggestions are pretty funny! Isn't there a movie where the guy uses butter? Lol

X

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Have used durex lube without problems but sure on one or two occasions, we've started off with vaginal sex and used her own natural lube quite effectively after switching to anal. I'm sure 20 people will now give me 20 different reasons why you shouldn't do this - Go! Actually, that way is ok, it's arse to pussy that isn't."

That much I did know, but expected to be told I shouldn't be doing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

Some of these suggestions are pretty funny! Isn't there a movie where the guy uses butter? Lol

X"

The movie was Last Tango in Paris! Anybody else remember it?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't think I have ever had any issues with anal sex and condoms. I've used a variety of lubes from KY (OK but dries out), ID (great) and something with silk in the name from Ann Summers (almost as good as ID)...and have also gone from pussy to arse with the lady's juices on the condom.

It just doesn't seem to be an issue, though a good quality lube (better than KY) certainly makes it easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuming spit on it first....lol

Was a joke OK...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?

Coconut oil"

I'll second that

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Goose fat

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"

Coconut oil

I'll second that

"

Only if he's using non-latex condoms. Coconut oil (and Crisco mentioned above) perish latex condoms, but don't necessarily break them so you don't know they have been compromised. Might as well go in bareback!

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Coconut oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure the lady isn't allergic to coconuts though! Dread to think what my arse would look like if someone tried that with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure the lady isn't allergic to coconuts though! Dread to think what my arse would look like if someone tried that with me "

Aww cupcake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really had a problem. The woman had usually been so wet that we have just lubed using her natural juices!

Condom or no condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really had a problem. The woman had usually been so wet that we have just lubed using her natural juices!

Condom or no condom "

"natural juices" from her arse hole ?

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By *cikMan
over a year ago

Devon


"butter"

For some reason I read that as butler

'Carson, deploy lube and prepare the way!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of vandal grease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swarfega, it's nice and slippy and the shit will wash off easily when you finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had anal sex with two different women on different occasions and we didn't use lube on one occasion and the other we used her vaginal juices.

We did not use condoms as both were long term partners. We took our time with plenty of foreplay and had no problems.

Ahh the good old days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really had a problem. The woman had usually been so wet that we have just lubed using her natural juices!

Condom or no condom

"natural juices" from her arse hole ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swarfega, it's nice and slippy and the shit will wash off easily when you finished "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swarfega, it's nice and slippy and the shit will wash off easily when you finished "

I have been told toothpaste is an excellent lubricant too and always some in the bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that not contradict the term "safe sex"? Condom is meant to be on BEFORE ANY CONTACT BETWEEN COCK N PUSSY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have used durex lube without problems but sure on one or two occasions, we've started off with vaginal sex and used her own natural lube quite effectively after switching to anal. I'm sure 20 people will now give me 20 different reasons why you shouldn't do this - Go!"

No reason why you shouldn't if it feels good for her Hun!

I need a lot of lube as my arse is small and v tight! Takes a lot of effort to get it in but we'll worth it once it's there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?

Stick it in bareback first.. After 5 strokes, pull out and put on the condom. Then go back in and fuck her all night "

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Also, know your biology...

Ther arse has two rings of muscles ('sphincters). These relax when you need a poo, and clench when you are trying not to fart in the lift!

As well as lots of lube and a condom (if needed), you need to relax these sphincters to facilitate penetration. Starting with a finger first can help.

And PLEASE, PLEASE, make sure you have short finger nails, with no snags or scratchy bits. Rings and other jewelery should also be removed to avoid injury...xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never done anal without a condom.

Lube, don't use it sparingly. Plenty of it if you ask me. Less friction the better. Don't forget it's the sexy women's bum you are protecting. Think of her not necessarily your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?"

Coconut oil

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Ive never done anal without a condom.

Lube, don't use it sparingly. Plenty of it if you ask me. Less friction the better. Don't forget it's the sexy women's bum you are protecting. Think of her not necessarily your cock"

Thank you xx

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I don't think I have ever had any issues with anal sex and condoms. I've used a variety of lubes from KY (OK but dries out), ID (great) and something with silk in the name from Ann Summers (almost as good as ID)...and have also gone from pussy to arse with the lady's juices on the condom.

It just doesn't seem to be an issue, though a good quality lube (better than KY) certainly makes it easier. "

Liquid Silk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In our experience for what it's worth lol does make it slip and slide a little easier and more comfortable for Mrs booty

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"Rings and other jewelery should also be removed to avoid injury...xx."

... and loss of ring somewhere very embarrassing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liquid silk or maximus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey does anyone have advise on how to make this work.

I've had anal sex with trusted partners and so haven't used condoms.

Whenever I've tried it on a meet or with a new girl, we've been thwarted by the condom, seems to great too much friction no matter how much lube I use.

What's the trick?

Stick it in bareback first.. After 5 strokes, pull out and put on the condom. Then go back in and fuck her all night "

If you are already going raw in her ass for any amount of strokes, what is the point of then putting a rubber on? 1 stroke or 1000 strokes, still the same chance of catching something

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Rings and other jewelery should also be removed to avoid injury...xx.

... and loss of ring somewhere very embarrassing. "

That's why it's called ya ringpiece

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