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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a work in progress really because i want to get better pictures took and conclude it better than I did but not sure how. Same with pictures. Not sure what to try. Any ideas be good thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems okay to me mate, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, especially your photo from the 11th

You might want to explain on your profile why you can't accom though, if you're a single man & you can't accom people have a tendancy to assume you're playing away.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Nothing wrong with it but you don't really need to say your well endowed or hygienic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah ok. I live with my mum as her carer as she's got advanced COPD. I am married and separated over 3 years. she lives on the same development with our kids.

My mum isn't well and lives in the front room and just reads so her house isn't anywhere I'd want to have sex.

Thanks I really appreciate the help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with it but you don't really need to say your well endowed or hygienic. "

Noted I shall edit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not say you're well endowed? some people look for that.

i think your profile is good and your pics.

sorry to hear about your mum, also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say your profile is very inviting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was immediately put off by the username. It made me think I would be dealing with a much older man, so if I was browsing I would have passed you by. Then I was pleasantly surprised when I looked at your profile and your age. What do you mean 'older man'? You're only 44! That's fairly typical of the people we mix with on the scene. Maybe consider changing you username, as it would be a shame to loose out on opportunities because the username gives the immediate impression that you are old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and pics are good though you are missing a bum pic for me to perve at

I must admit though I was expecting you to be in your 60's at least going by your user name.

You're only 44 Not what I'd call an older guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was immediately put off by the username. It made me think I would be dealing with a much older man, so if I was browsing I would have passed you by. Then I was pleasantly surprised when I looked at your profile and your age. What do you mean 'older man'? You're only 44! That's fairly typical of the people we mix with on the scene. Maybe consider changing you username, as it would be a shame to loose out on opportunities because the username gives the immediate impression that you are old."

Great minds think alike

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

its fine. Although when I see the phrase 'well hung', it reminds me of pheasants.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"I was immediately put off by the username. It made me think I would be dealing with a much older man, so if I was browsing I would have passed you by. Then I was pleasantly surprised when I looked at your profile and your age. What do you mean 'older man'? You're only 44! That's fairly typical of the people we mix with on the scene. Maybe consider changing you username, as it would be a shame to loose out on opportunities because the username gives the immediate impression that you are old.

Great minds think alike"

What they said! 44 isn't 'older' to many, or old. (If it is, god help me ...)

It certainly isn't the worst profile I've seen by a long chalk, but a few more pics would be good. Understand your reasons for not accommodating but maybe suggest how and where you'd like to meet instead - other than 'anywhere your not usually meant to have sex' - unless that's all you want! E.g. happy to split hotel costs, meet in a club etc.

Ms G

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

I like it, although I'm not sure we need to know your mums condition .

Something like

"I cannot accommodate as I am a full time carer to a relative who lives with me"

Something to that affect, but that is me being very picky.

Red x

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

I would also change that username x

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By *ourNaughtyNeighbourMan
over a year ago

Close enough :)

I asked this same question yesterday basically always good to know what needs improving imo

But I'm hoping I've got something a little more inviting now but I suppose only time will tell now, I did gain about 27 views a start from the odd 3 and no hellos

Happy FABing Bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone I really appreciate the help.

Ok I've changed it again and will add a bum picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I asked this same question yesterday basically always good to know what needs improving imo

But I'm hoping I've got something a little more inviting now but I suppose only time will tell now, I did gain about 27 views a start from the odd 3 and no hellos

Happy FABing Bro"

I had 40 odd views but no messages. Not even a fab

None of the people I message respond either.

It's disappointing when you have made the effort, been original in the message subject, friendly and polite, referenced common interests, included pictures and still nothing.

There's obviously something I'm not aware of wrong with me or how I'm coming across. Really wish people would be honest. I've got a good face, a good body, a nice personality and a big dick so why wouldn't people reply?

As I said I don't do crap messages, even if it's a short message to someone who didn't even write anything in their profile, I still make it punchy, cool and intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, add that you're a patient man as well. Apart from that your profile looks good to us.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I asked this same question yesterday basically always good to know what needs improving imo

But I'm hoping I've got something a little more inviting now but I suppose only time will tell now, I did gain about 27 views a start from the odd 3 and no hellos

Happy FABing Bro

I had 40 odd views but no messages. Not even a fab

None of the people I message respond either.

It's disappointing when you have made the effort, been original in the message subject, friendly and polite, referenced common interests, included pictures and still nothing.

There's obviously something I'm not aware of wrong with me or how I'm coming across. Really wish people would be honest. I've got a good face, a good body, a nice personality and a big dick so why wouldn't people reply?

As I said I don't do crap messages, even if it's a short message to someone who didn't even write anything in their profile, I still make it punchy, cool and intriguing.

"

I do ok on here and I'm nothing like you. It's a matter of time and making connections.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I asked this same question yesterday basically always good to know what needs improving imo

But I'm hoping I've got something a little more inviting now but I suppose only time will tell now, I did gain about 27 views a start from the odd 3 and no hellos

Happy FABing Bro

I had 40 odd views but no messages. Not even a fab

None of the people I message respond either.

It's disappointing when you have made the effort, been original in the message subject, friendly and polite, referenced common interests, included pictures and still nothing.

There's obviously something I'm not aware of wrong with me or how I'm coming across. Really wish people would be honest. I've got a good face, a good body, a nice personality and a big dick so why wouldn't people reply?

As I said I don't do crap messages, even if it's a short message to someone who didn't even write anything in their profile, I still make it punchy, cool and intriguing.

"

I'll be honest. You're not an older man, I expected to see that you were 60 so your name might be putting people off. You use the word nice a lot it's not inspiring and what you're after though exciting might be a bit too risky for some. You're a single man in a large group of single men it will be difficult. Try joining in the forums in a positive way, you look attractive in your pictures so should be well received also go to socials and network like mad. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pics of cocks when guys say they are well hung

And yeah the name doesn't do it for me either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like pics of cocks when guys say they are well hung

And yeah the name doesn't do it for me either."

Pic of my cock public now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok don't something about my username issue without changing it

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